you don't miss her...you miss the sex

I just recently broke up with my gf.
Guess i'll have to wait and see how i would feel.

...But im sure that i'll be upset and angry at myself for the fact of losing happiness in a great relationship; Losing it over 20mins of "excitement".

I'm sure i'll regret that...

Do what I did. Meet the new guy, and say "Been there homie" then walk away.
So the next time he fills her up, he'll think of you filling it up. Sloppy seconds lol

even though i tell myself the same thing, like 'yeah im not jealous cause i had that first', its not what the next guy is going to think about, just like you were not thinking of the guy before you when you were hitting it. cause sure that guy had it, but he fucked up and now YOU have it. till you drop it and move on again. new guy is just happy you didnt loosen her up to much.

Sadly, she broke up with me

i don't think most people would care, and it just makes you look like a big loser

Well we were on okay terms after we broke up but for some reason shit got messed up

+1, werd, I agree with you.

this is not 1920, people get fucked in the age of 14-18, unless the guy only wants virgin, then no need to do something silly.

just be cool. Making her/him jealous is not really a good idea

FWB's with ex's is good cuz there's a mutual understanding :D

if i broke up with the girl, then its not an issue, she's trash to me that's why she was dumped. i've abused her enough already and it's just time for others to check out the recycle bin. i support reuse reduce and recycle.

if she dumped you, then i must have done the, "delete, ignore list on MSN and delete all contacts with her and never tallk to her again" by the time she is seeing someone, i would've have lost all feelings already.

the iceman :thumbsup:

think of this will make you feel better:
"hes got my sloppy seconds"

:rolleyes everyone has everyone else's sloppys. virgins suck anyway

you guys have it lucky.

yes.
it bothers the shit out of me, especially since i work with her and have to constantly see her at work, plus finding out she has a new boyfriend shortly after you two broke up by seeing the new boyfriend coming in with flowers is a bitch.

So yes, it bothers me seeing my ex dating someone else.

new rules that i will adopt for the rest of my life: never date anyone from work, unless you have a backup option, either a new girl or a new job.

Lol basically what I was going to respond with

you only get this feeling if you still got feelings for the ex.

but yeah..I had that feeling before with an ex, but now its like meh. I got other shit to worry about in life.

yea i used to have that feeling before as well. at one point in made me feel real shitty knowing she was travelling, having the time of her life with her bf. But after awhile it made me realize a few things:
- she's just trying to live her life so u should be happy for her and let her be
- no point feeling shitty about it. Its not like she'll come back to you if you sulk all day
- as K-fever said "I got other shit to worry about in life"
- getting hurt makes you look pathetic as well cuz it shows ur not over her and is the one chasing a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow

whoaa.. so brutal yet soo true.

it's not really sloppy seconds if he takes her anal cherry ;)

it stings like a bee x 10000

but it motivates u to do better in life dun it?

When i first found out, i was just so sad and disappointing... because it was my friend that dated my ex. I workin on getting over it though... i just gotta look forward and forget about the past.

Well I guess I got both holes covered. xD