Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex... | | |
11-26-2008, 03:26 PM
|
#1 | I subscribe to the Fight Club ONLY
Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: BC, HK, USA
Posts: 7,313
Thanked 2,312 Times in 961 Posts
| where are all the good girls?
So i read the thread about girls seeking for the good guys, the question is are there any girls willing to step up and confidently admit they are a good catch?
I see a lot of guys here on RS willing to step up and at least show from the yaers of posting that they are legit, cool, confident, funny guys. Will any girl here admit (i know the demographics of girls being on here is slim) they are normal, not gold diggers, funny, and mature? If you are one of them, I'll surely willing to go out with you just to prove there are normal girls out there.
I'm single right now and I'm in the phase of dating a few girls. I'm going to post up a few dates and let you know how they go.
|
| |
11-26-2008, 03:30 PM
|
#2 | My homepage has been set to RS
Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Van City
Posts: 2,230
Thanked 9 Times in 7 Posts
|
Why? Good girls are a tricky buisness. Too good and they just are not any fun. Too bad and they are uiseless. its hard enough for a guy to keep track of whats decent, let alone for a chick. I tend to cut a lot of slack. BUt that tends to blow up in my face alot.
__________________
FS: 4 Michelin All season tires with 90% tread on one and 70% on the others, in great condition, good for any SUV. 235-65-R17
|
| |
11-26-2008, 03:42 PM
|
#3 | I subscribe to the Revscene NWS thread(s)
Join Date: May 2008 Location: Middle Kingdom
Posts: 1,914
Thanked 137 Times in 63 Posts
|
a "good girl" is like a diamond. in order to find a diamond you have to search in the right places. the problem is that we have too many "cubic zirconium" females walking around that are easily accessible.
how do you tell a diamond from a cubic zirconium? get a microscope.
__________________ Quote:
Originally Posted by boss_clad why you hating on the boss, anyways? | |
| |
11-26-2008, 03:56 PM
|
#4 | My homepage has been set to RS
Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Van City
Posts: 2,230
Thanked 9 Times in 7 Posts
|
wtf does that even mean?
__________________
FS: 4 Michelin All season tires with 90% tread on one and 70% on the others, in great condition, good for any SUV. 235-65-R17
|
| |
11-26-2008, 04:00 PM
|
#5 | I am Hook'd on RS
Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: vancouver
Posts: 60
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
|
Hey man, I think I'm a good girl. That's why I'm looking for a good guy!
I honestly think there are tons of good girls out there, but it's hard to meet them cause they're not going to come up to you and be like "Hey baby" Or they would be reserved and guarded cause they've been burned before
|
| |
11-26-2008, 04:33 PM
|
#6 | Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy
Join Date: May 2004 Location: vancouver
Posts: 303
Thanked 7 Times in 5 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by aurorastone Hey man, I think I'm a good girl. That's why I'm looking for a good guy!
I honestly think there are tons of good girls out there, but it's hard to meet them cause they're not going to come up to you and be like "Hey baby" Or they would be reserved and guarded cause they've been burned before | You should PM me!!! so, we can chat on MSn or something. Then i will know if your a good girl or not.
|
| |
11-26-2008, 05:00 PM
|
#7 | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 5,185
Thanked 1,379 Times in 578 Posts
|
its impossible to tell if a girl is good or not until you've been in a relationship.
too many relationship starts because of misjudgement and ends with understanding.
|
| |
11-26-2008, 05:21 PM
|
#8 | To me, there is the Internet and there is RS
Join Date: May 2001 Location: 604
Posts: 16,870
Thanked 605 Times in 200 Posts
|
true that
you can't tell until you are actually in a relationship with her
so you just gotta hope shes as good as she seems before hand and not find out its a lost cause in the relationship
|
| |
11-26-2008, 05:45 PM
|
#9 | NOOB, Not Quite a Regular!
