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04-03-2013, 07:27 AM
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| dating a depressed girl- do they ever change
is depression a life long illness or is it just temporary. i know this girl and she takes fluctoname -prozac and she says she take it everyday for 2 years-she lies to me at times. im not sure how long. really but she takes that drug and also her mood changes too. she gets mad or sad pretty easily. at time i didnt text her for a day and told me she was sad since i didnt text her. or her pics didnt get through and she says shes mad in the text msg
but i know for sure she isnt working, she is 24 , hard time making decisions and changes her mind/or hard time making decisions and very negative and yes she has depression
im just wonderin if she will ever get better as im looking to settle and long term partner
will she ever get better and never had to take prozac-flutonaime , will mood be normal, is it curable????
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04-03-2013, 07:43 AM
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good luck leaving her.. might wanna buy a spare set of tires just in case
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04-03-2013, 07:51 AM
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Take one for the team or go with your gut
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04-03-2013, 07:59 AM
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Do you know if she was a more cheerful, happier person 2 years ago? If yes there is still hope. She will just need a lot of support from her friends, family, partner. If no, then like smoothie. said, take one for the team or go with your gut. Sounds like she just wants someone to be there for her cause she doesn't have much support in her situation. Though keep in mind, try to not build any ideas where shes becoming overly obsessive over you or easily depressed over you etc etc since it is a difficult part of her life that she may be going through and she just can't help but be like that. Good luck!
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04-03-2013, 09:14 AM
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what a nightmare,
gtfo of there bro,
why bother, plenty of fish in the see
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04-03-2013, 09:17 AM
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Get out before its too late
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04-03-2013, 09:20 AM
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04-03-2013, 09:26 AM
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GTFO, you can't change people, unless they want to change. If they need meds just to be happy, and clearly they aren't it will just drag you down with her.
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04-03-2013, 09:32 AM
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maybe it's just her time of the year. Lol Posted via RS Mobile |
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04-03-2013, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted by iKayChow Do you know if she was a more cheerful, happier person 2 years ago? If yes there is still hope. She will just need a lot of support from her friends, family, partner. If no, then like smoothie. said, take one for the team or go with your gut. Sounds like she just wants someone to be there for her cause she doesn't have much support in her situation. Though keep in mind, try to not build any ideas where shes becoming overly obsessive over you or easily depressed over you etc etc since it is a difficult part of her life that she may be going through and she just can't help but be like that. Good luck! | i dont know since we just dating 3 months now
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04-03-2013, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Iceman-19 GTFO, you can't change people, unless they want to change. If they need meds just to be happy, and clearly they aren't it will just drag you down with her. | Depression can be a chemical imbalance, and not just people who 'need meds to be happy'. Depression is a very difficult illness to deal with, and as iKayChow said, will require immense understanding and support from everyone involved.
Whether it lasts for a season in someones life, or is life long is a case by case basis.
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04-03-2013, 09:58 AM
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i would leave her, that kind of a change can turn someones life around, she may force herself to become a better person with the new found relationship status! life is short, why waste it on someone wasting their own
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04-03-2013, 10:11 AM
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Normal girls can already be a handful sometimes. I wouldn't date someone with depression. It's just a burden on your life that most people wouldn't want to take on... for good reasons.
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04-03-2013, 11:33 AM
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another guy i met said he knew her 5 years ago when she was 20 and she was nuts. i guess she hasnt changed
also her mind changes a lot or hard time making decisions about what she really wants. its frustarting so we just do what i want. never met a girl that really really likes me and we didnt know each other that long either. she never had a serious bf and most guys used her just for sex --that what she told me. not sure if its real or just lies
yea i sometimes find it frustratinng hanging out with her. her choices are all mixed up . they want u to pick her up and later u do and she says shes not sure she wants to sit in my car . im already at ur place in my car. lol
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04-03-2013, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted by mustang766 another guy i met said he knew her 5 years ago when she was 20 and she was nuts. i guess she hasnt changed
also her mind changes a lot or hard time making decisions about what she really wants. its frustarting so we just do what i want. never met a girl that really really likes me and we didnt know each other that long either. she never had a serious bf and most guys used her just for sex --that what she told me. not sure if its real or just lies
yea i sometimes find it frustratinng hanging out with her. her choices are all mixed up . they want u to pick her up and later u do and she says shes not sure she wants to sit in my car . im already at ur place in my car. lol |
sounds like a normal girl dude...
but the first part i read was a red flag, girls using that victim card... good luck shaking this one, i had a girl do that to me years ago and still tries talking to me, going as far as pretending shes in the hospital just so ill reply to her... shits creepy as fuck!
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04-03-2013, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted by snails sounds like a normal girl dude...
but the first part i read was a red flag, girls using that victim card... good luck shaking this one, i had a girl do that to me years ago and still tries talking to me, going as far as pretending shes in the hospital just so ill reply to her... shits creepy as fuck! | which part was the victim card ????
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04-03-2013, 12:38 PM
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if you really care about this girl. be supportive. don't just jump the ship. the worst you can do is leave them on their own. im not saying stay out of pity but help her through whatever hard times shes going through.
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04-03-2013, 12:44 PM
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3 months of dating and you're still with her? there must be something keeping you there, unless you're using her for sex like all the other guys do.
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04-03-2013, 01:48 PM
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04-03-2013, 02:01 PM
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#20 | Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
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You should tell her that you're getting deported. That way she won't think its her fault for you leaving =) Might want to wear a rubber mask afterwards.
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04-03-2013, 02:30 PM
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as long as she's putting out, stick it out till you find the next ship to board
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04-03-2013, 02:49 PM
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Never dated one, but my mother used to be depressed all the time. Shes probably not going to change unless her lifestyle drastically changes. (ie get out of shithole job and move to country with tropical weather)
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04-03-2013, 03:49 PM
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so i haven't been in this part of the forum in ages,
apparently, people are taking joe45 seriously now
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04-03-2013, 03:52 PM
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04-03-2013, 06:39 PM
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#25 | Ask me about how I answered the question "How fat is TOO fat?"
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forgot to say: Give her the D
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