sign up for credit alert from your local bank.
$15/mo keep it around for 6 months. crooks only have a short period of time before they can use shit.
inform all financial institutions you deal with - be prepared get treated like a fraudster next time you apply for something (think of it as for your own protection).
Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Take the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt