REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.


Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Automotive Chat > Vancouver Off-Topic / Current Events

Vancouver Off-Topic / Current Events The off-topic forum for Vancouver, funnies, non-auto centered discussions, WORK SAFE. While the rules are more relaxed here, there are still rules. Please refer to sticky thread in this forum.

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 01-25-2012, 07:44 PM   #1
SiRVs up, dude
 
SiRV's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Outerspace
Posts: 4,762
Thanked 341 Times in 175 Posts
Man marries love of his life.. after she died *photos*






Quote:
The man who married his girlfriend at her funeral
A bizarrely bittersweet ceremony marks both the beginning and the end for one longtime couple
POSTED ON JANUARY 20, 2012, AT 7:00 AM

A Thai man kissed the hand of his deceased bride at a funeral-cum-wedding he hosted after her untimely death. Photo: Facebook/Chadil Deffy
In a tale of love lost that is either touching or weird (or both), a Thai man held a combination funeral and wedding last week for his longtime girlfriend who died, unexpectedly, before they could wed officially. (See a photo below.) Here, a short guide to this bittersweet event:

Who is this guy?
Chadil Deffy, also known as Deff Yingyuen, is a TV director from Northeastern Thailand. For the past 10 years he has focused on his continuing education and budding career since graduating from the Eastern Asia University, where he met his girlfriend Sarinya "Anne" Kamsook.

What's their story?
After falling in love at the university and staying together for a decade, Anne had wanted to get married, but settled for a promise of matrimony while Deff got his professional life in order. But Anne died in an accident on Jan. 3, leaving Deff's promise unkept. The bereft boyfriend decided, however belatedly, to honor his word.

What was this ceremony?
Friends and family were invited via Facebook to the wedding-cum-funeral rite at a local temple in Surin Province. The grieving TV director had a small film crew capture the event and reportedly invited a novice monk, which in the Thai Buddhist tradition ensures a loving marriage. Deff wore a tuxedo, top hat, and white bow-tie, while his bride, laid out on wooden platform, wore a short white dress, fishnet stockings and gloves, and a veil. In front of a small group of family friends, Deff placed a wedding ring on his bride's finger, kissed her hand, and her forehead.

How are people responding?
After photos of the ceremony were posted on Deff's Facebook page, the public response ranged from sympathetic to skeptical. But as one friend wrote in an op-ed in the Bangkok Post: "The "wedding" was [Deff's] attempt to right a wrong, however belated the gesture might have been."
The man who married his girlfriend at her funeral - The Week
Photos from the guys FB


Advertisement
__________________
My Feedback Rating
SiRV is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 08:38 PM   #2
Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
 
RacePace's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Richmond
Posts: 11,180
Thanked 1,315 Times in 328 Posts
__________________
Quote:
Originally posted by Girl
^ Yes it's sad when you stare at the shape of my penis through my overly skin tight jeans and not help but feel like a shameful little boy compared to me.
RacePace is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 08:59 PM   #3
I don't get it
 
mercyboy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: New westminster
Posts: 409
Thanked 161 Times in 53 Posts
romeo and juliet right there...
mercyboy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 09:01 PM   #4
Banned By Establishment
 
Gridlock's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: New West
Posts: 3,998
Thanked 2,982 Times in 1,135 Posts
Don't you need to consummate a marriage for it to be legit?
Gridlock is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 09:18 PM   #5
RS controls my life!
 
Jegz's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Richcity
Posts: 1,295
Thanked 1,179 Times in 229 Posts
__________________
www.fadebygrey.com
Jegz is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 01-25-2012, 09:21 PM   #6
My homepage has been set to RS
 
dachinesedude's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Richmond
Posts: 2,191
Thanked 1,176 Times in 422 Posts
thats sweet, sad, and downright creepy at the same time
dachinesedude is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 01-25-2012, 09:26 PM   #7
In RS I Trust
 
murd0c's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Mission
Posts: 20,191
Thanked 17,270 Times in 4,117 Posts
One day I hope I can love someone as much as he loves her.....
murd0c is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 01-25-2012, 09:29 PM   #8
Need my Daily Fix of RS
 
yot065's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 267
Thanked 31 Times in 17 Posts
dagger to heart :'( very touching
yot065 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 09:33 PM   #9
reads most threads with his pants around his ankles, especially in the Forced Induction forum.
 
Mr.HappySilp's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 10,645
Thanked 2,190 Times in 1,131 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by yot065 View Post
dagger to heart :'( very touching
I felt nothing..... maybe coz I haven't fall in love for so long I forgot that feeling.......
Mr.HappySilp is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 09:33 PM   #10
NOOB, Not Quite a Regular!
 
