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11-12-2008, 04:29 PM
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#1 | MiX iT Up!
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| The definition of "Clingy" ..
what is it... and where do you draw the line between clingy and getting to know/hanging - specially with a person you just met...
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11-12-2008, 04:54 PM
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at the start. more then one call a day.
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11-12-2008, 04:56 PM
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I wouldn't say the 2 are even related. Getting to know is being casual with no attachments or anything, clingy is the exact opposite.
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11-12-2008, 04:58 PM
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Clingy (for me) is when the person won't stop messaging you on msn, even if it says you're busy. They constantly call or text, wanting to know what you're doing or who you're with.
This is how Urban Dictionary defines clingy:
A boyfriend/girlfriend or possibly someone who likes you who becomes let's say, obsessed. Signs that your boyfriend/girlfriend is clingy: doesn't stop calling, constantly tells you how much they love/like you, writes you songs, buys you flowers/chocolate so much it gets annoying, and wants to spend time..all the time.
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11-12-2008, 06:16 PM
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calling 10+ times a day (sometimes within 4 hours)
always wants to know where you are or what youre doing
gets jealous when you are out with friends of the opposite sex
mind you, this is when you're not even together and not even bf/gf
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11-12-2008, 06:27 PM
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^I'd say thats stalkerish, way beyond clingy if you're not even dating
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11-12-2008, 08:31 PM
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that's more like possessive than clingy
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11-12-2008, 09:34 PM
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Clingy for me:
- wants to hang out every single day/every moment of spare time
- wants to be on the phone for hours every time he/she call
- gets annoyed whenever you want to hang out with friends without him/her
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11-13-2008, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted by unidentified Clingy for me:
- wants to hang out every single day/every moment of spare time
- wants to be on the phone for hours every time he/she call
- gets annoyed whenever you want to hang out with friends without him/her | yup that what I would call "clingy" too
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11-13-2008, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted by unidentified Clingy for me:
- wants to hang out every single day/every moment of spare time
- wants to be on the phone for hours every time he/she call
- gets annoyed whenever you want to hang out with friends without him/her | /end thread
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11-13-2008, 11:02 AM
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When he likes me more than I like him and it's obvious.
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11-13-2008, 02:54 PM
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#12 | 無敵
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^ so true
- messages/calls all the time
- always wants to hang out everyday
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11-13-2008, 10:48 PM
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Its hard sometimes, you wanna see them but still have to contain yourself at the same time. So if you dont see them you'll replace it by communicating with them, through phone, msn, w/e.
coming to think about it i havent seen her for a month....... this is insane
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11-14-2008, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted by unidentified Clingy for me:
- wants to hang out every single day/every moment of spare time
- wants to be on the phone for hours every time he/she call
- gets annoyed whenever you want to hang out with friends without him/her | but what if you are like that too?
then would you both be clingy?
i think clingy only happens when one side likes the otherside more.
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11-14-2008, 03:00 AM
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you'll know.
if you ever find yourself thinking: "wtf is up with this shit?"
you've just answered your own question.
ulic: if both folks were like that it wouldn't matter. neither would realize they're clingy and both would enjoy the constant attention.
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11-14-2008, 07:07 AM
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#16 | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by Hot Karl you'll know.
if you ever find yourself thinking: "wtf is up with this shit?"
you've just answered your own question.
ulic: if both folks were like that it wouldn't matter. neither would realize they're clingy and both would enjoy the constant attention. | Soo if one day one side stops talking, would you go insane, because you're soo used to it.
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12-02-2008, 04:09 AM
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i have a fucken clingy gf what should i do about it. I tried everything even beating her ass.
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12-02-2008, 05:51 AM
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Originally Posted by trdees i have a fucken clingy gf what should i do about it. I tried everything even beating her ass. | LMAO LOL
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12-08-2008, 01:57 AM
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Originally Posted by trdees i have a fucken clingy gf what should i do about it. I tried everything even beating her ass. | haha destroy her.
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12-08-2008, 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted by trdees i have a fucken clingy gf what should i do about it. I tried everything even beating her ass. |
Ahahahha, Should knock her out.
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12-10-2008, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted by trdees i have a fucken clingy gf what should i do about it. I tried everything even beating her ass. |
bahahahaha just kill her.... problem solved |
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12-11-2008, 11:28 PM
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i will rather have a clingy type of guy than an "asshole type of guy". thank you.
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12-12-2008, 06:37 AM
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Originally Posted by trdees i have a fucken clingy gf what should i do about it. I tried everything even beating her ass. | Tie her up to a chair and leave for a few hours |
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12-12-2008, 11:20 AM
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call me when you wake up
call me when you get to work
call me on your lunch break
call me when you get home
Had to lie about going to sleep so i could go hang out with some friends.
She goes through my phone and looks at everyone on my contact list
AIYA!!! Clingy bitch
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12-13-2008, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by TRD604 call me when you wake up
call me when you get to work
call me on your lunch break
call me when you get home
Had to lie about going to sleep so i could go hang out with some friends. She goes through my phone and looks at everyone on my contact list
AIYA!!! Clingy bitch | Just go through her phone as well haha
I don't see that as being a problem if you've got nothing to hide :dunno:
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