Optimism Thread: Why being single is AWESOME! Post here

[sebTeggy]

Ok guys/girls, so I had a long relationship and it is hard to keep your mind off of your loved one. Sometimes you know its 'for the best' but you still dwell on the good times.

This thread is for people in this situation who are stuck in the past, and I want everyone else to just post awesome things about being single to cheer the rest of us up! The best way to get over a break-up is too keep your head up and look to the future, not the past!

I shall begin.........




Few nights ago hung out with a friend until 3am just yakking and drinking Tim Hortons in my truck. No obligation to let anyone know what I am doing, Didn't even touch my phone. Just sat, kicked back, and verbal bullshit for hours and hours. I could really enjoy my time, not to mention this friend was of the opposite sex, and although I knew we were just friends, I had no explanations for anyone.

Lets keep it going

[kwy]

When I'm with the guys we can check out girls and make vulgar comments without feeling guilty, haha.

[NSX]

Save Money.

[knight604]

Do who ever you want , when you want, where you want, how you want , and no fucks will be given.

/thread.

[sebTeggy]

Originally Posted by kwy

When I'm with the guys we can check out girls and make vulgar comments without feeling guilty, haha.

*HOT GIRL WALKS BY*


'Has lots of sex' Buddy: Yeah she is hot as hell!
Casual Buddy: Holyyy fuck!! That ass.....
'Never has sex 30 y/o virgin' Buddy: Yeah I'd eat the corn out of her shit




The rest of us:

[Ulic Qel-Droma]

lol this thread is retarded.


most things you guys mentioned should stay the same even while you're in a relationship.

staying up chatting with your friends?

checking out girls?

talking about girls?

make vulgar comments?


LOL.
if you guys can't do these things while with a girl, you're fuckin whipped.
grow some balls and put your gf in her place, or get a new one.
or stay single until you know how to handle a female.

[spideyv2]

^gotta agree with him, but, reverse the roles for a second. If you have a really attractive gf, are you gonna be 100% comfortable with her and some dude chillin in his truck till 3am? "Just Friends" lol, I hate that word.

[Jason00S2000]

Originally Posted by jayare604

^gotta agree with him, but, reverse the roles for a second. If you have a really attractive gf, are you gonna be 100% comfortable with her and some dude chillin in his truck till 3am? "Just Friends" lol, I hate that word.

If you have status, she will not do things to piss you off because she will know she is easily replaceable. This is why status is super important.


Being single is great. You can bang all the tight poon you want with 0 of the responsibilities!

[Ulic Qel-Droma]

Originally Posted by jayare604

^gotta agree with him, but, reverse the roles for a second. If you have a really attractive gf, are you gonna be 100% comfortable with her and some dude chillin in his truck till 3am? "Just Friends" lol, I hate that word.

yeah cuz i'd be chilling in another truck with my really hot female friend.

what's the difference?

that thinking is wrong from the base up.

so if my really hot gf had a friend (who is a male or whatever), and they're chilling late... what am i going to do? go there and punch the guy out?
call her and scream at her? scream at her when she's back?

you can't do any of those things. it's possessive.

you just let it go. she's just chilling... so what?
if she's fucking him. that's different.

and if she's fucking him, she's going to do it no matter what.

you just dump her if you cant stand it, or let her fuck other guys, while u fuck other girls right?

trying to "control" the outcome of a situation never works. possessiveness never works.

you know how many girls hang out with my in my apartment that have bf's?
they come over alone for who knows how long, yet, it's a "secret" to their bf's.
"sorry he's really possessive"
"sorry he can't know he wouldn't understand"

lol the fuck do i care, i know they'll break up eventually cuz no one can be possessed and owned like that forever.

Originally Posted by Jason00S2000

If you have status, she will not do things to piss you off because she will know she is easily replaceable. This is why status is super important.
Being single is great. You can bang all the tight poon you want with 0 of the responsibilities!

this too. except girls can sense pussies, and like a shark that can smell fear, as soon as they smell weakness, they'll leverage it and try to climb on top.
a beautiful village woman can leverage her power over a multi billionaire if he's a pussy.

plus if you have status, you can bang all the tight poon you want anyways. LOL. that's just how money works.

[BrRsn]

Can we just make this speak it out thread v2.0 except with no TOS'd and no emo/beta as phuck photos on the beginning of every page?

[dinosaur]

srs!? this shit about status!? AGAIN!?

ffs, it has nothing to do with status. it is about respect and trust.

if my bf wants to go out late, hang out with ppl, make comments, etc....I don't expect him to ask me permission nor would I take issue with it. Why? because I respect the fact that he is an adult, and I trust that he will not do something stupid. as a result, I have the same freedom to do what I want with the same respect and trust.

this thread isn't stupid and has the potential to be kind of funny...does it really have to turn into your 'one-note' argument about status that you drag all over RS?

[kwy]

saving money, holy shit. agreed.

[SB7]

Want girlfriend??...... FAP FAP FAP... Don't want girlfriend.....

[Gridlock]

Originally Posted by Jason00S2000

If you have status, she will not do things to piss you off because she will know she is easily replaceable. This is why status is super important.


Being single is great. You can bang all the tight poon you want with 0 of the responsibilities!

