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The7even 09-07-2009 02:51 AM

at best, he's a clueless virigin. at best, she's an oversensitive bitch. guy > girl in this case.

CounterPuncher 09-07-2009 07:19 AM

I dunno... it coudl go either way on that one.

urrh 09-07-2009 07:29 AM

please... big lips isn't racist.
it isn't demeaning or derogatory. bitch needs to get laid and chill the fuck out.

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Originally Posted by SkinnyPupp (Post 6580945)
Your friend obviously doesn't date women much (or else why would his friends be hooking him up on blind dates? ;)), or he would have put it in a complimentary way. Tell her he thinks her lips are beautiful, and that must be a feature she got from being mixed, or something like that. Instead he just says she has big lips? What a moron :lol

i would poke fun at her, if anything i'd say his friend was too neutral

SkinnyPupp 09-07-2009 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by urrh (Post 6580987)
please... big lips isn't racist.
it isn't demeaning or derogatory. bitch needs to get laid and chill the fuck out.


i would poke fun at her, if anything i'd say his friend was too neutral

Spoken like a true virgin :lol

Racist or not, you don't say that shit to a girl. Especially on a first date. Unless you hate women.

asian_XL 09-07-2009 07:42 AM

I am sure the real conversation is like this, I don't believe simply saying she has big lips will get offended.

girl: "I’m half Irish and half black, everyone is surprised when I tell them"
frd: "oh wow, you are a black n*gger dawg? fo shizzle dizzle, you ain't no black yo, but I guess the only black feature you have is your bad ass muthafucking lips"
girl: "what?"
frd: "YEAAAAAAH...WAT (lil jon) OKAAAYY you know n*ggers have big muthafucking lips, you heard?".

urrh 09-07-2009 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by SkinnyPupp (Post 6580991)
Spoken like a true virgin :lol

Racist or not, you don't say that shit to a girl. Especially on a first date. Unless you hate women.

is it hard to maintain your level of douchy-ness in all your posts? just wondering...
okay pimp-sensei. here's how i see your dates going. you whip out complements when ever there's a lull in the conversation. bread and butter. i mean... how could this not work right?

SkinnyPupp 09-07-2009 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by urrh (Post 6581003)
is it hard to maintain your level of douchy-ness in all your posts? just wondering...
okay pimp-sensei. here's how i see your dates going. you whip out complements when ever there's a lull in the conversation. bread and butter. i mean... how could this not work right?

Yes, that is exactly what I am saying. It's right there, word for word, in the post I made. Nice reading skills you have there.

You're probably right though. Being nice to the person you want to fuck will never work. You must be a real ladies' man huh?

Fucking moron.

Dinan3 09-07-2009 08:19 AM

Some girls are more sensitive than others. Some asian girls will get offended if someone told them they have small eyes.

On a first date, you need to tread more carefully with your choice of words. haha.

Move on. I don't think that was racist.

TekDragon 09-07-2009 10:01 AM

She got upset and walked. Your buddy just saved himself a few months of finding out she's overly PC the hard way.

CanadaGoose 09-07-2009 10:01 AM

LOL that was a really stupid thing to say on a first date...

but judging by that, NO he is not a racist. I think he just needs to work on his people skills... and so does the girl lol

urrh 09-07-2009 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by SkinnyPupp (Post 6581011)
Yes, that is exactly what I am saying. It's right there, word for word, in the post I made. Nice reading skills you have there.

You're probably right though. Being nice to the person you want to fuck will never work. You must be a real ladies' man huh?

Fucking moron.

Don't worry about me.
I won't keep you any longer, feel free to go back to eating dick

E=mc˛ 09-07-2009 12:16 PM

yeah I don't think the friend should've put it in that way. He should've picked his words carefully. It is a dinner afterall, he's not trying to pick her up in a club or bar.

Of course everything things happen for a reason and now your friend can see her true colours.

Ch28 09-07-2009 01:03 PM

Friend shouldn't have made that kind of comment

Girl should wash the sand out of her vagina.

Girl 09-07-2009 07:15 PM

I was waiting for the extra little bit of "...well you know? black people have amazing big blow job lips!"

at least it didn't play out like this with a half Irish half Chinese girl:

Girl: I'm bi-racial, guess my race
OP: wow I wouldn't have thought you were mixed, I guess the only Chinese feature you have would be your chest.

quasi 09-07-2009 07:24 PM

He could have worded it better but he's probably better off it didn't go any further. It might have taken another date or 3 to find out what a nutter she is, time saved. If she wrote on my facebook calling me a racist I`d bring the smack talk like no tomorrow. I`d do it because it`s fun and easy to push buttons of women like her, she wouldn`t stand a chance.

InvisibleSoul 09-07-2009 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by TekDragon (Post 6581093)
She got upset and walked. Your buddy just saved himself a few months of finding out she's overly PC the hard way.

True story. Or that she's just dumb.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Girl (Post 6581706)
I was waiting for the extra little bit of "...well you know? black people have amazing big blow job lips!"

at least it didn't play out like this with a half Irish half Chinese girl:

Girl: I'm bi-racial, guess my race
OP: wow I wouldn't have thought you were mixed, I guess the only Chinese feature you have would be your chest.

You know, the thing is, the way it played out, it sounds like it might as well as been that. It wasn't so much that it was a RACIST thing, it was just a stereotype issue.

Except with the Chinese-chest statement, it's pretty clear that it would be taken as an insult... but for the Black-lips statement, the friend didn't think it was an insult to have big lips, but obviously the girl thought differently...

silk 09-08-2009 07:36 AM

that girl is old fashion and person who offten get offended by these comments are usually racist themself.

BallPeenHammer 09-08-2009 07:53 AM

that comment was kind of inappropriate though. It can really be taken the wrong way.

The second I read the line, I was like "wow....dumbass"

Not necessarily racist, but sounds very unintelligent.

Noir 09-08-2009 08:41 AM

Good riddance. The girl is a drama queen.

No need to publically trash someone when it wasn't intentional and when he was trying to make amends; or he wouldn't be asking what he did wrong. Should've just let him apologize.

Besides, if she's looking for a man that never gets his foot stuck in his mouth every once in a while. Good luck cuz she'll be single and pussy-dry for good.

Mr.HappySilp 09-08-2009 10:10 AM

At least your frd didn't say the N word lol.

Mugen EvOlutioN 09-08-2009 10:19 AM

:haha::haha: thats some funny shit



big lips lol

hotjoint 09-08-2009 10:29 AM

hahaha that chick is fucked up

johny 09-08-2009 06:13 PM

co workers on facebook = fail.

rslater 09-08-2009 09:07 PM

Wait a second? He paid for the bill? Ouch.

fliptuner 09-08-2009 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by rslater (Post 6583413)
Wait a second? He paid for the bill? Ouch.

:waves finger: OH NO SHE DI-ENT!!


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