Serious question for the ladies
 

How long did the pain last for after having sex for the first time?

For some background information: Asking this on behalf of my pathetic buddy who got mindfucked by a bitch who still wouldn't put out after going out with my buddy for 3 years for whatever reason (my take on this is that she's looking for someone "better" like wealthier, but she's far from pretty and doesn't really have an option other than to continue to go out with my buddy). I told him to give her the ultimatum if he's that unhappy about not getting laid, she suddenly decided to give my buddy everything, aka sex (probably realized that she's ugly, has a shitty attitude, and no one else, other than my buddy, is stupid enough to be mindfucked like that for 3 years). Anyway, all these years, she told my buddy that he's her first BF (which I doubt, as she's a deceiving bitch all along, but my buddy is a dumb ass and he chose to make excuses for whatever lies the bitch throws at him) and that she's a virgin (which I also doubt). According to him, her vagina is loose when she was on top of him... but as my buddy never had sex before, he said may be he didn't do it right and it didn't seem like she had any pain afterwards.

Anyway, back to the original question: how long did the pain last for after you had sex for the first time?

Not long. Couple of hours at most. Why not ask if there was any blood after?

Contrary to what many think, looseness cannot be tied down to how easy a girl is. Some girls have different elasticity down there-- muscle strength. However, if she was on top, that sounds more painful...

i thought all girls bled first time

one time i was with a girl she bled a little even though not a virgin

sometimes they would pop their cherry themselves by putting something long enough in thier vagina, so it might not hurt if they had sex for the first time.

though i know someone that bleeds a bit everytime she sticks something in her vagina whether or not shes on her period or not.

there could be blood or no blood...it could also be her period...
also you poke your large penis in does not necessary pop her cherry

then define virgin, if she has masturbated before, does that mean she's not a virgin?
it could be your friend has a small penis, who knows...


the tightest pussy, I have fucked, I could barely put my middle finger in it. Also the biggest, I could almost put my fist in it.

Virgin as in never engaged in sexual intercourse before.

and yeah... girls on top should hurt more I'd imagine.

if she's so wet, and he wears a super lub condom, entering shouldn't be that difficult.

as I was told by gf and exs...girls get 2 feelings...pain and high... they might cancel each other out sometimes.

just because one girl bled the first time doesn't mean the next girl will. just because one girl felt major pain down there the first time doesn't mean the next girl will. all in all, everyone is different.

it really depends on how the girl "feels" down there when the penis goes in. is she wet enough? was there enough lube? is she relaxed? is she nervous so she's clenching hard down there?

being lubricated down there is probably the most important thing when it comes to sex for the first time (for a girl). if she's as dry as a socket of course it's going to hurt and probably bleed due to friction. but if she's nice and lubricated then it's easier for the penis to slip in. i won't say she won't feel ANY pain at all, but i would say it's more of a slight discomfort than anything. after the first couple times, a girl shouldn't hurt anymoe but maybe a feel bit sore. i mean, imagine a rock hard stick thrusting into you over and over again.

How in the fuck can they date for 3 years and not do it? They're just friends....

took someone long enough to say that.

Now- no more, serious topic!

I actually heard of sexless relationships going on longer than that.
Close friend is at 2 years because she's the firm innocent type.
Another 5 years because girl avoided the topic and guy has no guts. This is for going all the way though. Who knows what went on in between.

there are countless examples out there...

I know a chick who only gives BJ to her bf in the past 6 years, no vaginal sex
another friend of mine...no sex for 3 years, then fuck madly ever since
me and my current gf, didn't have sex until 4-5 months, can't remember.
a buddy's sister, popped her cherry when she was 27, and that was her 6th relationship if I am correct.

all the christian friends I know, all virgins as they claimed.



back to impactx's issue here...why do you care so much she's a virgin or not?
is it another asian guy mentality that "oh, virgin means so much to me, no virgin,
no go." I'd say leave them alone, this is not your problem. Your friend should be
smart enough to tell whether she's a whore or not.

I've never been with a virgin but I heard that most girls will bleed after.

+1

It's never taken me more than 2 weeks of dating to take a woman to bed.

Then again, I guess I'm lucky.

Or just good.

errrr are you beign serious? please tell me u're joking?
girls being on top hurt more? wow... i really do not know how to even respond to that.

if a girl is loose cause of the frequency of getting laid then porn stars would be just a black hole tunnel by now.

Like most of the girls have said already, it's dependent on the girl as to if she bleeds or has pain. The pain I had only lasted for about 20 minutes.

Cuz she's getting it from someone else...

She's deceiving...you said it yourself.

something must of happened to her and her bed buddy so she decided to give it to your buddy..


not only will i never be played by an ugly girl... even if she's hot this would not happen... smack some sense into your buddy

even i woulda fucked my friend if i had 3 yrs

what's wrong with that?

hes gay

i can't imagine going on top for the first time.. it was already painful as it is, i had to stop lol

actually on top would be easier in my opinion
you can move yourself onto him at YOUR time and pace, whereas if the guy goes in with missionary he can only control what he thinks is good for you

This forum is so serious compared to clubrsx. I have to get used to serious responses...

But I have to say... 3 years, they're just friends.