whatever makes you guys happy. i see it as a boundary issue, like the person above said why do you need to go through is wallet? His phone?

The driving thing is OK when you put it that way, but it sounds like you changed your story from "he offers", to "he's tired"

It still sounds like he's a little whipped.

I'm surprised at some of these results too. Why so possessive?

To answer the original question, nothing! If there's something I'm really paranoid over, I don't need to say "DON'T TOUCH!" - she knows not to touch without me having to say so, or that item doesn't even interest her. I've already warned her about downloading shit from the internet so she's careful not to click on random links and messing up my computer. She doesn't care about my wallet, cell phone, etc. and I could care less about her stuff too.

I guess this is what happens when you've been together for 12+ years?

i'm with Gumby on the "why so possissive?"

he is the only one i ever felt comfortable giving my password to to login to my home computer. i trust that he's not an idiot and knows what to download and what he shouldn't click on. if he wants to browse through the photos on my computer, sure. but he might see pictures of me and ex bf's that he probably would have not wanted to see. he knows the password to my main email accounts. again, if he wants to click around, he might just end up finding something he wish he hadn't. he knows my login/pw for wow. he has a key to my place. he leaves his wallet and cell phone laying around when he's over. if i wanted to i could look through it, but i don't unless he asks me to or if there is a reason to (being nosy isn't one of them)

i guess it feels like there is an unspoken boundary that we both respect.

Glad to hear I'm not the only one being surprised.

Offering, and being tired of driving can happen at the same time. Benefits both me and the SO, as i get the practice and he gets the rest. He shows me wallet if he gets a new card or id and i want to look at the photo, or lets me play around with the phone if it's new and if the functions on the phone are interesting. It all comes down to trust. Nothing to hide here!:) On the other hand, I wouldn't be giving out passwords to my SO or any other person as there would be no logical reason for checking other people's email accounts and whatnot.

i gave him my password to email so he could check meeting place/time for me in case something had changed... not a blackberry owner.

When you say "he" I thought you were talking about me! :p

Exactly! :thumbsup:

For me it really depends on the person. Some things I would NEVER give out, such as email information and banking information. I've dated enough and seen enough ppl date psycho bitches. Everything's all good until someone gets pissed at the other.

the phone thing I don't really care. The car? It REALLY depends.....since my car's been tuned and built specifically for myself. Anyone else driving it usually has a bit of a difficult time.

when i read my post after submitting, i realized that too, but was too lazy to edit it :p

+1 lol, definitely the same as this, i've never been bothered with my SO going through any of my stuff.. but there have been time's where she's gotten to my phone first when i've received a text and she's blown it out of proportion over something stupid lol

my car




get in, shut up, and buckle up than touch nothing else

It's not about looking in his/her wallet, it's knowing the fact that you can. If you aren't allowed to look into his/her wallet in the first place, then theres already a lack of trust... I don't care if my girlfriend looks through any of my shit and it's not that I am whipped, I just enjoy the mutual trust.

I don't understand why some of you are in relationships where you act as if you have something to hide, EVEN IF you say you don't.. why so possessive then? Unless of course you're in a relationship merely for the sex with minimal emotions invested, then I understand.

Edit:
Forgot to mention that I let my gf drive my car and only because when she drive it shes scared shitless by it ( and also the fact that she doesn't want to crash my car ) that she ends up being 10x more cautious, so I don't mind. But thus far, shes only driven it once and she said never again.

well I give my pw to my debit card to my ex(I think she still remembers it O_O).

There is only one thing I would never ever let anyone use and that's my WoW account :eek: WoW ADDICT HERE! I am not scare of losing gold. I am scare that when ppl use my account they might do some dumb stuff like not knowing how to use my character and gets everyone kill. Or say something dumb and gets the acct ban.

But yea I got nothing to hide since well...... I got nothing personal lol.