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02-04-2010, 02:56 AM
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| [Confidential] What to do about the ex gf The following is an Anonymous submission by an Anonymous Revscene member. If the member would like me to reply to any post please feel free to let me know
Ok so there's this girl that I've dated in highschool, broke up with her for a few reasons mainly being, a crapload of other girls to experience. So single life was for me since she was pushing for commitment. We were always friends, having the casual bite or seeing a movie that just came out. We had our own lives so we drifted apart but still stayed in touch over the years. Fast forward about 9 years, this certain ex is in a situation with her bf and she is calling/bbming me for advice. Apparently the guy who she is with, doesn't care much for her and uses her (for rides home when he's out drinking, cooks him food, then tells her to go home etc). Now they're pretty much broken up and she's calling me for comfort which is fine. But the thing that throws me off is she's pretty clingy (she's asking why I broke up with her back then and hinting that we should hang out). I just said I wanted to be single and said that'd be okay... I can almost guarantee that she'll cling on to me, by the things she says about how I'm that 'guy'. I know that if I sleep with her now, I'll probably be stalked for years! Don't want to be settled down and her personality is very selfish always wanting her way. She's an 8-8.5/10 and No I will not post her pictures.
What to do?
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02-04-2010, 02:59 AM
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Keep sleeping with her till she gets tired of your cawk. Posted via RS Mobile |
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02-04-2010, 06:08 AM
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tell her straight up, u enjoy the single life and you're not ready to get into a real relationship.Especially one with a very old friend?
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02-04-2010, 10:08 AM
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keep ur distance then, any contact will give her false hope
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02-04-2010, 10:45 AM
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let her know you have no problems being friends, but if she wants anything more, you'll have to ignore her
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02-04-2010, 10:57 AM
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#6 | DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BITCH?
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sounds to me like she's in the rebounding phase
just take it casually like you used to and in time she'll just give up
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02-04-2010, 11:21 AM
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Don't contact her whatsoever....or she will just think there is still hope. Delete her off facebook and bbm and msn and don't answer her calls. Posted via RS Mobile |
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02-04-2010, 03:49 PM
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#8 | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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rebound phase
comfort
your there
i see it all the time, break up then she runs to/what she knows/comfortable with. its just how women deal with their shit. fucking emotional baggage hoodrats
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02-04-2010, 05:29 PM
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what happened to just
ignore?
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02-04-2010, 07:19 PM
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whats her number? i can fix the prob for you.
PM is key!
__________________ Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk.. "Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt |
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02-04-2010, 09:06 PM
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Why does eveyone who ask for advice here is always together with a 8+/10? Posted via RS Mobile |
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02-04-2010, 10:13 PM
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#12 | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by TomBox_N Why does eveyone who ask for advice here is always together with a 8+/10? Posted via RS Mobile |
cause its never a scale of 1-10
lol
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02-04-2010, 11:02 PM
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#13 | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Originally Posted by TomBox_N Why does eveyone who ask for advice here is always together with a 8+/10? Posted via RS Mobile | anything less is not worth it |
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02-05-2010, 07:42 AM
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I didnt read it, but get her hooked on meth and then send her home.
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