Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex... |
 | | 
08-23-2010, 06:45 PM
|
#1 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 4,066
Thanked 634 Times in 142 Posts
| How does a girl reject a guy without giving a definite answer?
Long story short, how does a girl let a guy know that he has no chance with her without giving him a definite NO.
discuss
would be more than happy to see more girls reply
| 
|  | |
08-23-2010, 06:54 PM
|
#2 | | I want to be a person and not an icon.
Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Mugello
Posts: 4,179
Thanked 5,286 Times in 892 Posts
|
We are good friends.
You are like a brother.
I love you, but not in that way.
| |
| | |
08-23-2010, 06:57 PM
|
#3 | | look at these diamonds, they shining
Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 2,800
Thanked 1,813 Times in 553 Posts
|
Brb guna get fucked Posted via RS Mobile | |
| | |
08-23-2010, 07:00 PM
|
#4 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 4,066
Thanked 634 Times in 142 Posts
|
what about her actions? things she does, lets say in a peroid of a month, she still flirts, but why?
| |
| | |
08-23-2010, 07:28 PM
|
#5 | | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Richmond
Posts: 11,187
Thanked 1,320 Times in 331 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by TRD Rs200  what about her actions? things she does, lets say in a peroid of a month, she still flirts, but why? | she wants attention
__________________ Quote: Originally posted by Girl
^ Yes it's sad when you stare at the shape of my penis through my overly skin tight jeans and not help but feel like a shameful little boy compared to me. | | |
| | |
08-23-2010, 07:47 PM
|
#6 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
|
"I'll be your girlfriend, but I'll never put out or touch your cock." Lol goodbye!
Girls just flirt, it's natural. It's almost like a guy has to look at a chick when she walks by, it's just natural. Posted via RS Mobile | |
| | |
08-23-2010, 07:52 PM
|
#7 | | I want to be a person and not an icon.
Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Mugello
Posts: 4,179
Thanked 5,286 Times in 892 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by TRD Rs200 what about her actions? things she does, lets say in a peroid of a month, she still flirts, but why? | It's like teasing you, basically doing something to make you still want her as you get closer and closer you want her more it's a power they have.
When you sober up from her lure she is not going to like it and is going to lure you in by telling you that she is interested but don't fall for it it's a trap!
| |
| | |
08-24-2010, 07:23 PM
|
#8 | | I bringith the lowerballerith
Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: canada
Posts: 1,124
Thanked 1,352 Times in 263 Posts
|
Yea, because think about it, you would want every girl to like you too right? So you flirt, but you don't necessarily like them back. It's just a nice feeling when you can get someone to like you. That's just what I think.
| |
| | |
08-24-2010, 09:47 PM
|
#9 | | Wunder? Wonder?? Wander???
Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Vancity
Posts: 235
Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts
|
"OMG, you are like the nicest guy ever! Whoever's gonna end up with you is gonna be so lucky!"
| |
| | |
08-25-2010, 11:34 AM
|
#10 | | My homepage has been set to RS
Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Burnaby
Posts: 2,131
Thanked 801 Times in 132 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by TracerFX "OMG, you are like the nicest guy ever! Whoever's gonna end up with you is gonna be so lucky!" | "You could've been that lucky person. wtf?!" hahaha  | |
| | |
08-25-2010, 11:54 AM
|
#11 | | Editor
Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Raincouver
Posts: 3,516
Thanked 3,179 Times in 874 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by TracerFX "OMG, you are like the nicest guy ever! Whoever's gonna end up with you is gonna be so lucky!" | ugh.. i hate that. seriously, and "you're so cute" "so nice"
that shit lands you in the friend zone. god damn friend zone.
| |
| | |
08-25-2010, 12:53 PM
|
#12 | | The Lone Wanderator
Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Burnaby
Posts: 12,090
Thanked 4,367 Times in 1,137 Posts
|
Girls are like cats. If you play with them, they get bored. If you stop playing with them, they get angry even if they don't want to play. Posted via RS Mobile | |
| | |
08-25-2010, 01:15 PM
|
#13 | | Ubereem Mod
Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Richmond
Posts: 3,070
Thanked 120 Times in 63 Posts
|
"you are like my best guy friend"
__________________ Quote:
Originally Posted by Culture_Vulture sometimes I like to use kindergarten art class scissors to cut my pubes | | |
| | |
08-25-2010, 01:27 PM
|
#14 | | I answer every Emotion with an emoticon
Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 7,760
Thanked 375 Times in 181 Posts
|
show him this thread
Ask him the same question, even the most clueless guy in the world will get the hint.
