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12-03-2009, 12:11 AM
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#1 | DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BITCH?
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I've never quite looked into this until tonight. Consider the followings:
A guy and a girl in a long term relationship.
Guy has his own place or place with a roomate,
Whenever guy's friends come over, they enter his room, jump on his bed, and stuff of that nature, etc.
Compared to,
A guy and a girl in a long term relationship.
Guy has his own place or place with a roomate,
Whenever guy's friends come over, they never enter his room, or come anywhere near teen feet of his closed room door.
How will the sex life, and more importantly the longevity of the two relationships vary?
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12-03-2009, 12:41 AM
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for me, the bedroom is a sacred place between me and my partner. i wouldn't want his buddies sitting on the blankets where we fucked/made love. don't taint my perfect place!
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12-03-2009, 01:29 AM
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Guy's buddies? My male friends do this all the time my bed isn't safe from any of them. Wait that sounds wrong...
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12-03-2009, 02:38 AM
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#4 | DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BITCH?
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Originally Posted by miss_crayon for me, the bedroom is a sacred place between me and my partner. i wouldn't want his buddies sitting on the blankets where we fucked/made love. don't taint my perfect place! | So you think to you that it will make a huge difference in the sex life of your relationship?
Maybe unrelated, but what about the longevity of the relationship?
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12-03-2009, 07:02 AM
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I don't think it'll make a difference at all. I wouldnt care knowing that my friends jumped all over my bed. Though this has never happened, I wouldnt care if they did. They would all know that I fuck on that bed |
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12-03-2009, 07:14 AM
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#6 | DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BITCH?
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Originally Posted by hotjoint I don't think it'll make a difference at all. I wouldnt care knowing that my friends jumped all over my bed. Though this has never happened, I wouldnt care if they did. They would all know that I fuck on that bed | What about her bed and guy friends?
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12-03-2009, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by miss_crayon for me, the bedroom is a sacred place between me and my partner. i wouldn't want his buddies sitting on the blankets where we fucked/made love. don't taint my perfect place! | A man's bedroom is not a sacred place between you and your partner, unless you live together, it's a place to fuck and sleep.
you don't want his buddies sitting on the blankets? whats the big deal?
does the fact that he probably fucked his ex 10000x and a few sluts on that same bed "taint your perfect place"?
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12-03-2009, 07:45 PM
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I'm a clean freak, i've got nice comfy couches to sit on, i bought them for that purpose. you fucking sit on the couches, not my fucking bed.
there are things called seats, chairs, and couches, use them. a bed is for sleeping and fucking. if you're not doing either, get the fuck off of it.
no one touches my bed. no one sits on my bed, not even me. unless they're in clean clothes that they do not wear outside. and even then, unless they're someone I wanna fuck, I usually freak the fuck out and take a bat to their heads. ok well not that extreme. but i don't like it.
it's like the one thing I don't have to share, it's MY FUCKING BED.
gotta share the toilet, your tv, your couches, your food, your everything with guests. but not your bed. that's yours.
i mean, unless you're poor as fuck and can't afford a couch, lol, then you probably don't give a shit about how clean things are anyways.
and what's with people that don't take off their shoes in their houses? then come straight from outside straight into their bedrooms, with their shoes on. fucking disgusting pigs. Quote:
Originally Posted by Physixx What about her bed and guy friends? | no. |
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12-03-2009, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by stotch you don't want his buddies sitting on the blankets? whats the big deal?
does the fact that he probably fucked his ex 10000x and a few sluts on that same bed "taint your perfect place"? | i don't think it's to do with the sex. it's to do with the fact that...
say you have someone over (either gender), they're over to service something, i duno, fix your tv, electrician, ... uhh a interior designer, whatever.
they get thirsty and tired, they ask if they can take a seat, your live in a tiny place, your bed is right there, do you invite them to sit on your blankets?
fuck no.
you sleep there. i would easily lay on my blanket and roll around it and i would know it's clean.
would you do that with a public theatre seat? no. cuz it's fuckin dirty. what the fuck has been on it? you don't know.
what the fuck has been on your pants? your friends pants? it's fuckin dirty.
yeah and eating in bed, only savages do that.
shit, i sound like a fucking parent. HAHA.
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12-03-2009, 11:03 PM
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i agree with ulic. get some god damn chairs
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12-03-2009, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Physixx So you think to you that it will make a huge difference in the sex life of your relationship?
