Originally Posted by darknight86
So my ex-girlfriend and i just recently broken up from a 4 year relationship. We had many ups and downs, breakups and makeups. I still miss and care for her but the "spark" seems to be fading away and now she wants me back. Recently, she's been really nice to me and telling me how she still wants to be with me and that she never wanted this to happen. A part of me still wants her but i am not sure if i should go back with her or live my life without her? 4 years is a hella long time for me so when i come to think about it, maybe i should give another try? She was my first girlfriend and meant the world to me but my feelings for her just isn't as strong anymore. I'm in such a dilemma right now. Should we get back together? Has a smiliar situation happened to anyone before and how did you handle it?
How old are you and your gf?
Maybe you guys are in a transition phase, she tried to live it out but got scared. Don't be a safety-net!