buying yourself expensive gifts is a bandaid to your problems

agreed. the only real option is murder/suicide.

dude. you were the 3rd person. thers was never anything there for you. move on and trat it as a booty call

i found someone hotter.

An Asian semi-pro salsa dancer.

God....shoulda took her pic in her salsa dress and stick it on the twanger page >.<

Wow three times this has happened to you?!
Theres something wrong and it aint just the girls I'll tell you that. Change up YOUR lifestyle and maybe you'll change up the type of girl you end up with. Buying shit aint gonna fix your problems buying shit when your depressed is a chick thing to do anyhow like chocolate icecream and soap operas.
I've been through what your going through and I didn't blame her or the dudes she slept with three times also. Five years with the current girl and she's never fooled around.
Man up dude and respect yourself and you'll find someone to respect you.