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Home
Posts: 8
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
What the fuck?
iTommiiWong is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 09:35 PM   #11
I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: richmond
Posts: 2,513
Thanked 1,352 Times in 445 Posts
Marrying a corpse is one thing. But props to him if he can stay 'faithful' throughout his life.
vafanculo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 09:45 PM   #12
I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: BC
Posts: 3,558
Thanked 3,813 Times in 957 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by vafanculo View Post
Marrying a corpse is one thing. But props to him if he can stay 'faithful' throughout his life.
Pretty much.
flagella is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2012, 09:50 PM   #13
My homepage has been set to RS
 
drunkrussian's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 2,308
Thanked 825 Times in 341 Posts
a funeral-cum-wedding?! whaaaaa?
drunkrussian is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
This post FAILED by:
Old 01-25-2012, 10:21 PM   #14
VAC Head Rotang Mod
 
Raid3n's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Van
Posts: 10,668
Thanked 1,427 Times in 627 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by drunkrussian View Post
a funeral-cum-wedding?! whaaaaa?
it's latin

Quote:
cum
prep.
Together with; plus. Often used in combination: our attic-cum-studio.
[Latin; see kom in Indo-European roots.]
Quote:
cum
prep
used between two nouns to designate an object of a combined nature a kitchen-cum-dining room
[Latin: with, together with, along with]
__________________
2020 ND2 Miata - Polymetal Grey, Red Nappa Leather
1993 Subaru WRX (2004 WRX engine, COBB access port)
2001 CBR600F4i

My Feedback (10-0-0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Fei-Ji View Post
haha i can taste the cum in my mouth
Raid3n is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 01-25-2012, 11:46 PM   #15
Orgasm Donor & Alatar owned my ass twice!
 
DanHibiki's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 6,854
Thanked 4,387 Times in 1,145 Posts
__________________
GO Canucks GO!

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) hi there
(づ。◕‿‿◕。)づ・。*。✧・゜゜・。✧。*・゜゜・✧。・$$$$$゜゜・。*。・゜*✧ .


xxx~*…like dis post if u cry evry time…~*xxx
DanHibiki is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 12:28 AM   #16
Everyone wants a piece of R S...
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: VANCOUVER
Posts: 398
Thanked 247 Times in 61 Posts
in theory it sounds sweet and romantic, worthy of korean drama material.

but actually going through all the motions and carrying it out IRL is downright creepy and awkward.......

"and do u take this man to be ur lawfully wedded husband?"
"................................................. .................................................. .."
BLUETIGER is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 01:27 AM   #17
VAC Head Rotang Mod
 
Raid3n's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Van
Posts: 10,668
Thanked 1,427 Times in 627 Posts
*sneaks up behind body*

<horrible attempt at women's voice> i do! </failvoice>

__________________
2020 ND2 Miata - Polymetal Grey, Red Nappa Leather
1993 Subaru WRX (2004 WRX engine, COBB access port)
2001 CBR600F4i

My Feedback (10-0-0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Fei-Ji View Post
haha i can taste the cum in my mouth
Raid3n is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 01-26-2012, 02:40 AM   #18
My homepage has been set to RS
 
falcon's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Deutschland
Posts: 2,402
Thanked 900 Times in 387 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gridlock View Post
Don't you need to consummate a marriage for it to be legit?

Pretty sure it's not the 1800's
__________________
FOR SALE: 14'' MR2 MK1 wheels with 90% rubber $130, FD RX7 Transmission $200, Hitch Mount Snowboard/Ski rack w/ THULE clamps, locks $200. PM me for details!

If this is still in my sig, it's still avail.
falcon is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 06:39 AM   #19
Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
 
hotjoint's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Surrey
Posts: 12,737
Thanked 674 Times in 369 Posts
interesting. At least he kept his promise.
hotjoint is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 06:48 AM   #20
RS.net PIMP
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Vancouver/LA
Posts: 4,898
Thanked 3,057 Times in 824 Posts
This is just down right creepy
7seven is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 07:24 AM   #21
Rs has made me the woman i am today!
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 4,310
Thanked 580 Times in 230 Posts
Fishnet stockings to a wedding? Damn u know the guy got to chose.
Death2Theft is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 09:53 AM   #22
I subscribe to Revscene
 
dat_steve's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 1,906
Thanked 842 Times in 364 Posts
thank you for my daily dose of wait-what?
dat_steve is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 11:19 AM   #23
Rs has made me the man i am today!
 
optiblue's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Burnaby
Posts: 3,191
Thanked 274 Times in 135 Posts
That's just stupid
Posted via RS Mobile
optiblue is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 12:28 PM   #24
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
Prolowtone's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Langley BC
Posts: 865
Thanked 336 Times in 109 Posts
.... ..... I just dont know what i feel :s
Prolowtone is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-26-2012, 01:36 PM   #25
They let me be a moderator. LOL
 
SpuGen's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 9,209
Thanked 3,636 Times in 861 Posts
I'd still marry my wife if she were in an accident, and still alive. Like in this MV.



Dead. No.
It leaps across that line of just being creepy.
SpuGen is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 09:04 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2022, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net