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m4k4v4li 02-25-2009 12:11 PM

dont think i could, maybe with distant friends and ppl i dont spend time with

m4k4v4li 02-25-2009 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by stewie (Post 6300012)
no, but please introduce me to samantha :p

what does the letter of her first name start with

saucywoman 02-25-2009 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by SamJ5 (Post 6300351)
Is it ok for a guy to look at porn while in a relationship!??!


I think porn is fine, but I know some are against it and would flip out if their boyfriend was looking at porn while in a relationship.

SamJ5 02-25-2009 12:23 PM

so you wouldn't care if your man was looking at porn?

happytoro 02-25-2009 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by SamJ5 (Post 6300351)
Is it ok for a guy to look at porn while in a relationship!??!

Yes, I don't see anything wrong with it, might learn something new from it too. Watch it together :D

saucywoman 02-25-2009 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by SamJ5 (Post 6300394)
so you wouldn't care if your man was looking at porn?

no. I worked at AOV like 6 years ago so do not have a problem with them watching it occassionally. If it became an every day night thing or where he could only have sex with me after watching or something along those lines then I could care less.
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Originally Posted by happytoro (Post 6300396)
Yes, I don't see anything wrong with it, might learn something new from it too. Watch it together :D

exactly, as long as it's not an everyday thing like I stated above.

Grandmaster TSE 02-25-2009 01:50 PM

gotta follow the code, can't do it

q0192837465 02-25-2009 04:00 PM

Screw the code. It's a dog eat dog world.

I say it's fair game, go for it

stewie 02-25-2009 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by SamJ5 (Post 6300351)
oh boy...haha got some good laughs out of some of these comments... Hey stewie I bet you and your friends still joke about sleeping with the same girl to this day!! HILARIOUS..next question...Is it ok for a guy to look at porn while in a relationship!??!


oh we do, its even better when we get her out and all of us are there together hahahaha.

6chr0nic4, starts with a C :thumbsup:

XtC_13aBy 02-25-2009 08:21 PM

Like others said, it depends on how close the friend is to me and how they broke up. If the person treated them like shit or ended in bad terms, I would avoid dating that person as they may do the same to me and it is also disrespect to the friend.

Porn is okay for a boyfriend to watch. I don't see anything wrong with that as it's a natural thing for males to do anyway.

JSALES 02-25-2009 11:43 PM

i used to have two really close girl friends who were best friends with each other and i dated one of them and went out with the other one after a while and it was a bad decision, i got fucked over and don't even talk to them no more because they have that rule "bestfriend's don't date each others ex's" haha

Nintensity 03-01-2009 02:24 AM

I wouldn't date my buddies x-girlfriend. Even if she's Jessica Alba or not.
I simply put bros before hoes. simple as that.

Grandmaster TSE 03-01-2009 03:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Nintensity (Post 6306442)
I wouldn't date my buddies x-girlfriend. Even if she's Jessica Alba or not.
I simply put bros before hoes. simple as that.

:werd:

Inaii 03-01-2009 04:36 AM

Nope, only because my friends and I generally don't like the same guys. It's only ever happened twice that myself and a girlfriend liked the same guy, and only one of those guys would I still consider dating after she did.

As for the porn issue, couldn't care less.

taylor192 03-02-2009 05:39 PM

Most guys think they own their girls, so they have problems seeing them with their friends.
If your buddy has a problem with you dating his ex-GF, your buddy is the problem and probably not as good a friend as you think, cause he's either not over her, or thinks you're a douche bag.

I have introduced my ex-GFs to my friends who I think would be a better match and since he's my buddy I know he'll treat her well.

tiger_handheld 03-02-2009 07:22 PM

sean avrey said it best: "I dont understand why other guys like my sloppy seconds"
* make weird grin n walk away*

3xta 03-02-2009 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Nintensity (Post 6306442)
I wouldn't date my buddies x-girlfriend. Even if she's Jessica Alba or not.
I simply put bros before hoes. simple as that.

I wish everyone thought like that

sexyflanders 03-03-2009 05:13 PM

I wouldn't but like most people said, depending on the situation it could seem appropriate and harmless.

Culture_Vulture 03-03-2009 05:45 PM

In retrospect,
now that I think about it

the whole BROS before HOES rule only applies if you consider him a bro AND her a hoe.

hotjoint 03-04-2009 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Physixx (Post 6310651)
In retrospect,
now that I think about it

the whole BROS before HOES rule only applies if you consider him a bro AND her a hoe.

:werd:

syee 03-04-2009 08:20 AM

I don't know if I agree with the bros before hoes rule. She's your EX - not your current girlfriend. You're not with her anymore, so you have no say in how she (or your friend) runs their life. If they want to go hook up with my ex, more power to them. If I'm a true friend, I'd probably warn them if there's something really bad that they should know. Otherwise, they should be able to do what they want - who knows if your buddy is a better match for your ex...

My 0.02...

DragonsMaw 03-04-2009 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by taylor192 (Post 6308864)
I have introduced my ex-GFs to my friends who I think would be a better match and since he's my buddy I know he'll treat her well.

The trick is being sure you're over her, then this is the way to go.

domesticdiva 03-04-2009 10:11 PM

Well think about it, your friend probably slept with the other person... You're likely going to do that too... Does that not gross you out? Your relationship with the friend will likely change and become distant because hell, you aren't gonna be sharing sex stories to each other are you? Unless if you're ok with that.

DragonsMaw 03-05-2009 02:10 AM

No issue to me. Does the thought that someone else slept with your boy/girlfriend gross you out? Have you run into any of his/her ex's before? It's pretty much only as awkward as you want it to be.

hotjoint 03-05-2009 06:30 AM

everyone has been everyone's seconds unless they were a virgin.


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