Join Date: May 2007 Location: Richmond, BC
Posts: 26
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
|
what even defines a "good" girl in todays standards from guys's perspective (and girls too)???
i think a good girl is one who has strong morals and values (not necessarily religious), doesn't get easily influenced by others, has goals for the future for various aspects of her life, doesnt' give her self up easy but that doesnt mean she has to be a virgin, does not dress scandalously but more classy/respectfully and especially has the self respect of herself, her family and friends.
^ thats in a nutshell.
....personally. i think im a good girl...BUT..i have found my nice guy so :P
so we're a Good Nice couple. haha.
|
| |
11-26-2008, 05:55 PM
|
#10 | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Richmond
Posts: 11,187
Thanked 1,320 Times in 331 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by babychica002 what even defines a "good" girl in todays standards from guys's perspective (and girls too)???
i think a good girl is one who has strong morals and values (not necessarily religious), doesn't get easily influenced by others, has goals for the future for various aspects of her life, doesnt' give her self up easy but that doesnt mean she has to be a virgin, does not dress scandalously but more classy/respectfully and especially has the self respect of herself, her family and friends.
^ thats in a nutshell.
....personally. i think im a good girl...BUT..i have found my nice guy so :P
so we're a Good Nice couple. haha. | Hit it on the head, it's the exact same for guys too.
__________________ Quote: Originally posted by Girl ^ Yes it's sad when you stare at the shape of my penis through my overly skin tight jeans and not help but feel like a shameful little boy compared to me. | |
| |
11-26-2008, 06:10 PM
|
#11 | I WANT MY 10 YEARS BACK FROM RS.net!
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 20,386
Thanked 7,438 Times in 1,436 Posts
|
my definition of good girl:
good looking, good body, good at having sex, good at bj, good at flirting with me, good at making sandwich, good at paying bills, good personality, good at making money, good at cleaning my room...
that's why I can never find a good girl
|
| |
11-26-2008, 08:37 PM
|
#12 | Revscene.net has a homepage?!
Join Date: May 2004 Location: Burnaby
Posts: 1,282
Thanked 60 Times in 18 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by babychica002 what even defines a "good" girl in todays standards from guys's perspective (and girls too)???
i think a good girl is one who has strong morals and values (not necessarily religious), doesn't get easily influenced by others, has goals for the future for various aspects of her life, doesnt' give her self up easy but that doesnt mean she has to be a virgin, does not dress scandalously but more classy/respectfully and especially has the self respect of herself, her family and friends.
^ thats in a nutshell.
....personally. i think im a good girl...BUT..i have found my nice guy so :P
so we're a Good Nice couple. haha. | agreed. I find it hard to meet many of those. kinda like what Zhangfei said too many cubic zirconium out there???
|
| |
11-26-2008, 08:56 PM
|
#13 | WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Surrey
Posts: 1,677
Thanked 84 Times in 41 Posts
|
I had a good girl.
I no longer have her.
edit: By Asian_XL's standards, she wasn't that good after all... she couldn't cook worth shit! Make a sandwich? She opened a can of tuna, put it on stale bread and said "Here's your sandwich"... and she got upset when I didn't eat it! XD
Last edited by yuusha; 11-26-2008 at 08:58 PM.
|
| |
11-26-2008, 09:18 PM
|
#14 | MiX iT Up!
Join Date: May 2006 Location: vancouver
Posts: 8,133
Thanked 2,066 Times in 865 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by ZhangFei a "good girl" is like a diamond. in order to find a diamond you have to search in the right places. the problem is that we have too many "cubic zirconium" females walking around that are easily accessible.
how do you tell a diamond from a cubic zirconium? get a microscope. | sig'ed!
