Originally Posted by 6793026
dinosaur: I sort of agree on what you have said. You're right, there are people who wants to have sex cause yes, you are banging a hot brad pitt and you want to bang him. Good looking, good in bed= good sex, yup, I totally agree. But I've had tons of girls, strippers, gfs, that were good solid 9/10 and as much as they are great in bed and always wanting it, being physically attracted to the person doesn't necessary mean you always have a high sex drive with the person.
We are talking about two different thing here; OP is asking how to match each other's sex drive, whereas in your case it's about being attracted to someone / being good in bed etc.
I wasn't really meaning "attraction" in just an aesthetic way. Kinda like a "whole package" things.
A lot of women (though we pretend we are strong on our own), like to feel protected, desired, loved, etc...We like a rescuer...someone who we know will fight for us all hunter-gatherer style. We want someone to look after us (not monetarily), make sure we are happy, safe, engage our minds, encourages us, etc....Pretty much what everyone wants in a relationship.
To me, the whole package needs to be attractive. Mind AND body. Thats what I meant when I said that maybe she wasn't attracted to him. Personally, regardless of what the person looks like, it means shit if he is a moron. You gotta have everything to be turned on if you are chick (IMO).