__________________
Ignorance is bliss
How I wish I can remain ignorant, why do I know so much?
| |
| | |
08-25-2010, 02:17 PM
|
#15 | | Wunder? Wonder?? Wander???
Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Vancity
Posts: 235
Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by Jap_AV "You could've been that lucky person. wtf?!" hahaha | lol, you say that to them and the response will be "Nah, you deserve better than me!" Quote:
Originally Posted by e.lo_ ugh.. i hate that. seriously, and "you're so cute" "so nice"
that shit lands you in the friend zone. god damn friend zone. | LOL. "If i'm so cute, then sleep with me!" Quote:
Originally Posted by q0192837465 show him this thread
Ask him the same question, even the most clueless guy in the world will get the hint. | Girl: How does a girl reject a guy without giving a definite answer?
Guy: [gives a good answer that will impress the girl so she'll sleep with him]
Girl: Oh, nice answer! Thanks!
Girl: [repeats what his answer to him]
Guy: [Friend zone]
| |
| | |
08-25-2010, 03:16 PM
|
#16 | | Rider
Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: bby
Posts: 3,669
Thanked 310 Times in 115 Posts
|
if you ask her to go places and she says no, shes not interested
if you ask her to hang out with other friends you guys know and she says no, shes not interested
if shes interested, she will hang out with you.. if she's busy she would say "im busy, but how about next week" or something like that.
__________________
http://www.revscene.net/forums/dink-8-0-t263995.html
| |
| | |
08-25-2010, 03:25 PM
|
#17 | | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: vancouver
Posts: 2,637
Thanked 154 Times in 91 Posts
|
if she says she doesn't want to hang out with you, just go hang out with other girls and stop talking to her. She MIGHT get jealous....
| |
| | |
08-25-2010, 03:29 PM
|
#18 | | I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
Join Date: May 2004 Location: Edmonton
Posts: 3,529
Thanked 665 Times in 273 Posts
|
What is the reason for the girl not to give a definate NO? Is she attention starved??
__________________
"A chicken crossing the street is poultry in motion"
| |
| | |
08-26-2010, 09:08 AM
|
#19 | | Glorious Gaming PC Master Race
Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Coquitlam y0!
Posts: 21,240
Thanked 968 Times in 446 Posts
|
emergency cock. when she fails miserably at all the other guys she wants, she'll be calling the dude in the friend zone.
| |
| | |
08-26-2010, 10:01 AM
|
#20 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
|
A girl can tell you that you’re the greatest thing since Enrique Iglesias and say anything else to you during the course of a half hour conversation, and it doesn’t mean horse manure to a tree. Girls flirt.
I can see why she can't give a definate no, she could be too nice or be a professional dater and have you up in strings as her puppet. Either way, if the chick has to think a question like this through, then buddy shouldve picked up the hints that she ain't interested.
Average Frustrated Chump: An AFC is a man who unknowingly kills the sexual and romantic interests of a woman through the very deeds and behaviors he believes should arouse them. This ironic outcome is usually attributed to a complete imbalance of qualities in the AFC, such as the extreme willingness to listen, understand and comfort a woman, while also sharply contrasting this by a concentrated effort to avoid sexual innuendos or advances of any kind, avoiding differing opinions or interests that may insinuate any incompatibility and the avoidance of telling a woman she is behaving wrong and/or improperly, even in cases when it's clear that she is.
AFC is a disease striking many men, many men do not know they have it till it's too late! By then other viruses will have infect your head such as one-itis. Fortunately there is a cure! YAY! By growing balls bitchs! Posted via RS Mobile
Last edited by v.Rossi; 08-26-2010 at 10:10 AM.
| |
| | |
08-26-2010, 10:11 AM
|
#21 | | How I Mod your mother
Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Crayon Box
Posts: 13,688
Thanked 977 Times in 477 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by MR_BIGGS What is the reason for the girl not to give a definate NO? Is she attention starved?? | Quote:
Originally Posted by Turbo E emergency cock. when she fails miserably at all the other guys she wants, she'll be calling the dude in the friend zone. | What he said. Women always need some sort of back up plan.
