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Old 09-13-2009, 11:14 PM   #1
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[Confidential] im in love with another man's wife

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So I work for this company that deals with the retail industry. Lately I have been station at metro town, and I met this beautiful girl that works for an “underwear” store. She was really friendly big pretty eyes and a nice little frame... I have fall in love. We hangout a couple of times and I though everything was doing well. Then she drop the bomb on me, she told me she was married and have two kids. She told me this because she wants to be out front with me and also said she was confused. A day had past and I received a call from her and told me she was not happy with her husband and wants to leave, but does not what to confuse the kids. I haven’t seen her for a few days now. I haven’t contacted her and she hasn’t either. I don’t know if I should be mad or what! My brain tells me to leave but my heart tells to stay. I don’t want to be a cause of a broken home. I don’t know what to do.

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Old 09-13-2009, 11:23 PM   #2
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1st...learn the English
2nd...She's off limits, she is just confiding in you, she's not interested in you...save yourself before you get hurt
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Old 09-13-2009, 11:24 PM   #3
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Don't get so close to a woman that is married. Things will not end well. You can approach her after they have separated and have settled things. I know it's tough but that's the best choice. You can still keep in contact with her but don't show too much love for her. It's dangerous! As dangerous as stepping into a 50 year old field filled with untouched mines.
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Old 09-14-2009, 12:08 AM   #4
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being a homewrecker is not cool
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Old 09-14-2009, 12:10 AM   #5
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in total agreement with the above comments,
stay away from her.
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Old 09-14-2009, 12:26 AM   #6
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pretend she has some sorta HIV or something, dont be a homewrecker
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Old 09-14-2009, 12:33 AM   #7
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Don't be a homewrecker.
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Old 09-14-2009, 12:35 AM   #8
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^ agreed. you don't want to be "that guy"
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Old 09-14-2009, 01:18 AM   #9
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don't be a homewrecker.
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Old 09-14-2009, 02:35 AM   #10
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1) how old are you? how old is she?
2) are you financially stable?
3) would you accept going out with someone that has two kids?
4) what did his husband do to make her feel unhappy?
5) do you know if her husband killed someone in the past? or gang member?
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Old 09-14-2009, 08:07 AM   #11
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only get with her once they are broken up if that ever happens
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Old 09-14-2009, 08:13 AM   #12
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do you really want to be raising someone elses kids?

not worth it dude...
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I would sooooo tap that. But then again I'm an asshole.
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Totally off limits, any married person is off limits. Doesn't matter if she's happy or not, she has a family and thats the bottom line. Take some time off, it'll fade trust me.
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Old 09-14-2009, 08:57 AM   #15
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Do not home-wreck.
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Old 09-14-2009, 08:59 AM   #16
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You are not giving much info on why you like her so much. .except that she is friendly (which could be flirty)...and she is pretty...

Leave.. she is confiding in you.. not wanting to be with you..
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in total agreement with the above comments,
stay away from her.
I see a general theme here: Do Not Home-Wreck...
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1) how old are you? how old is she?
2) are you financially stable?
3) would you accept going out with someone that has two kids?
4) what did his husband do to make her feel unhappy?
5) do you know if her husband killed someone in the past? or gang member?
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You are not giving much info on why you like her so much. .except that she is friendly (which could be flirty)...and she is pretty...

Leave.. she is confiding in you.. not wanting to be with you..
Answer XL's question, but the ultimate answer is from hamsup.
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home wreck is not cool man..
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she is using you as a sounding board... A normal person would mention her kids right off the bat. A pair of kids should have been the priority for this woman. It should not have been a bomb a couple of "dates" in

there might be a problem when she has two kids and is still working at a underwear store... Im assuming its a run of the mill mall type store. not some exclusive one.
There might be financial problems on her end. She might be looking for a way out...

But if you do decide to home wreck, be prepared to support two kids.

So, in conclusion,

Don't be a home wrecker. Not good for you or for the family.
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Old 09-14-2009, 04:56 PM   #21
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Old 09-14-2009, 05:07 PM   #22
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i bet the husband beats her, and i also bet he'll beat you if he knows your intention =T
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stay away man, home wrecker ftl.
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Old 09-14-2009, 05:35 PM   #24
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bang her. you didn't wreck the home, you just happened to stumble upon one.
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Old 09-14-2009, 07:25 PM   #25
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bang her. you didn't wreck the home, you just happened to stumble upon one.
+1 just bang bang bang her and make sure to stick it up the ass. Afterwards let her know you guys are just fuck buddies =D Win Win!
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