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verbatim 10-02-2009 08:32 PM

how do i go about this..
 
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Ducdesmo 10-02-2009 09:16 PM

Add her on FB and go from there.

benwang 10-02-2009 09:29 PM

show her this thread

urrh 10-02-2009 10:57 PM

are you kidding me? man up and just talk about whatever you want.
as for the "catch"... how is this a catch? you already befriended her/him. don't worry about cock blocking

liu13 10-02-2009 11:09 PM

talk to her like a human being, pretend shes a guy and go from there, it's easy

Hi, how was your day? lunch? so how was your weekend? etc etc

yuusha 10-03-2009 12:51 AM

Just a shot in the dark but you could try asking her about stuff she does outside of sports... try starting with a funny story about yourself?

!Yaminashi 10-03-2009 01:04 AM

Seriously? You see her all the time and you dont know how to get to know her a little better?

Make general convo, suggest you guys go out as a group together on weekends?
If you cant make convo about anything other than the sport you're not trying very hard.

gearshifter 10-04-2009 08:35 AM

Have a story in mind to tell her... hopefully a funny one
or msn

Nikeaddict21 10-05-2009 01:03 AM

how old are u?...... why dont u ask your mutual friend to hook u guys up?

IronLeg 10-06-2009 07:33 PM

Just ask about her, what she does for work?school?
How long has she been in this sport?....does she do any others?

danlee78 10-07-2009 12:09 AM

what sport is this? just ask her to grab a drink at 7-11 after ur sporting event

q0192837465 10-07-2009 11:52 AM

1 of the mistake novices make is not being obvious. Make it obvious that u'r interested in her (not in a creepy/desparate way of course). I know wut u'r thinking, u'r afraid that it'll scare her away. The truth is, it won't (unless she's 12, which u have bigger problems to worry about). It's not a crime to like somebody, so there's no need to act like it is 1 and be all dodgy & shit. When dealing with girls, sincerity counts. Acting like u have something to hide is NOT sincere.

At then end of the day, the awkwardness is just in ur head. Even if u fail, there's nothing to be ashamed about. Hold ur head up high and march forward. You have only so many years to live, make the most out of it.

Good Luck

tiger_handheld 10-07-2009 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by q0192837465 (Post 6625130)
1 of the mistake novices make is not being obvious. Make it obvious that u'r interested in her (not in a creepy/desparate way of course). I know wut u'r thinking, u'r afraid that it'll scare her away. The truth is, it won't (unless she's 12, which u have bigger problems to worry about). It's not a crime to like somebody, so there's no need to act like it is 1 and be all dodgy & shit. When dealing with girls, sincerity counts. Acting like u have something to hide is NOT sincere.

At then end of the day, the awkwardness is just in ur head. Even if u fail, there's nothing to be ashamed about. Hold ur head up high and march forward. You have only so many years to live, make the most out of it.

Good Luck

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danlee78 10-07-2009 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by q0192837465 (Post 6625130)
1 of the mistake novices make is not being obvious. Make it obvious that u'r interested in her (not in a creepy/desparate way of course). I know wut u'r thinking, u'r afraid that it'll scare her away. The truth is, it won't (unless she's 12, which u have bigger problems to worry about). It's not a crime to like somebody, so there's no need to act like it is 1 and be all dodgy & shit. When dealing with girls, sincerity counts. Acting like u have something to hide is NOT sincere.

At then end of the day, the awkwardness is just in ur head. Even if u fail, there's nothing to be ashamed about. Hold ur head up high and march forward. You have only so many years to live, make the most out of it.

Good Luck

might be kinda forward, but it's personal preference i guess

Jackygor 10-07-2009 09:08 PM

it ll be awkward if you think it is awkward. Like others have said, talk to her like a normal human being.

danlee78 10-08-2009 04:22 AM

^:thumbsup:


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