oh shit :(

I'm Turbo E. Self explanatory

Not established yet.

What does that have to do with his list of flaws? Many men have been raised by their mother with a distant relationship with their dads and they don't all possess these characteristics.

the main reason is probably lack of confidence. I'd say "waiting for the right one" is probably just an excuse and to make ourselves feel better that we don't have a gf/bf (including myself). The thing is if you don't throw yourself out there, no one will notice you and therefore arrives back to lack of confidence. I'm positive that look is indeed important, but personality is a lot more important. I see couples that are "average" looking and those are the ones I envy and those are probably the ones that will live in "real happiness". People who goes for looks and those who are gold diggers, I don't admire them at all because there will always be that "barrier" between them. I also don't admire those who "play" with relationships, I just think they're really really low...For those singles out there or those who haven't been in a relationship, it's not that we're not good, it's probably just because we aren't trying hard enough, taken that extra step to achieve that target. Stuff that happened to me recently made me realize that sometimes you need to lose some 'face' in order to get what you want. You'll look stupid and embarrass yourself at times, but it will payoff. It's better than not doing anything and always ponder about what would of happened if you actually did what you wanted to do. Everyone has flaws, but if we be ourselves and feel that we've done all we could with the power we have, there's really....nothing to regret.

my problem is too common ...

not good enough looking to go for smoking, hot chicks; and not bad enough to convince myself to settle for girls I think who's below average ...

not rich enough to shower girls with expensive, brand name stuffs; and not broke enough to pull off that old navy look ...

not tall enough to stand out from the crowd; and not short enough to become noticeable when girls look down to check their shoes ...

not fat enough to enjoy the blow out discount on clothes when only size available is XXl besides XS; and not skinny enouge to enjoy the discount for the same reason ...

not having a big enough dick to ring the door bell with; and not small enough that girl can use and save on dental floss ...

not smart enough to fully understand quantum physics or girls' feelings; and not dumb enough to simply give up quantum physic ...

+1, which leads to - I dont get out enough to perhaps meet new people.

I also sort of have high standards.

I actually dont feel bad about anything else for the reason why i'm single. I blame the type of people i socialize with.

I am not flawed, the women are.

women don't like being not the only one. hahahahaaha.

cant find the right one.. maybe not everyone has a criteria, but because of my experiences i have one.
ie. i used to go out with a few girls which required really high maintenance, ones with attitude and etc.

Asking RS for relationship advice.

The following is what got me dumped recently, as said by my ex:
-Don't got my shit together (shitty pt job, in between switching courses for uni)
-Antisocial gamer/anime nerd
-Lack of confidence from above circumstances
-Lack of money due to above circumstances
-Lack of friends due to above circumstances leading me to skip out on spending time with friends
-Take relationships way too seriously and gets emotionally attached too easily and too strongly due to lack of friends/social interaction
-No car (BIG reason)

And what keeps me single until now:
-Too proud to go after LGs my friends introduce to me
-Too uninterested in girls who don't have common interests/too dark/fugly faces
-Not enough girls who share interests and are worth going after/are single/both
-Bad with girls in general
-Too lazy to go out even when friends are dragging me along to meet new girls
-Can't get ex out of my mind
-Vowed to stop going after Chinese girls after being cheated on and led on and dumped (Half of Vancouver's female population, I know)

+can't get over the ex
+miss the ex
+called a date my ex's name by accident

clearly this is why

i don't give a damn I'm single..

female's are time & money,I'm 19 and have my entire life ahead of me,why try worry & do the same shit as other people and try be a couple when I'm perfectly already trying piece together my future career.

Bad shape, lack motivation, lack confidence.
Generally get close to girl I like or may like. Push the relationship to the boarder of the friend zone. Play friend zone chicken until one of us pushes forward or chickens out. The later is usually the result.

how do u get pussy?

you know how to dougie?

all the bitches love me, all the, all the bitches love me




:fullofwin:

I play WoW.

after a couple of bad relationships, i'm choosing to be single now..

education and career is my new focus, worried girls will be too distracting

and one would think, with a screen name like yours, money wouldnt be an issue...:fullofwin:

ditto, cept for the education and career part. after having a few horrible LTR with women, ive become picky as fuck with them....smokes? shes cut....over weight? cut....has a receptionist job? CUT BIG TIME...dosnt have a licence? cut...

i know what i dont want...but every girl i seem to find seems to be the same or fall into a category wich pisses me off hahaha. i know what i want and im not going to waste my time settling for anything but it.

Define 'broke as a joke'. not all women are gold diggers!

In fact, some girls might even hate it when guys buy them things. But of course, to an extent its still nice to do so.
I don't know about your situation, but I do know calling all girls gold diggers would be as wrong as saying all guys cheat. :bigthumb:

I don't like going on dates. I hate them with the passion. If I was to go on a date it would have to be something we both find intresting.

It's not that women are gold-diggers per se, but I think most guys can agree that having a girlfriend does cost money over the long-run.

Even dating can be expensive. Here's a typical breakdown of courtship:
1. Coffee or a beverage: 10 to 20 bucks
2. Meal at a kitschy place: 40 to 60 bucks
3. Activity of some sort: 20 to 200 bucks
If you play your cards right, you should get laid after the 2nd or 3rd date. If not, then you'll repeat this cycle which can end up costing quite a bit if you're unlucky.
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^ You can get laid without paying and doing all that stuff....