Friendzone, put yourself in the other persons shoes
I saw this on reddit and it made a lot of sense. So I thought I'd repost it here for discussion. Sad, sad Redditors in the Friendzone, put yourself in the other persons shoes: What would you do if a person you only want to be friends with is in love with you? : AskReddit
| Upvoted for being the truth no one wants to face. I was friendzoned a lot in HS. It wasn't until I realized that I was a pussy and a pushover that it never happened again. You can't just be friends with a girl you like and not make your intentions clear if you want more than that. How is he/she supposed to know if you don't tell them? |
Don't be a pussy.
"but what if it ruins our friendship?"
If we are not able to ask skeptical questions, to interrogate those who tell us that something is true; to be skeptical of those in authority, then we're up for grabs.. |