So yes, in a way it is for attention. When the guys she wants dont want her, she knows the guy that
she "friend zoned" will want her.
__________________ Quote: | [19-07, 16:52] bloodmack: EB did u change my avatar and title?
| Quote: | [19-07, 16:54] El Bastardo: bm i have no idea what you're talking about because i don't speak gorilla
|
Last edited by !Yaminashi; 08-26-2010 at 10:18 AM.
| |
| | |
08-26-2010, 10:22 AM
|
#22 | | My homepage has been set to RS
Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Richmond
Posts: 2,222
Thanked 1,207 Times in 432 Posts
|
"you so nice"
"you're the nicest guy i know"
"you're such a good friend"
if you hear that, you're pretty much done, cuz its true when they say "nice guys finish last"
they're usually looking for a bf, not a husband, so be the bad guy for once and keep them guessing
| |
| | |
08-26-2010, 01:09 PM
|
#23 | | Need to Seek Professional Help
Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 1,011
Thanked 528 Times in 187 Posts
|
^ i agree. dont be a nice guy. they are suckers for love.
| |
| | |
08-26-2010, 11:32 PM
|
#24 | | Wunder? Wonder?? Wander???
Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Vancity
Posts: 235
Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by Turbo E emergency cock. when she fails miserably at all the other guys she wants, she'll be calling the dude in the friend zone. | lol, she'll be calling that guy in the friend zone alright...but not to fuck him...more like ear-fuck him with her sad stories. she gets her emergency cock from that guy who's grinding her in the club when she's our partying to relieve her frustration/anger.
| |
| | |
08-27-2010, 12:49 PM
|
#25 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Vancouver
Posts: 818
Thanked 709 Times in 216 Posts
|
i think we all use to be a nice guy, "once." then you realize eventually, and those who haven't realized may or may not in the future. most do, some don't.
it's not that nice guys finish last, so don't go ahead and be mean. it's that girls like men who can not be controlled. ie: the bad boy, the convict, the asshole, motorcycle rider, etc..
why? because not only can they not be controlled, they speak their mind/opinion. you know the cliche be yourself, they are themselves. however, for instance say your heart and mind is aching to tell the girl you're having dinner with that you love her. that you do not fucking say, especially on the first few dates. why? because you are no longer a challenge LIKE AT ALL 0% challenge, and she sees this and will either do two options. use you because she has you hooked and can control you (remember the bad boys can't be controlled) or run away because she's afraid of clinginess. therefore, golddigger or the one that broke your heart... pretty much. be yourself, speak your opinions. thats how a conversation gets going right? when it comes down to admitting your feelings no matter how much you want to, bite that fucking tongue. this creates self-control, you need self-control. it leaves a girl guessing, leaves her wanting more. which is the objective isn't it?
this could be an easy or hard process depending on you and the type of person that you are. but, if you want that girl to be with you in the long run the plan is set out right infront of, and the only way for her to lose interest in you is by your own actions. if you're a challenge enough to her, she won't need someone better. you're already great. it's the moment you fuck up, the relationship fucks up. so you keep calling her, texting her, not giving her her space is the consequence of your own actions. that is why she left you or is still using you.
a nice guy would mope and continue to fight for whats "right" when everything has gone wrong (because of him and his actions). thinking maybe she is "the one" while a smart guy is already off to find a new broad.
that's my opinion about the nice guy.
ps: loveydovey movies like step up, hitch, all that romance is bullshit. don't let hollywood brainwash you. Spread is pretty good movie though. learn to distinguish fake and reality, flowers and gifts don't work either, that's begging which isn't a challenge.
__________________
I speak the truth, and nothin' but. If I am wrong, well then there is no right.
Rule 1: You do not talk about Fight Club. Rule 2: You do not talk about Fight Club.
| |
| | | |
Posting Rules
| You may not post new threads You may not post replies You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
| | |
All times are GMT -8. The time now is 04:42 PM.
|
You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today!
The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!
