Idk wat to give this a title..
Here is what happend thats very mindboggling:
A guy have just moved in to my girlfriend's family's house.
Her dad working in China was asked to let his business friend's son stay at their house in Vancouver. This is very typical but here comes the problem.
My gf is forced to go to saskatchewan with the guy for a week or so for him to settle and study there. (Saskatchewan? Why my gf?)
At first my gf is like wtf called her dad many times to reject.
However her dad is very firm about doing so.
I understand where her dad is coming from b/c my gf is the eldest in the house and only her English is capable of asking for direction and having a conversation.
Just yesterday, my gf told me that she called the guy's dad to check up on his son's flight. Apparently the guy's dad called her dad and told him that your daughter is very incapable at doing things, saying shit like "does she want my son to wait at the airport for hours?". Basically just unsatisfied with my gf.
So lets put this together: Your son need help getting over to Saskatchewan, my gf unwillingly accompanying him b/c he is such a fob, Picking him up in YVR double checking the arrival time, And letting him stay over in their home for a week or two, what is there to be unsatisfied about?
Learning about what happend, there are a few more factors thats making me worried and angry.
- The guy living at my gf's house is a fat perv. He touched my gf's friend during this party back in China when he thought my gf's friend was drunk.
- I can't go with her b/c we don't want my gf's dad know about me, yet.
You must be thinking, why are you taking all these unnecessary shit from them?
"Her dad is owning business in China. His friend is the money loaner."
How much did you get out of the above sentence?
For me, not much, but my for gf's family; everything.
My gf's dad's business needs the money to carry on their ongoing business.
In China, if your a well known business company, you must treat your money loaner very well to receive ongoing deals and rates. I know that in Canada, our banking rates and pricings are not changed *too much* by personal relationships. But what happens if you don't follow the flow if your a business company owner is that you will not get any loans from the banks b/c they know your not cool like that(giving out money) So basically you will not receive any loans from banks then going bankrupt just b/c your not a dirty mother fucker.
Im so glad that I don't live under any of these circumstances. Pay more for what worths more and live life righteously to the fullest.
Im unhappy about the guy going to live at my gf's.
But I think im alot more pissed about the business corruption that I hear about. I know its everywhere, but this time it happend so close to me.
Im just ranting, read and give it a thought or leave a msg.