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I tried so hard to, I never initiated the conversation mistake, when she does talk to me, I reply with a few words it doesn't matter whether you say 2 words or a paragraph takes effort to reply back and you did so you really should've sound more intriguing, another mistake, I pretended she was one of those ugly girls that talk to me and I treated her as such, that's not a bad start as long as you don't disrespect her. Today she opened up to me with a new attitude and I just collapsed, red flag for this chick, she's acting hot and cold. again, girls that like you and are interested in you will make it easy for you. I started acting like a bitch and I sort of revealed my feelings haha.... obviously, another mistake. I don't even know if I could say this is love. you can't, because you don't know her unless you get at least 10 dates in. you're only attracted to her looks, period. I think the only reason I feel this way is because she doesn't feel the same... of course, she was being a challenge. see how much being a challenge works? as i've stated many times. self-control, confidence, challenge it'll beat a fucking diamond. V.Rossi, where are you LOL
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you were being tested, and you failed. always be on your game.
i'm going to give you my advice but i think you've given yourself up to her and therefore to whipped to take them. delete the name and number, and find another girl. if this girl decides to talk to you still.
if she calls you set up a date in 2 weeks time, because you're busy 2 weeks straight. self-control to wait son. go for a quick coffee, have the date at 1.5 hrs tops then drop her off. have her pay for hers, and make sure she does. don't say let me take you out for coffee, because then you're obligated to pay and this does not work, and you will look like an asshole.
scenario at starbucks:
cashier: here's your blah blah and blah blah
you: thanks, here you go pay for yours.
she'll probably be looking at you funny at this point
you: you came here for coffee, and didn't bring any money? you realize they charge for coffee here and that it isn't free? better roll up your sleeves i guess...
WAIT and see her response and what she says.
you: here i'll pay for this one, but you owe me.
asshole? mm... maybe. it can go both ways, the dumb broad shouldn't be expecting you to pay nor should she forget that shit cost money. but this is definately a self-esteem killer, in a way challenge she's not use to this kind of attitude from you. it'll be unexpected, which is good you don't want to be read like a book.
"oh he's going to pay for me because he lovesssssss me, i'm not going to bring my wallet with me on this boring date tehehehehehe"
no movies, no dinner. when she does call you keep it less than 5 minutes, and when she's laughing hysterically at you(i hope you're a funny guy) END IT. end it while she's at her prime, then she'll be wondering why he didn't want to talk any longer? <- AHHH see this is what you want, her thinking about you.
make sure you keep it light and funny. she already knows you like her, it's accomplished guddagudd wooohooo you got that out of the way, no need to further continue and make mistakes here. don't be a stupid chump like the last 10 guys she's dated, though you seem like you're well on your way to make her list grow bigger. here's motivation: prove me wrong.
if she says "let's just be friends" just delete her number, you're done for. if you don't believe me keep playing with fire. that's always smart. :rolleyes:
let the girl say she loves you first, you'll be doing them a favor. but first, get 10 dates in at the very fucking least.
