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02-06-2009, 06:48 AM
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#1 | | Ubereem Mod
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had this discussion with a guy and girl, and wow was i surprised.
The hypothetical question was : So your bf/gf cheated, you forgave them and told him/her to never see them again. But then you had an argument with your bf/gf and she/he did go see the cheated with because of your argument. NOW here's the question imposed:
Would you forgive your SO if your SO told you after.
Me and the Guy were like fuck no, get the fuck out of here bitch.
Girl: Well, i possible would forgive because "in my shoe, i might of just been in rage and wanted to do something or find someone".
Me and my friend were dumbfounded. gtfo out!
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02-06-2009, 07:05 AM
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#2 | | My dinner reheated before my turbo spooled
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I WOULDA CHOCKED DAT BITCH WITH MY BARE HANDS!!!!
haha no jk
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02-06-2009, 07:42 AM
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#3 | | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
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I would also say gtfo
even if I had the feeling to find someone else, you have to control yourself because it's still your responsibility as a bf/gf
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02-06-2009, 08:36 AM
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I would tell them.. GTFO.... for sure.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.. regardless of the "reasons". There are no legit reasons.
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02-06-2009, 11:53 AM
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#5 | | 無敵
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no.
like sweetiee said, once a cheater, always a cheater.
what's to stop them from doing it again and again?
whatever the reason, it's just a lousy excuse.
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02-06-2009, 12:00 PM
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#6 | | To me, there is the Internet and there is RS
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women.....
i would kick her out the door
hell, i would have kicked her out the door after the first time
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02-06-2009, 01:10 PM
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#7 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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me: fuck off don't come back
but I would have said that the first time around
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02-06-2009, 01:18 PM
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I don't think I'll ever forgive a cheater ever again. But in the case that I did and he goes and sees that girl than I would tell him to GTFO and DIAF.
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02-06-2009, 02:00 PM
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#9 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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i'd be like pzpz and walk to my car..... start it up and run her bitch ass over
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02-06-2009, 02:10 PM
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#10 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Originally Posted by Gt-R R34 had this discussion with a guy and girl, and wow was i surprised.
The hypothetical question was : So your bf/gf cheated, you forgave them and told him/her to never see them again. But then you had an argument with your bf/gf and she/he did go see the cheated with because of your argument. NOW here's the question imposed:
Would you forgive your SO if your SO told you after.
Me and the Guy were like fuck no, get the fuck out of here bitch.
Girl: Well, i possible would forgive because "in my shoe, i might of just been in rage and wanted to do something or find someone".
Me and my friend were dumbfounded. gtfo out! | I like her  | |
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02-06-2009, 02:15 PM
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#11 | | MoD
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Originally Posted by Gt-R R34 had this discussion with a guy and girl, and wow was i surprised.
The hypothetical question was : So your bf/gf cheated, you forgave them and told him/her to never see them again. But then you had an argument with your bf/gf and she/he did go see the cheated with because of your argument. NOW here's the question imposed | I had to read that three times before I finally understood what you meant....
but I would definitely kick the cheater out
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02-06-2009, 04:29 PM
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#12 | | I don't get it
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Getting into an argument is no excuse for them to violate your trust AGAIN by seeing this person. Although I m with the majority of the posters above me...cheating once will already mean GTFO.
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02-06-2009, 06:04 PM
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#13 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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First of all, I would never forgive someone for cheating on me to begin with. But if for some reason I did forgive that person, I would never accept someone back into my life who would do that AGAIN just because of an argument.
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02-07-2009, 01:41 AM
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#14 | | nuggets mod
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Well, IF that was the scenario, I'm obviously already a big retard for letting her go the first time, so I'd probably be just as retarded and take her back again.
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02-07-2009, 09:36 AM
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#15 | | Oh goodie, 5 posts already!
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As George Bush would say..
"There's an old saying in Tennessee — I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee — that says, fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again."  | |
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02-07-2009, 09:51 AM
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#16 | | Ubereem Mod
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Originally Posted by k2_alpha I had to read that three times before I finally understood what you meant....
but I would definitely kick the cheater out | early morning syndrome.
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02-07-2009, 09:55 AM
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#17 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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GTFO BIATCh
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02-11-2009, 12:42 PM
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#18 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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you can always demote her to friends wit benefit :P
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02-11-2009, 03:06 PM
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#19 | | Director of RS Cares
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i wouldn't even consider of returning to that relationship if the bf cheated. i have more self respect and love for myself than to let some loser have another chance with me when they fucked it up in the first place.
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02-11-2009, 03:36 PM
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#20 | | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Originally Posted by miss_crayon i wouldn't even consider of returning to that relationship if the bf cheated. i have more self respect and love for myself than to let some loser have another chance with me when they fucked it up in the first place. | You know, EVERY single girl says this. Self-Respect, Love for myself, blah blah blah. But you'd be surprised how much of a lie this is and the amount of girls this is true to. (It's not a small margin). Could very well apply to you one day depending on the circumstances.
You'd be surprised to see how people react when faced difficult circumstances. Though ideal, life is not so cut and dry/black and white you know. Some girls wouldn't end a relationship due to infidelity for one of the many following reasons:
*Over investment in a relationship
*Dependence (social/emotional/financial)
*Fear of failure
etc. etc.
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02-11-2009, 03:46 PM
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#21 | | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
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tell the girl to fk off or keep her for the benefits and look for another one =)
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02-11-2009, 05:44 PM
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#22 | | I don't get it
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Originally Posted by Noir You know, EVERY single girl says this. Self-Respect, Love for myself, blah blah blah. But you'd be surprised how much of a lie this is and the amount of girls this is true to. (It's not a small margin). Could very well apply to you one day depending on the circumstances. | Very true, actually. Girls tend to be a little more clingy and attached when it comes to things like these
but if he cheated once, and went to her for COMFORT after you guys fought, then you know there's something not right there. He couldve gone to ANY of his guy friends or other girl friends OTHER than that chick. Any girl, or guy for that matter would flip, i highly doubt anyone would stick around for much longer after that unless you're really desperate and dependent on the other person that you just CANT LET GO.
but then again, thats just pathetic imo.
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02-24-2009, 02:59 AM
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#23 | | I STILL don't get it
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as if going back to that person is gonna help the relationship
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03-02-2009, 11:37 AM
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i would, and I did.
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03-02-2009, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by bartone i would, and I did. | +1
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