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Old 09-16-2010, 06:26 PM   #26
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u should of just held her hand since she knows that u like her already

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Old 09-16-2010, 07:17 PM   #27
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It's not going to turn an introvert into an extrovert. But it'll give a shy boy a fighting chance.

Having a job that forces you to talk to random stranger, puts you in a situation where you are forced to learn to make small talk. You're not going to make a sale with awkward silence.
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I worked at Best Buy for a year when I was a punk teen. I used to be pretty shy but retail definitely helps open up. Another thing that helps, when you go to bars force yourself to walk up to any stranger and start talking to them. The worst thing they can do is tell you to go away.
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Old 09-16-2010, 10:05 PM   #28
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the most important thing is humor... not perverted humor.. haha...

think of something funny you saw at work, and tell her... MAKE HER laugh... once you do that, she will be eating out of your hand in no time...

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u should of just held her hand since she knows that u like her already
lol the problem with this is.... IF she has no interest, he will go down faster then a sinking ship.. so you cant move to fast..
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Old 09-17-2010, 08:55 AM   #29
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It's not going to turn an introvert into an extrovert. But it'll give a shy boy a fighting chance.

Having a job that forces you to talk to random stranger, puts you in a situation where you are forced to learn to make small talk. You're not going to make a sale with awkward silence.
That's exactly what I mean.

My crappy retail jobs I seriously have to thank for bringing me out of my shell and teaching me to talk to people of every walk of life in all sorts of situations.

Also Starbucks which taught me how to manage grumpy caffine deprived people and make them smile even when they didn't want to.
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Old 09-17-2010, 09:22 AM   #30
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u should of just held her hand since she knows that u like her already
I'd go with this idea. Just get it done, and don't stretch this out. My experience has been to move in for the kill, right away. If you're gonna get rejected, it's better to get your hand pushed away than end up in friendzone. If you've liked this girl for awhile, then you may already be too late.
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Old 09-17-2010, 10:46 AM   #31
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i dont know, perhaps just ask her if she wants to be your gf?, instead of behaving like a beta

if she saids yes then good for u, if no then just move on and be friends like 2 adults
This happens all the time in HS which is why there are always these 2 week relationships.

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Yeah and be a little bit of an ass too. You can't be a laydown and be her bitch. That would make it too easy for her and she's gonna get bored of you real quick. It's true when they say nice guys finish last.

You seem pretty shy and she does too. Go watch a movie and put your arm around her and if shes ok with that then hold her hand. See how she reacts.
If she's not ok with that, you'll know pretty quick and you can just back right off.

ahhhhh the good ol high school days.....I miss them.
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Old 09-17-2010, 10:54 AM   #32
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move on..... since you're only in your teens.. meeting a girl is way easier
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:15 PM   #33
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Its awkward because IT IS awkward. Simply just address it. Say "Hey i know since (your friends name) told you i liked you that things are seemingly awkward between us now, buts it hardly true....for now, and i just want to get to know you better"
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Old 09-23-2010, 11:43 PM   #34
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OP, if you guys are speaking to each other in sentences every 2-3 minutes and she's texting while you're just standing there as her cup holder, it's not the makings of a good relationship or even a relationship for that matter. BTW, speaking 2-3 lines every 2-3 minutes really isn't a conversation if it's just random banter.

Unless you guys can talk more and hold more of an actual conversation, you have no chance, bud. Like someone else said, she ain't that into you otherwise she'd show at least some signs of it even as a friend.
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Old 09-25-2010, 08:57 PM   #35
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i don't think that bumping into her friends at the mall was a coincidence...
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