Maybe unrelated, but what about the longevity of the relationship? | oh actually i never thought of that. i don't think it would make or break the longevity of the relationship, i'd just prefer him to keep it between me and him. i might not like it if his friends were in there lougning around, but it's not something breakup worthy. Quote:
Originally Posted by stotch A man's bedroom is not a sacred place between you and your partner, unless you live together, it's a place to fuck and sleep.
you don't want his buddies sitting on the blankets? whats the big deal?
does the fact that he probably fucked his ex 10000x and a few sluts on that same bed "taint your perfect place"? | i could care less if he used the same bed to fuck whoever he dated before. the past is the past. but if he's in a relationship with me, then i'd want it just for me and him. i don't see why many friends would go into their buddies room to hang and sit on the bed and chill.
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12-04-2009, 06:41 AM
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haha glad none of my friends wear their shoes in my place. they take them off the minute they come in.
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12-04-2009, 06:46 AM
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If you have friends jumping on your bed then you are a 12 year old.
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12-07-2009, 12:34 AM
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#14 | DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BITCH?
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Originally Posted by miss_crayon oh actually i never thought of that. i don't think it would make or break the longevity of the relationship, i'd just prefer him to keep it between me and him. i might not like it if his friends were in there lougning around, but it's not something breakup worthy. | I see. I ask because my buddy's girlfriend refuses to have sex with him in his room.
Granted, his room is a complete pigsty, but the reason given to him was that he lets too many people on to his bed. Quote:
Originally Posted by Neoxphuse If you have friends jumping on your bed then you are a 12 year old. | If you assume nobody has this problem then you might not have many friends...just a thought.
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12-07-2009, 12:48 AM
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Have you guys ever had your friends OFFER their room/bed for you to fuck your gf/bf on?
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12-07-2009, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted by min.tee Have you guys ever had your friends OFFER their room/bed for you to fuck your gf/bf on? | yup, they just said it better be clean afterwards |
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12-07-2009, 04:02 PM
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^wow haha!
i dont think it should affect it, if the room is a pigsty thats probably the REAL reason she wont let him fuck her in his room. combination of him being messy/gross and his friends being equally messy and gross (id assume this if i were in her position)
i agree with ulic. i hate anyones "street clothes" on my bed. BUY CHAIRS
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12-07-2009, 04:08 PM
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i dont remember the last time i washed my sheets
but i make my friends/girls shower if they want to crash on it
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12-07-2009, 04:14 PM
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#19 | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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Originally Posted by min.tee Have you guys ever had your friends OFFER their room/bed for you to fuck your gf/bf on? | That's crossing a line right into disgusting.
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12-07-2009, 04:17 PM
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ew thats gross, it sounds like its almost cleaner not to shower before rolling around in ur bed.
i wash my sheets every week and a bit... or 2 weeks max simply because i like the smell of gain detergent heheh
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12-08-2009, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Inaii That's crossing a line right into disgusting. | I, too, thought so at first... then, it simply became... convenient? |
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12-08-2009, 03:22 AM
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#22 | DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BITCH?
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Originally Posted by min.tee Have you guys ever had your friends OFFER their room/bed for you to fuck your gf/bf on? | I did that once for my friend in highschool.
..and then regretted it forever.
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12-08-2009, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted by juicyjum ^wow haha!
i dont think it should affect it, if the room is a pigsty thats probably the REAL reason she wont let him fuck her in his room. combination of him being messy/gross and his friends being equally messy and gross (id assume this if i were in her position)
i agree with ulic. i hate anyones "street clothes" on my bed. BUY CHAIRS | yeah, but I didn't do it, just didnt feel right. I have to fuck on my own bed |
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12-08-2009, 01:32 PM
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No street clothes on my bed.
You gotta wear PJs or be naked. Unless you're a hot chick, with or without PJs, you're not welcome on my bed. Ok my son's an exception, but he has to be wearing PJs too.
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12-08-2009, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Physixx I see. I ask because my buddy's girlfriend refuses to have sex with him in his room.
Granted, his room is a complete pigsty, but the reason given to him was that he lets too many people on to his bed.
If you assume nobody has this problem then you might not have many friends...just a thought. | is the room messy? or dirty? or both?!
i agree with those who don't allow street clothes on the bed.... i'm the same way. i might let him keep his shirt on...but definitely not jeans. then again... i consider myself a germaphobe.
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