__________________ Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk.. "Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt |
| |
11-26-2008, 09:23 PM
|
#15 | I subscribe to the Revscene NWS thread(s)
Join Date: May 2008 Location: Middle Kingdom
Posts: 1,914
Thanked 137 Times in 63 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by ewong agreed. I find it hard to meet many of those. kinda like what Zhangfei said too many cubic zirconium out there??? | on some real shit though, where I am in my life at this point, do feel like a cubic zirconium myself. this is probably why my retention doesn't last that long.
i'm just trying to tighten up my ship ATM
sometimes I feel like I'm putting on a front and huffing and puffing and doing backflips to catch a bitch like a I am bird of paradise or some shit. its one thing to get a girl, but to keep her mentally locked till the end of time its almost impossible.
here's why
we are in our early twenties. nobody in the right mind will be monogamous when there's plenty of variety out there. try to eat rice and beef for the rest of your life. no matter how many times you cook it differently, stir fry, broiled, slow roasted. its still the same shit. you will get sick of it. ain't no question about it.
anyways. its one thing to fantasize about a woman with perfect ideals, its another thing to actually keep her. She's probably curious about the next guy as I am curious about the next bitch.
__________________ Quote:
Originally Posted by boss_clad why you hating on the boss, anyways? | |
| |
11-26-2008, 09:34 PM
|
#16 | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Your G/F home
Posts: 184
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by asian_XL my definition of good girl:
good looking, good body, good at having sex, good at bj, good at flirting with me, good at making sandwich, good at paying bills, good personality, good at making money, good at cleaning my room...
that's why I can never find a good girl | I thought good girls don't have sex until marriage?
|
| |
11-26-2008, 09:41 PM
|
#17 | Rs has made me the man i am today!
Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 3,073
Thanked 69 Times in 47 Posts
|
so is this like a RS girl feedback thread? lol..like buy/sell feedback..but for dating instead..?
|
| |
11-26-2008, 10:50 PM
|
#18 | I WANT MY 10 YEARS BACK FROM RS.net!
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 20,386
Thanked 7,438 Times in 1,436 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by poweredbyph I thought good girls don't have sex until marriage? | good girl shouldn't have sex with OTHERS but me...that's good girl
|
| |
11-26-2008, 11:41 PM
|
#19 | Rs has made me the man i am today!
Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Langley
Posts: 3,493
Thanked 2,183 Times in 606 Posts
|
good girls suck...flat out...
they never want kinky shit...they have their life on track...their to focused on life...
im 22....i want a girl who'll take it in the ass, suck me all the time, and want to fuck 24/7....
now, dont get me wrong..id love to have a good girl when im older...right now im looking for that girl...*aka slut* who will do it all whenever where-ever...
life is short...make the best of it while you can...
|
| |
11-27-2008, 06:46 AM
|
#20 | Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Surrey
Posts: 12,758
Thanked 688 Times in 375 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by stewie good girls suck...flat out...
they never want kinky shit...they have their life on track...their to focused on life...
im 22....i want a girl who'll take it in the ass, suck me all the time, and want to fuck 24/7....
now, dont get me wrong..id love to have a good girl when im older...right now im looking for that girl...*aka slut* who will do it all whenever where-ever...
life is short...make the best of it while you can... | |
| |
11-27-2008, 07:06 AM
|
#21 | I WANT MY 10 YEARS BACK FROM RS.net!
Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Abbotstan
Posts: 20,721
Thanked 12,136 Times in 3,361 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by asian_XL my definition of good girl:
good looking, good body, good at having sex, good at bj, good at flirting with me, good at making sandwich, good at paying bills, good personality, good at making money, good at cleaning my room...
that's why I can never find a good girl | Dude, you just described your mom!
__________________ Quote:
Originally Posted by Godzira Does anyone know how many to a signature? | .. Quote:
Originally Posted by Brianrietta Not a sebberry post goes by where I don't frown and think to myself "so..?" | |
| |
11-27-2008, 07:54 AM
|
#22 | I subscribe to the Fight Club ONLY
Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: BC, HK, USA
Posts: 7,313
Thanked 2,312 Times in 961 Posts
|
Wow, i didn't even post my dates yet and there are all these responses.
