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02-26-2009, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by DGiRL  ur bf is nothing but an 'aint shit nigga'.
kick him to the curb and while ur at it get some self respect and stop dating guys who make u feel bad about ur weight. u should be dating someone who betters u and enhances the quality of ur life.. not bring u down and makes u feel self conscious.
dont mean to sound rude but thats truth. if he loved u, he would appreciate ur body whether u shrunk down, ballooned up or stayed the same. if ur trying to lose weight, do it for urself until ur happy with ur own image..not him, he doesn't sound like he is worth 1/4 of that dedication & hard work! | WAT THE FUCK 
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02-27-2009, 12:37 AM
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#52 | | Orgasm Donor & Alatar owned my ass twice!
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it's a shame that attraction of guys and girls are different.
In general, most girls' initial attraction of a guy is their confidence, power, alpha male-ness and not really looks while guys' initial attract of a girl is their physical traits.
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02-27-2009, 12:44 AM
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Originally Posted by jonogunn8 In general, most girls' initial attraction of a guy is their confidence, power, alpha male-ness and not really looks while guys' initial attract of a girl is their physical traits. | holy fucking revelation bat man. in other news, if i unplug my computer, the screen goes all black for some reason. can you solve that mystery too
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02-27-2009, 12:58 AM
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#54 | | Orgasm Donor & Alatar owned my ass twice!
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^lol
i'm just trying to say that though I agree with everyone here saying that the guy is a douche for constantly haggling her to lose weight, guys like their chicks, hot. The op may think "well I don't bug HIM and HIS weight", but does she really even care about his weight? That's just what I'm getting at.
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02-27-2009, 01:44 AM
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i know, and i agree with you completely
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02-27-2009, 09:22 AM
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wow..
this article couldnt have come at a better time http://www.t-nation.com/free_online_..._arent_you_hot
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02-27-2009, 01:42 PM
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^damn if I were that chick, I would take that offer. Especially if he offered to work out with me =o
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02-27-2009, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted by penner2k | This article works against the OP
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02-27-2009, 02:37 PM
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#59 | | To me, there is the Internet and there is RS
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Originally Posted by Draft This article works against the OP | I guess I didn't get the memo that said I was supposed to agree with her.
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02-27-2009, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by penner2k I guess I didn't get the memo that said I was supposed to agree with her. | ok ok calm down chief, I didnt know what point you were trying to get across by posting that article thats all
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03-06-2009, 03:41 PM
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#61 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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Originally Posted by BoneThug id prefer a little less to love and a little more that i can go out in public with | lol! That is most guy's motto, I guess!!
If not, then what? The guy is ashamed to be seen in public with the girl? Why not just "brown bag" the girl 24/7?
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03-06-2009, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted by ~designer_rice~ lol! That is most guy's motto, I guess!!
If not, then what? The guy is ashamed to be seen in public with the girl? Why not just "brown bag" the girl 24/7? | cause just because your friends cant see how ugly she actually is doesnt mean they wont still know she is ugly.
"hey jim, whats with the bag on your girl?"
"oh that, she just had face surgery for her beautiful face so it cant be exposed to uv light. you know how beautful faces are right hahaha....yeah you know what i mean (Y)"
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03-07-2009, 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Draft ok ok calm down chief, I didnt know what point you were trying to get across by posting that article thats all | he called you chief...i loled
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03-07-2009, 04:09 AM
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Originally Posted by penner2k | That was a fucking good read
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03-07-2009, 03:42 PM
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I think that you should be happy that your boyfriend is telling you that he is less attracted to you, and giving you an opportunity to do something about it. Rather than just leaving you. Sure, maybe he could have approached it with more tact, but either way, he was open and honest with you, what more could you ask for.
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03-09-2009, 10:52 PM
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#66 | | Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
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sry black cloud.. im guilty.. haha see, u make an effort by going to the gym.. my gf just sits and studies... so i dont feel bad about telling her shes overweight
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03-13-2009, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by jonogunn8
In general, most girls' initial attraction of a guy is their confidence, power, alpha male-ness and not really looks while guys' initial attract of a girl is their physical traits.
| :/ i disagree. even if a guy is confident, alpha male, blah blah, if he didn't look decent, no girl would even give him a second glance. guys and girls are equally judgmental nowadays..
if your boyfriend is not that in shape either then wtf....? he doesn't have the right to criticize you. 15-20 lbs to lose is quite a bit... i don't think you should do it on purpose though if it makes you uncomfortable. i think you should work on increasing overall relationship satisfaction instead. like put more effort into surprises, date ideas, etc, then the weight issue won't be as prominent...
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03-13-2009, 06:15 PM
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doesn't hurt to lose some weight or be more active and eat healthier
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03-13-2009, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted by BabyJane :/ i disagree. even if a guy is confident, alpha male, blah blah, if he didn't look decent, no girl would even give him a second glance. guys and girls are equally judgmental nowadays..
if your boyfriend is not that in shape either then wtf....? he doesn't have the right to criticize you. 15-20 lbs to lose is quite a bit... i don't think you should do it on purpose though if it makes you uncomfortable. i think you should work on increasing overall relationship satisfaction instead. like put more effort into surprises, date ideas, etc, then the weight issue won't be as prominent... | definitely. looks matter a ton.
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03-14-2009, 11:50 PM
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I don't think I missed it if it was mentioned/asked before but.. did you put on the bit of weight since the relationship started and did he too, or did you both look the same since day 1?
IMO, physical attraction is human nature, not superficial...it's really just the standards over physical looks that have just ballooned far past reasonable expectations.
If you're comfortable in your own skin, feeling healthy, then kick king of hypocrispy to the curb.
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