how do you pick up girls and meet em without being stalkerish
 

how do you pick up girl/ meet girls in random places-library, london drugs, , grocery store, bookstore without being a stalkerish or a stalker. i mean if you see a good looking girl, and she walking down the aisle you can;t just go up and say hello you have to follow her to her destination-be it magazine section where she is looking and then begin saying hello and talking right. how do you do that without being stalkerish

i think today some girl might have reported me to security at the library for being stalkerish. i mean if they do catch me what will happen. i mean i donlt follow them home or anything , just to follow them and see were they are going so i can go and chat and say hello ,make small talk and xchange info for coffee....etc

to what point should i stop and what point should i continue.



all i do or say to the girls is hello how are you, what you readng and nothing sexual or mean. just friendly chat. and try to get her number or email or i give out mine and ask her to email or call me. i mean you can;t do this when she is just walking in the library you have to wait for her to settle in her destination(the magazine section, the fiction section and she is looking for books) or when there are too many ppl around you want to wait for her to get out of that area and u follow and see where she is going and when there is less ppl there u go and say hello and talk. why-less embrassing.

if the sercurity guard catch me doing this like following girls and he report to police can i go to jail. what will happen.

so how do you pick up girls in random places without being stalkerish and making the girl feel uncomfortable

and the black sercuity guard accused me of stealing stuff in the library -damnnittt. why would i steal library book you dumbo. he said"hey is everything all right, everytime i turn around you turn around" -stupid. i think maybe some girl i chatted up with or eyeing reported me to sercirty and the sercuirty guard was following me and checking me out to see if i am following and talking to these girls

your stories never cease to entertain

^ why is this joe_45 dude still here??

he just wants to fit in

have we confirmed this is JOE_45, he usually posts the same post on multiple forums - can anyone confirm?

^no need to confirm.

confirmed
http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=282059

I came in here expecting to find a good read and give some input,
oh well.

^^ Notice how he has 448 posts on that site and he has also recently replied.

Where's our reply? ;_;

His reply.

Is....right here.

sad... LOL

epic thread..

srsly does anyone have a pic of this guy

i really wanna know how he looks like

I believe some one has posted a picture of him few years ago

that's hard to believe, joe45 is a hermit

joe_45 again? :lol

i need to see the true beauty of joe45..

Maybe something along these lines
http://www.revscene.net/forums/custo...tar51475_1.gif

That would definitely explain the security guard issue..

Good - I'm glad nobody has responded to joe45's question. Maybe he'll finally get the hint that we're tired of giving him advice. :D

Clearly you're a stalker. Don't lie.

if you still don't know how to do it right, you should stop doing it

easy. don't be joe_45

I think there's a picture of Joe45 on his Plenty of Fish profile
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts11737201.aspx

The REAL Sam Malone wouldn't have a problem with this...

this thread is going nowhere, closed. op if you wish it to continue further pm me to reopen it