Originally Posted by Faytless (Post 6281636)

well i see her everyday cos i work with her and im not so much physically attracted to her but seeing as how i see her everyday and shes the only thing to stare at, although i even hardly look at her let alone talk to her... (i basically dont acknowledge her, shes invisible to me) you know what i mean

i read her like a book and her actions clearly display that she wants me

- she dresses all pretty
- stare at me constantly
- tried initiating
- tried traversing

all that for me and i try and avoid her cos shes just the type of girl i wouldnt take a second glance at if i walked pass her. shes just not my type of girl... i pity her

anyways its almost been a year since ive worked there and slowly she gives up

since all this, from time to time she acts differently and tries to not like me.. she avoids me, but whenever she comes close to me she stares at me and it bugs the hell out of me, mind you shes invisible to me so i tend to not stare back...

i must admit when i was working she sometimes played peek-a-boo and i thought that was very cute of her, but at the same time i was pissed lol

i just want to tell her to stop looking at me... but you know how it is with girls who like you, if you say something hurtful, it will not only hit them right in the heart but everyone else will turn on you...

all this time ive been going about my business and not saying a single thing and letting her look at me... and whenever this happens and i catch her in the corner of eye or field of vision (cos i dont look at her) and i just feel violated

so guys, girls, what should i do? continue and let her prey on me with her eyes or should i straight up tell her in someway to stop it

for guys does it make you feel irritated too?
for girls how would you do/feel if someone went up to you and told you to stop?

SUMMARY:how do i tell a girl to stop looking at me when im not interested in her, and when she stares at me i feel violated and irritated