[Confidential] Wanting to date others out of curiosity The following is an Anonymous submission from a Revscene member. If the OP would like to respond to anything said in this thread, please PM me. If your SO mentioned that he/she wondered what it'd be like to date other people and both of you were happy with eachother would you let him/her go? or what would you do? assuming your the one who is committed. |
I think that is a massive warning sign that they are getting bored of the relationship. It's not grounds for a breakup, but maybe you should find something fun the both of you can do, like go on a trip |
Something to spice it up would be nice but you can only do so much. If they have that curiosity of dating others, they'll probably keep having that itch until they do. So maybe it's best to let them go for awhile and if you both realize there's nothing else better than good, if not well there's always someone else. It's going to be difficult for you but maybe your SO feels that he/she isn't sure whether you are the best for them. So I guess all you really can do is talk it through and see if there's anything you or both of you could do. |
Dangerous waters man (or woman). I was dating someone, actually living with her, and she told me she sometimes wondered what it was like to date other people and asked if I'd ever let her go on a 'coffee date' with someone. I was already planning to dump her as soon as she was done school because I didn't want to fuck with her emotions around exam time. Found out she had cheated on me and we ended it. Which wasn't too bad for me since I already didn't want to be with her. If I were in a relationship I would not let my SO go on a date with another man. I would probably become suspicious about them cheating on me and either look for warning signs or kick them to the curb. Or, tell them you don't mind them seeing another person just to see what kind of reaction they give you. If they get mad or upset that you let them, they are probably just testing you to see where your commitment level is. If they get happy cause you don't mind them seeing other people, it's pretty well over, lol. Some of the more common warning signs on cheating listed below if you want to look. Spoiler! |
If your SO was perfectly happy with you why would that even come up? Sounds like someone's about to cheat... |
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To be honest, I don't think that's a topic for normal, sincere couples to have--especially if they were happy to begin with. So when he or she is bringing that up, there should be a big red ALERT in your head. -Physixx |
who would want to date other people when he/she is already happy in the current relationship? to me it sounds like she is getting bored and isn't feeling excited about the relationship anymore therefore curious to know how it would feel to date someone else that is not you. |
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Let him/her go immediately. If someone would ask that question probably means he/she have thought about it at some level of seriousness. Or worse "other people" might be more specific than you think. I mean who is dumb enough to ask that question just for fun? |
no. i would not be down. |
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This is interesting because my ex and I talked about this. My ex had been with many guys so she knows what she wants. However, I only went out with 3 and each of them lasted about a month or so. She goes on ranting about how I might like someone else along the way when I find out that there's someone better. To be honest, I think it's bs and I believe that if you're happy and content with that person, it'll last. What about those who ended up marrying the first person they ever had a relationship with? I never believed that a person needs to go through many relationships to find out what they want. |
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