Anon. Submission: To whack off OR not to whack off
 

...that is the question.

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You are thinking too much. Put too much pressure on yourself could lead to temp. ED which is worse then only lasting 5 minutes.

Make use of your tongue and fingers. Relax and she will be relaxed and whatever happens happens.

1-2 shots of rum 20 minutes before sex.

Yes, I am sure she wants to smell the alcohol on your breath as you guys make out. :rolleyes:

And the alcohol might give you ED so that is something you really don't want to do.

To the OP, just be yourself. If you like to wack off, then do it. If you can go without, then go without.
When it comes to the act, take your time. Don't rush. If you feel that you are nearing the end, slow down or change things up a bit. And if things go well, you will have enough to go a second or third round, depending on how old you are.

This, 'cause this actually happened to me the first time I ever got laid. :haha:

Think too much about it and you'll do a combination of the following: stress yourself out, get limp, and/or try too hard - eventually failing in bed. Just calm down, don't get too excited.

I say don't jack off. You should have jacked off enough in your life to know when you're getting close to cumming, slow it down when that happens in order to prevent premature ejaculation. Pace yourself so you don't go too hard and fast at the start and wind up making yourself blow. Also, there's ways to hide when you're about to blow - change positions, bring her in for a deep kiss, etc.

sometimes when i dont jack off and save up before sex / bj, it makes the experience a whole lot more enjoyable

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Another thing.. If you wanna bust a good nut make sure you drink a lot of water.
Keeping yourself hydrated makes you bust more.
Also celery helps. Peter North eats like 3 stalks of celery the night before a shoot.
Zinc is another thing that increases sperm count..

I've had it happen three times..
One time I drank too much.
Another time I lowered my standards just cuz I had nothing else going on that night.
The last time I was hard for a while but I was putting so much pressure on myself to do things right. I hadnt hooked up with that girl for like a year.. the sex was always great but I always am trying to change things up and do better. I couldnt get hard after like 10 minutes of having sex since I was stressing myself out so much.

Whack off. I can go on and on and on immediately (well, 3-5 mins) after finishing and I still have my original hard-on.

Or get drunk/really-really buzzed...