Good girl, to me just like what babychica002 said: a girl with good morals, values, family and friends. Personality & looks are subjective and obviously, good in bed, cooks, cleaning, earns her own money are just myths right?
i'll start off with my dates. Just a brief background about myself. I'm 28 and I'm a honger and a CBC combined. I am able to pull off on either spectrum.
Girl # 1, Date # 1: Thank goodness for TV.
I was introduced to a Honger girl thru a friend and she's 30. Decent looks, has her own job etc. and she speaks fluent chinese and english which was great. She did not like me at all when she met me. "wow, he's only 28, he's so young. I want to meet a guy that's 35" (What was funny was that she's 30 but during a few times when we met up for drinks, she plays with her iphone and acts like she's 22.)
I met her a few times and decided to just ask her out for movies and then grabbing a bite. I picked her up and the date just went downhill. She dressed up for me and she was nice enough to buy me drinks to bring into the theatres which was pretty cool. What made it boring was the 'dead air' when we were driving from her house to the theater. I'm a talkative guy and as much as I tried to initiate a conversation, it never got anywhere.
Movie ended and we decided to grab a quick bite. During the entire time we sat at the restaurant, I tried the 'how were your previous relationship, what's your family like, what do you like to do during your free time' questions but conversation got no where. The entire date was boring as heck and I was so blessed there was a TV at the restaurant.
I'm a very out going person, I really enjoy great conversations and I have no problem throwing an interesting topic back and forth, but this was proof that I need a girl with a personality that's able to hold an interesting conversation with.
|
| |
11-27-2008, 08:37 AM
|
#23 | I subscribe to the Fight Club ONLY
Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: BC, HK, USA
Posts: 7,313
Thanked 2,312 Times in 961 Posts
|
Girl # 2. Date 1 + Date 2. So you think you can dance.
This girl I met off the internet. MSN conversations were great with no dull moments. We met up for drinks at a local joint conversations were interactive. I paid for drinks headed to another restaurant for a light meal. She offered to take care of the bill since I paid last time. We went to a lounges, bar and met up with my friends, each time, we kept talking and she was able to drinking beer, pay for the bill. We laughed we drank and we departed ways.
Date 2.
My wingman and I went clubbing at a local joint. We met up with them and this was the ultimate challenge for me: dancing. Sing like no one is listening and dance like no one is watching. I've always dated girls that were great dancers. From my past experience, great dancers are always energeic, never shy and always able hold up to any situations.
I held my own and i really danced. The girl was impressed and I danced with all of her friends. Over all she was decent dancer, she's an out-going individual and she would fit a lot of the characterists that I looked for.
Bottom line, she's a decent girl, but somehow somewhere, I'm not like 100% super uberly physically attracted to her. She's not bad at all, just somehow I gotta go out with her more and see. To be continued...
|
| |
11-27-2008, 10:50 AM
|
#24 | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 589
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by 6793026 Bottom line, she's a decent girl, but somehow somewhere, I'm not like 100% super uberly physically attracted to her. She's not bad at all, just somehow I gotta go out with her more and see. To be continued... | Attraction can grow with time.
So you go on 3 dates with 2 girls and then assume there's no good girls?
Good girls are everywhere just don't get carried away with expectations. The 19yr old, import model, virgin girl doesn't exsist- get real.
I don't go looking for a tall, dark, handsome, 25yr old, 1 serious relationship man, with a wonderful personality! He doesn't exsist.
__________________
As Gordon Ramsey says: "Fuck me."
|
| |
11-27-2008, 05:03 PM
|
#25 | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Your G/F home
Posts: 184
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by vmec The 19yr old, import model, virgin girl doesn't exsist- get real. | The 19yr old, non-import model, virgin girl do exist.
I heard that most asians, non-cbc are usually virgins.. well the ones I've been meeting anyways.. even if you get naked with them, they don't go that far.
|
| | | |
Posting Rules
| You may not post new threads You may not post replies You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts HTML code is Off | | | All times are GMT -8. The time now is 04:48 PM. |