Getting Numbers
 

I was just talking to a friend and we had this discussion about getting numbers when you're with a best friend of the opposite sex.

My friend says that it's disrespectful to do that seeing as it would make the friend feel bad, but I argue that she would only feel bad if they shared feelings because if they were just friends, it'd be no different than hanging with a bro.

What is your take on this?

Agree with you.

she shouldnt care

but does anyone feel disrespected when a guy hits on your female frd in front of you? kinda like that seinfeld scenario

wrong, a girl will always care regardless friend or not..

jealously is girl's human natural

Girls should assist in getting said number if they were a real friend..

Berz out.

^i agree. Unless this girl likes you and you're aware of it..and still do it infront of her it's disrespectful. But a real friend who wants the best for you will lend you a helping hand whether its to help you get a number or let you know the girl in question is shady. And vice versa!
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agreed, if your girl friend doesnt have feelings for u, they will help you, and having a girl helping u makes it so much easier!

i am glad you argued

Women are the best wingmen BY FAR. So much easier to get numbers when I'm with my girl friends. I figure it's because girls tend to trust other girls judgement maybe? Not totally sure, I could be way off. My friend says guys seem less threatening when they're with another girl that they don't seem to be fucking.

A lot of girls can relate..

i honestly hate relying on friends to help getting numbers...that shit backfires later down the road....

why dont you try getting numbers yourself...and not relying on a friend to help you out??? it'll save you a headache and drama down the road.

^ because sometimes it is just WAY easier to do it with your girl friend or friend or sometimes its just impossible to w/o them

female wingmen are a very useful tool, you can break a group of girls so much more easily.

of course, this female wingman is not your best friend of the opposite sex.

in fact, if you have a best friend of the opposite sex, it's usually a one way street.