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Old 02-03-2009, 06:45 PM   #1
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[Confidential] What should "C" do?

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My friend doesn't have RS, so I'm gonna post his situation on here to see what you guys/girls think...

"C" likes this girl he met thru a guy named "A" , she's 18 i think. He got her number and msn, but she never gives him the time of day. Whenever he decides to call or txt her, she never replies, but she always answers the phone when "A" calls (A is her best friends boyfriend) Anyways, there is another guy named "B" which hangs out with the group too. So, when A+B+C hang out she always comes out. so A is taken B is just blah and C likes her. Recently, B has showed some interest in her too, but C can't really do anything cuz it's his friend. According to A, B and her slept together a few times, but aren't exclusive...

B now basically just screwed with her and now thinks she is annoying and kinda is using her as a booty call...

What should "C" do in this case? Just move on or tell her his feelings?

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Old 02-03-2009, 07:16 PM   #2
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move on. there's not much C can do to get the girl since (from what I'm getting) she doesn't have any interest in him. and why would C want her now anyways? it's always better to be with someone who hasn't slept with your friend, am i right?
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Old 02-03-2009, 07:22 PM   #3
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Move on, doesn't seem like shes interested right now.

If she were, she'd at least respond to him once in awhile.
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Old 02-03-2009, 07:24 PM   #4
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what kind of girl is she for sleeping around with guys if they aren't even exclusive, why would C want her anymore? move on
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Old 02-03-2009, 07:32 PM   #5
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what kind of girl is she for sleeping around with guys if they aren't even exclusive
Its just sex.
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Old 02-03-2009, 07:57 PM   #6
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^ Exactly. No double standard!
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Old 02-03-2009, 08:27 PM   #7
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she never gives him the time of day. Whenever he decides to call or txt her, she never replies
Isn't the answer obvious?
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Old 02-03-2009, 08:32 PM   #8
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She clearly could care less about C, why even bother?
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as for answering when 'A' calls its cause 'A' is no threat as she's her friends guy, and probably hears nothing but good things about him from her friend. C has no chance and should move on. if you are B you should be a good friend and tell him. if you are C you should bow out.
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Update, She didn't sleep with "B"...

so does "C" still have a chance?
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C never had a chance. C sshould move on. secretly, C knows this.
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Why would C want to be with the girl if B has been with her and are friends? Just move on.
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Old 02-04-2009, 09:34 AM   #13
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Update, She didn't sleep with "B"...

so does "C" still have a chance?
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she never gives him the time of day. Whenever he decides to call or txt her, she never replies
Is "C" mentally handicapped?

Can you imagine going to a McDonald's and asking for a Big Whopper over and over again while the staff completely ignores you?
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Old 02-05-2009, 01:45 AM   #14
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no man. people that don't reply to texts are just 100% being fucking rude. there's no excuse.
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no man. people that don't reply to texts are just 100% being fucking rude. there's no excuse.
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I think "C" is mentally retarded, if he still doesn't get the point that there was nothing to even begin with. Remember kiddies, feelings have to be mutual, not just one.
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Isn't the answer obvious?

yea i agree. think about it, what else do you want to do? you can't fix this.
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seems like it's unanimous

'C' has no chance and should move on...and apparently mentally handicapped...lol
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no man. people that don't reply to texts are just 100% being fucking rude. there's no excuse.
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Especially the girls these days you know they always have their phones on them. Its like their life.
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C should get out his creed cd and listen to 'what if'. What if i realized i had no chance with this chick. fuck you might be able to squeeze a hit single out of it.
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"she's just not that into you".
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got me and my buddies (girls and guys) to have a long conversation afterwards
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C should just tell A how he feels and go from there. No second guessing, just do it. Nothing to lose, really.
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i would normally say u have no chance at all and just drop it but if ur really persistant and u really absolutely love her or whatsoever then i would suggest confess this w/ either a or b and then see how they can help u or straight up confess to the girl and take it from then on...
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stop wasting his time. Plenty of fish in the sea
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