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Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
I always hear girls talk about romance and what they find romantic - long walks on the beach, candlelight dinners, etc. but I'm curious about what romance means for guys and how guys might experience romance differently from girls.
whenever she puts in the effort/initiative and not me. To be honest, it's actually much easier for women because they're not really expected to do anything, so when they do anything like bring me lunch at work/organize a date -- it's a nice change and 'romantic' i guess
whenever she puts in the effort/initiative and not me. To be honest, it's actually much easier for women because they're not really expected to do anything, so when they do anything like bring me lunch at work/organize a date -- it's a nice change and 'romantic' i guess
Little is more romantic than a GF and her BFF greeting you in lingerie.
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I agree with dhillion.
I enjoy a woman taking the initiative, because the interest and appreciation they feel is demonstrated in a tangible way. Since actions speak louder than words the tangible show of affection is more significant than simple verbal demonstrations, which are of course appreciated as well. It's as simple as a woman planning a date or otherwise doing something unexpectedly nice.
"Babe, you go watch the game and I'll order the pizza and bring you some beers. BJ at half time maybe?"
Joking aside, yes to putting in effort or appreciate what we do for them (ie: date, dinner...etc.) and give you a positive feed back to enhance the mood would be nice
My bf seems to appreciate me making reservations and taking him out for dinner...and sometimes I wash and wax his car, clean the interior and condition the leather. Sounds pretty romantic to me! Posted via RS Mobile
I can't truly answer this question as I am not a dude, but if I want to do a romantic gesture for my better half, some times I'll make/bake him something that is 'special' to him.
ex: he LOVES cinnamon buns (I'm not really a fan)....instead of buying him some, I'll make him some from scratch. Same with lasagna...I'll find some 'extra effort' complicated recipe with special ingredients and make it just for him.
Other things....I'll make him coffee in the morning and bring it to him in bed before he gets up, bring him lunch, give him a shoulder massage while he is at his desk, if he is in the workshop all day I will go in and sit to keep him company even though I hate it in there...
came over to watch the Canucks vs MTL game on Saturday night recently
made me okomiyaki while i watched
dressed up as a police officer afterwards (with stockings too)
and we fucked like no tomorrow
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when she makes me this egg sandwich thing i like and lets me game or watch the game or w/e while she sits there with me. spending time together in general is what make me
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
lol. you hit it right on the spot dhillon09. A lack of initiative is also incredibly ... frustrating. Ended up being the major factor in my most recent failure.
when she does things that she clearly doesn't enjoy to try to impress you.
For example I had a girl pick me up once listening to some EDM tracks I was obsessed with. I've also had girls take interests in Comics and show up wearing a comic book tshirt to my place.
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