Sorry the title is misleading hahaha, mod wana change it to Man afriad to divorce wife :P
http://www.chinasmack.com/stories/ma...-wife-9-times/
Ning Yuan stands across from me, height approximately 1.75m, appearance can be considered handsome, his face full of whiskers exudes a complete manliness, and he does not look like what I thought a man who has been beaten 9 times after one year of marriage would look like.
Not long after sitting down, Mr. Ning unnaturally lights a cigarette, occasionally fiercely taking a drag. He does not raise his head the entire time, his eyes are a little dull, his mouth murmuring as he relates his experiences of his wife’s domestic violence, and wanting to get divorced but also afraid his wife won’t agree and afraid he will will be brutally beaten over this matter. The most embarrassing thing is that his wife does not consider face [personal honor] when hitting someone, several times fiercely slapping my face in front of my mother and brothers [close male friends].
The first time there was a fight, I made the first move. At the time, we were fighting for the computer and my wife wanted me to let her use it. Right as I was most preoccupied [with the computer], I casually pushed her aside once, not expecting she would walk over and slap me. I was slapped silly, and half a day passed before I could recover my wits. I leaping at her wanting to press her onto the bed to recover face, but because my heart is soft, I did not use much strength, not like the ferocious tiger she was. With a bang, she had me pressed on the bed, conveniently using her leg pinning me down by my butt, and no matter how I struggled I couldn’t turn over. Up till now I still don’t understand how my wife pressed me to the bed.
Not long after, terror once again raised its curtains. That time she launched a kick at me, I instinctively raised my leg to block the kick. My wife hooked my leg, sending me toppling to the ground (tragically, a tooth was lost, afterwards replaced with a gold tooth), extending my hand to block, she used her forearm on my arm and twisted, I don’t know how, and suddenly my arm was twisted behind my back, a foot bends my leg, and I am suddenly kneeling on the floor. At that time my mother present, and I was very embarrassed. I wanted to get up to hit her, but no matter how hard I tried I could not get up. This one time was very disasterous. This one point was very miserable, my hand twisted by my wife was dislocated, and I had to go to the hospital.
Another time when she was about to hit me, my friend was present. I thought I found savior in my friend, mistakenly thinking I had an advantage this time. I thought that since my friend was 1.8m tall, even if he did not help me, but could secretly assist me a bit, I would not meet defeat, right? So I ran to the balcony and got a one meter long clothes drying rack and threw it at her. Before it hit my wife’s body and with a bang, my wife broke the clothes drying rack into two halves. Scared into hiding behind my friend’s body, my wife in one motion threw my friend aside a few meters. Using half the clothes drying rack, she fiercly hit my butt, the pain making me wail. With my friend there, I had to do something to redeem my face [honor], so I grabbed the remaining half of the clothes drying rack to hit back. Even more disasterous, my wife instantly grabbed my wrist holding the clothes drying rack, twisted it back and, my god, my hand broke. For several days on end I could not pull up my own pants after using the toilet.
Married one year, beaten 9 times, 5 times in front of my mother’s face, frightening her so much she would not dare come close, and only by secretly dialing 110 [the emergency police number] could help me escape danger, the police came 6 times, I went to the hospital 5 times, twice the blows caused dislocation, once bone was broken, countless times my face was scratched, and many days I didn’t dare leave home to see colleagues. I want to divorce, but I really love her, she also loves me, and after every fight, my wife takes care of me, gives me a massage. When I could not use my hand, she also fed me. Moreover, our sex-life has continuously been very harmonious, only, when doing it at night, she sometimes hits me a few times too.
Ning Yuan tells me, he and his wife met each other in college, the two fell in love, and at that time she was gentle and cute. He never thought that after marriage she would become like this. He only found out afterwards, Only afterwords did he find out that his wife enjoyed studying warfare since childhood, has terrifying kung fu, and that she could go fight four men by herself. Ning Yuan again asks me, just what is he supposed to do, divorce or leave home/run away?
Hearing Ning Yuan relate each incident of his bloody and tearful history, I slightly wanted to laugh, but also felt this was all unbelievable. Divorce, flee, or reconcile? This is Ning Yuan and his wife’s business. I too have no way of giving a proper answer, and can only encourage Ning Yuan, telling him that there should be mutual respect between man and wife, that he should tell her his thoughts, try to communicate, what happens afterward they themselves must resolve…
