Alright, im going to give you a heads up this will be a bit long. I need all the advice I can get...
So theres this girl I have been friends with since approx. july 08. We hit things off great, would go for coffee (shes not 19 so no legal drinks yet), would spend a couple days of the week hanging out when I was off work.
Fast forward now to nov. 08. I tell her I have feelings for her and I ask if she has the same back. She says no, just wanted a healthy friendship which I was fine with. That november she begins dating someone. Thats where shit gets fucked! While dating this guy, she would spend the night, in the same bed as me. Let me massage her with no shirt/bra, and eventually she would start getting changed infront of me. Obviously im thinking with my cock at this point in time and I dont really mind. Shes beautiful, 10/10 body, personality I got along with really well. So then I asked her again, do you have feelings for me, and if not why are you doing this stuff? She replies because I trust you, were just good friends. Her and this guy broke up eventually.
Now, she calls me her bestfriend, has shown me some parts of her "friends" dont show each other, let me feel things "friends" shouldnt' feel. Again, thinking with my cock, dont mind at all.
At this point, we would hang out daily, every day, shed spend the night 3-4 nights in a row, cuddle, change, walk around in a towel, etc. Massages would get a little lower and lower each time. We have never fooled around except the one time i felt some stuff.
So im all fuckin confused, I call my buddy up, whos met her and all 3 of us chill out at the same time quite often, who gives me the simple input: "You two are dating, but neither of you will admit it". I knew that was coming. So he tells her this on msn and she flips out on him, and calls me to freak out because i told him the stuff her and I do (I did not get into full details).
Basically, Thats a huge fucking slim version of shit. Cliff notes
Girl who wont date me will change infront of me
share my bed
let me massage her topless
let me massage her bum
let me felt stuff, let me see stuff
calls me daily to hang out
gives me hugs all the time
What do I do. Ive told her this needs to stop but she suggests it shouldn't.