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Can we try to share stuff that's actually interesting instead of this garbage that just gives you a chance to make fun of others? Honestly OP, what's the motivation here..."everyone look how fucked up those people's lives are, let's make fun of them and feel good about ourselves". It was posted in NSFW thread so those who want to see, sure go have a good chuckle, but we need an entire thread dedicated to this? This requires a discussion? Seriously people..
Can we try to share stuff that's actually interesting instead of this garbage that just gives you a chance to make fun of others? Honestly OP, what's the motivation here..."everyone look how fucked up those people's lives are, let's make fun of them and feel good about ourselves". It was posted in NSFW thread so those who want to see, sure go have a good chuckle, but we need an entire thread dedicated to this? This requires a discussion? Seriously people..
How often do you see a video like this though? Also.. not everyone checks NSFW, so no need to bash on the OP (he's just sharing the video.. no other motivation imo).
There's also TONS of other threads on RS that I can think on top of my mind that doesn't require a thread/discussion.. so why are you raging in this thread?
Edit: Yeah OP could have posted in the "Official no need to start thread" but judging by his post count, he probably didn't know it exists.
Not raging at all, just discouraging the posting of these "let's hate on others" threads/videos/stories
any news of any sort can have reactions ranging from simple hating to deriving social/cultural maxims of that context
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Not raging at all, just discouraging the posting of these "let's hate on others" threads/videos/stories
No hate at all, I posted it because I found it strangely and sadly amusing haha. Yes, physical abuse is a horrible thing. But come on. What man - cheater or not - kneels down at his woman's feet and literally submits to being publicly humiliated like that?
But thanks everyone for pointing out the Official No Need to Start a New Thread Thread... my pointless coulda been threads will go there from now on
After watching this video for the second time, I sort of have a different perspective to this whole deal. The guy really deserves to get slapped and humiliated in the middle of a busy street. This is what he likes. No man would go thru this unless he somehow enjoys it. The actions closely resembles a kid being scolded/beat by her mother and I've seen this too many times in HK. The crying, the denying, and the ability to stay still and get faced slapped and for god's sake let the McDicks lay bare on concrete.
What would most of us do? Imagine the second half of this video being the guy not taking this shit anymore. This would be a very different video with a very different description. He's obviously a pussy but maybe only towards authoritative female figures. Have a guy do that to him and he'll probably smash his head open with a beer bottle.
This type of behavior doesn't just start out of nowhere. He's been fostering this tolerance and allowing his SO to take bigger steps. Any girl with half a brain wouldn't do this to a man if she knew "somebody gonna get a hurt". No one really is suffering here except for the McDicks and the nasty chick in the middle.
I was drawn to what psychotherapist, Ken Page terms as “attractions of deprivation” – when we are drawn to people who embody the worst emotional characteristics of our parents. Basically, the theory explains that we are attracted to people who can wound us the same way we were wounded in our childhood, as our psyche tries to recreate the past void and save us by changing its ending.
“The child in us believes that if the original perpetrators — or their current replacements — finally change their minds, apologize, or make up for that terrible rupture of trust, we can escape from our prison of unworthiness. Our conscious self is drawn to the positive qualities we yearn for, but our unconscious draws us to the qualities which hurt us the most as children.”