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06-12-2011, 08:10 PM
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#51 | | How I Mod your mother
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Originally Posted by scottsman  No guy would be sending msgs like that unless there was a reason to do so. I also wouldn't be proud about the fact that she got 3 texts while you were with her. How did you find out about the msgs? if she is telling and showing you it is because she wants to make you jealous and get a reaction.
Like others have said you are getting played or about to. If guys are waiting for her to be single then whatever she is telling them is leading them on.
I would consider to get rid of her if this behavior continues because your only solution at some point down the road will be to get in fights with her(verbal) and/or fights with these guys(physical/verbal). Then you have to think is taking it that far even worth it for a girl like this. | I agree with this. It doesnt sound lile shes worth the trouble or worth waiting to find out
If shes as shady as she seems.
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06-12-2011, 10:01 PM
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#52 | | Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
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i love how this thread went from "How to deal with coworker bothering girl" to "You should leave her ass"
/waits for updates =P
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06-12-2011, 10:05 PM
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#53 | | MiX iT Up!
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also, it would be good if we can get pics of said female - just to verify the story is not bs.
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Reason: can't believe no one said PICS OR BAN!!
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06-13-2011, 07:37 AM
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#54 | | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
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and my question to the OP is.....HOW LONG HAVE YOU GUYS BEEN TOGETHER?
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06-13-2011, 08:00 AM
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#55 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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Lol sHeZ gOt GuYz On daH sYd3 foo! Posted via RS Mobile | |
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06-14-2011, 11:11 PM
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#56 | | I keep RS good
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you guys are ruling out the fact that maybe she's really pretty.
and that some guys out there just don't stop.
the thing is, how do they get her number? lol she's obviously giving it out.
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06-15-2011, 12:43 AM
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#57 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma you guys are ruling out the fact that maybe she's really pretty.
and that some guys out there just don't stop.
the thing is, how do they get her number? lol she's obviously giving it out. | She probably is giving more then her number out.
To OP if the only reason you found out about those text messages is because you were there with her then you got to watch out.
Sounds like she just got busted and trying to bail her ass out.
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06-18-2011, 09:26 AM
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#58 | | Official Texas Ambassador
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GF missing for a day with no replys from fb/text/call while I was at North Van
her story was that she left the phone in the car of her friends the earlier night and went to work the next day. Didn't call me at break or anything after. My computer was on the whole time, msn/fb
i dumped her with many doubts. Thanks revscene 
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Originally Posted by MG1 She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face. | | |
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06-18-2011, 01:56 PM
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#59 | | How I Mod your mother
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06-18-2011, 02:49 PM
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#60 | | I answer every Emotion with an emoticon
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Originally Posted by Tachycardia! The following is a reply from the Anonymous member
GF missing for a day with no replys from fb/text/call while I was at North Van
her story was that she left the phone in the car of her friends the earlier night and went to work the next day. Didn't call me at break or anything after. My computer was on the whole time, msn/fb
i dumped her with many doubts. Thanks revscene | LMAO... cant believe she fed you that BS...
doesnt she have work phone or co-workers phone to use..
did you get pics of her nake!! should post it on the net to get back at her!!!  | |
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06-18-2011, 04:58 PM
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Good Job Anonymous poster...you came to your senses, not many do 
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06-18-2011, 09:17 PM
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Thanks for manning up, Anon. You are a credit to our gender.
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06-19-2011, 02:19 AM
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#63 | | I keep RS good
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you did something, many people wouldn't be able to do.
lol please update us if she decides to contact you again haha!
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06-19-2011, 09:00 PM
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#64 | | Banned By Establishment
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ummm yo.... since you guys broke up... curious to see what she looks like.
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06-19-2011, 09:02 PM
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#65 | | Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
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yo whats her number?
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Originally Posted by toyota86 the guys over at lambo vancouver said there are 60-70 pre-orders already. don't quote me though. | | |
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06-19-2011, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Skyline350gt ummm yo.... since you guys broke up... curious to see what she looks like.
POST PICS~!! | No Locals 
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06-20-2011, 02:00 AM
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#67 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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This thread is clearly BS....
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06-20-2011, 12:30 PM
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#68 | | Everyone wants a piece of R S...
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LOL out of the very few threads that I have read in this section, this has to be the most entertaining yet relatable.
If this is a true situation, then you did the right thing. The only reason why you should have stayed after such a stunt was only for sex. <-- consider it shallow all you want but at the end of the day, we're mammals and that's what we're out for.
Do update if she contacts again because that will be the most difficult part (especially if she throws herself at you if you know what I mean  but by then you'll probably have a better concept of what kind of girl she is). Out of curiosity does she have family (mainly daddy) issues?
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06-22-2011, 02:02 AM
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#69 | | Official Texas Ambassador
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just giving an update. We both felt sad and i tried to get back with her  i felt I sort of regret dumping her because it felt too early.
ended up Kissing for a bit and she is too cute to let go
We are not officially back together but She wants to hang on the weekend... so I don't know what is going to happen... And what is the question with daddy issues? What does that mean??
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She actually blocked me off and I don't think she is the type that will be asking me back. and no, this story is NOT bs...
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Originally Posted by MG1 She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face. | | |
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06-22-2011, 07:41 AM
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Daddy issues as in if she has relationship issues with her father - do they fight a lot, do they not speak often, does she resent him, does he resent her, does she often talk about how she is being mistreated by him.
Those signs usually lead to a girl who constantly desires attention whether she will admit it or not. She can deny it all she wants but her actions show it. Why you may ask? It's because it took her a while to finally state that she has a boyfriend. Also, with every guy she could have said something that suggests "screw off I'm not interested", but she didn't. I know some girls have their ironically hypocritical rule of not being blunt and honest to a guy when rejecting him (while they expect us not to talk to any girls - this is an extreme case and usually only related to the "daddy issue girl" personality).
It's ultimately your decision, but I'd suggest letting her work for it to see if she really does want the relationship with you. If not, then you will know for sure you got played cause she'll have a handful of guys to choose from. Throw away any pride, ego, emotion - think logically for this decision. Good luck
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06-22-2011, 09:19 AM
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#71 | | Hacked RS to become a mod
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The thing about these anonymous posts is that we can't fail the OP when they are being dickwads  | |
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06-22-2011, 10:01 AM
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06-23-2011, 12:39 PM
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#73 | | Official Texas Ambassador
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Just wondering, does it mean that we are back together if she kissed my lips for a long time before I left? I still talk to her but I am unsure... we are going to see each other in the weekend too if that helps..
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Originally Posted by MG1 She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face. | | |
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06-23-2011, 12:45 PM
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#74 | | Da Vinci's real masterpiece: The Mona Diesel
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Originally Posted by Tachycardia! The following is a reply from the Anonymous member
Just wondering, does it mean that we are back together if she kissed my lips for a long time before I left? I still talk to her but I am unsure... we are going to see each other in the weekend too if that helps.. | Err did you ask her?
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06-23-2011, 12:48 PM
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#75 | | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
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Physical contact doesn't mean you're back together
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