Just sayin'

[spideyv2]

Originally Posted by dhillon09

Can we just make this speak it out thread v2.0 except with no TOS'd and no emo/beta as phuck photos on the beginning of every page?

Agreed. This thread could be for the people that actually get laid.

Srs

[Ulic Qel-Droma]

Originally Posted by dinosaur

this thread isn't stupid and has the potential to be kind of funny...

threads that go on forever (they seem to be rampant in VLS), are retarded.

speak it out.
story thread or whatever it is.
this thread.
and a few others.

the only good "forever" threads are the ones in the NSFW forum.

every other thread just seems like low confidence, sub-intellectual diarrhoea that's constantly spewed, and dripping all over.

[Jason00S2000]

I am willing to bet Dinosaur and Gridlock are actually really geeky and low status.

This is why they do not understand even the concept that you are low status if your SO is hanging out with members of the opposite sex, alone, at 3 AM.

[Ri2]

personally, i like the idea of an optimistic thread. in the speak it out all alot of people do is bitch about being forever alone and shit. i understand the therapeutic aspects that come with it, but it's nice to see people being happy too, you know?

just let em happy peepz run freeeeeeee! BE FREEEEEEEEE I SAY (this is the part where i start throwing out confetti and crying tears of joy)

[spideyv2]

Originally Posted by Ri2

personally, i like the idea of an optimistic thread. in the speak it out all alot of people do is bitch about being forever alone and shit. i understand the therapeutic aspects that come with it, but it's nice to see people being happy too, you know?

just let em happy peepz run freeeeeeee! BE FREEEEEEEEE I SAY (this is the part where i start throwing out confetti and crying tears of joy)

Pics or negs

[Jason00S2000]

I'll add another thing:


Being single is the best time for personal growth. You can watch choices you make play out over the months as they go by, and see how they cause your friendships and social circles to drift.

Being single is like fertilizer for your dreams. Don't fap and watch your drive and ambition soar. I managed to get my first novel done, I would never have accomplished that in a relationship. What do you want to accomplish? Work on that when you're single and women will find you.

Now I'm poised to release the book, I'm back at my regular porn business that I had stopped working on the last year, and I'm excited to be able to again choose what type of woman will fit into my life. I spent the last two years or so just banging girls that I met casually, but none of those women were very high status. Soon I will be ready to accept a higher status, smoking hot woman coming into my circle of friends. Relationships aren't just 1 on 1, if you're dating a girl, your entire network of friends, family, and associates do factor in to the health of your relationship(s).

Before I was knocking back poon on Clubvibes, I remember being a bit of a beta and having to online date for the scraps left over by elite level alphas. That sucked.

[Glove]

aw great,

Ulic says a thread is retarded and he gets nothin,

I say a thread is retarded and I get a week long ban.



seems like OP is in denial,

you spend the next day hanging out all night with a "friend" wich you happen to mention of the opposite sex as if it was forbidden, or to make your ex jealous.

so are you gonna fuck her? or cry on her shoulder all day, what other possible reason could there be for hanging out till 3 am.

[Ri2]

Originally Posted by jayare604

Pics or negs

Spoiler!

( . )( . )

[Jason00S2000]

I want to post nude pics of this hot chick I had over the other day, I have a feeling even if I censor her pink bits, I'll still get banned again. :/

[spideyv2]

^feel free to PM me brah

[MindBomber]

Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma

yeah cuz i'd be chilling in another truck with my really hot female friend.

what's the difference?

that thinking is wrong from the base up.

so if my really hot gf had a friend (who is a male or whatever), and they're chilling late... what am i going to do? go there and punch the guy out?
call her and scream at her? scream at her when she's back?

you can't do any of those things. it's possessive.

you just let it go. she's just chilling... so what?
if she's fucking him. that's different.

and if she's fucking him, she's going to do it no matter what.

you just dump her if you cant stand it, or let her fuck other guys, while u fuck other girls right?

trying to "control" the outcome of a situation never works. possessiveness never works.

you know how many girls hang out with my in my apartment that have bf's?
they come over alone for who knows how long, yet, it's a "secret" to their bf's.
"sorry he's really possessive"
"sorry he can't know he wouldn't understand"

lol the fuck do i care, i know they'll break up eventually cuz no one can be possessed and owned like that forever.

I've frequently spent time with my female friends who have possessive bf's. The bf's are insecure and can't handle the thought of a girl they're seeing spending time with another male unsupervised, but all it achieves is the girl keeping secrets instead of being upfront and my pointing out to them that insecure little bitches aren't worth dating. Actually, I'm hanging out with another RS members gf this evening... pretty sure he doesn't know it's me she'll be spending time with

Originally Posted by Jason00S2000

I am willing to bet Dinosaur and Gridlock are actually really geeky and low status.

This is why they do not understand even the concept that you are low status if your SO is hanging out with members of the opposite sex, alone, at 3 AM.

I could care less what my SO does or who she chooses to spend time with. I rather dedicate all my energy to managing my own life than both of ours. If she comes home smelling like cum with a stupid look on her face one day, I'll tell her to beat it and start interviewing for a replacement.

The weak low status bitch isn't the person who lets their SO have a life, that title is reserved for the person who has a relationship with someone who they can't trust but continues it because they can't just go out and find someone new.