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The key to life is Happiness. Not the goal. |
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There's nothing wrong with being a welder, I was a low level welder/fabricator at a shop in high school for awhile. My friends boyfriend is a welder, decent enough guy. If a person who will not be fulfilled by a career as a welder chooses that profession for the monetary gains, I have no respect for them. If a person chose to become a doctor specially for the monetary gains, I would have the same opinion. Money is only numbers, possessions are only things. When you die, none of that really matters anymore. At the end of your life, reflecting, you won't wish you had worked harder and bought the ipad99s and felt happy in the knowledge you own expensive jeans. If you can reflect on having lead a happy life, secure in the knowledge that you made a positive impact on the world, that's when you will be truly fulfilled. It's that fulfillment that is important, over anything else in our brief stint on this planet. Quote:
I was good at my job, I made lots of money. I bought my car all cash, lived in a nice apartment and lived a pretty comfortable lifestyle all around. I didn't go to work excited though, I went to work and just went through the motions. There was satisfaction in a turning out a good product, but it was always just another job for another person with way to much money. When my friends talked about school, I was curious about all the things they were studying and took that as a sign. Now, I'm completing my bachelors. Once that's complete I'll be applying to a two year BSN (Registered Nurse) program, specifically shortened for people who already have a full bachelors degree. I'd like to work with Doctors without Borders as a nurse. That was a much longer explanation than I intended. |
Materialism Is what drives the world forwards. People could like their job because it's good money. For some being financially well is what makes a job so enjoyable. If we all had our choice of jobs that we wanted, the world would crumble so fast. Posted via RS Mobile Also like to make the point that we are raised in a world where being a doctor, or any other glorified profession, is always the better choice because of the money. |
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I came into working in trades from the outside. I went to school for business management, and really hated being a drone in the chain of drones that ran the place I worked for. So I quit, and went to do what I wanted to do...build. I wanted to go home at the end of the day and say, "I built 'this' today out of nothing" I wanted to be 'the' manager. The decision making starts and stops with me. My number 1 sales pitch is, "I am not some walking talking ape that you can't communicate with. You have questions, and I can provide meaningful answers" When I first started, I did a lot of reading about what to say during quotations and how to book work. Everything said, "wear work clothes...makes you look busy" Ok. I wore dress pants and a button up shirt. As soon as you open the door, you think, "different". For some people it works, and for others it doesn't. Some people are looking for the ape type. That's cool. The next guy that comes in is going to be your ape you are looking for. I'm instinctively going to be nice to your neighbors, considerate to building staff and get the job done. |
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An opinion is an opinion.. I haven't gotten the joys out of travelling yet, although I went with family. (Europe, Cali, Calgary/Edmonton, Prairies, Hawaii etc..etc..) I would rather make money now, get a house in the GVRD, and before having kids, enjoy some of the money I made, and possibly go travel and sit somewhere hot and sunny. (Bali, Cancun, Hawaii again, Fiji, Caribbean) |
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The employment situation is not bad right now, yet its not good either. I don't think your decision is wise, yet if you can afford it, go for it. |
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It really changed my perspective enough to be able to say, "I picked up and did this, so I can definitely make this happen" For me, it was changing from a "could do it" person to a "going to do it" person. No one in their 50's, 60's or 70's is ever going to say, "if only I had made an extra $3k in 2006..." |
i lived/worked abroad for 7 months when i was 20. was one of the best experiences of my life! dont regret that for a second. now im quite a few years older and if i wanted to do that now, well, i probably couldnt unless it was for work. |
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As well, not everybody is in a financial position to move across the entire country for a job. Some companies may pay to help you transition to a new city, but many people have commitments, family, etc. |
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It doesn't make sense to sit here and debate about which path is more stimulating, which path is more rewarding and which path is more difficult... It's such a pointless argument. To each their own. No one can tell another person that they would be better of doing something else because you don't know what that person is or isn't capable of. But, if you're in trades and making easy cash, don't come in here and say I'm doing fine and making money and living it up because no one cares. And if you're in academics and can't get a job, it's not because education results in LESS opportunities, it's because that field of study you chose may at this time, have less opportunities or simply be more competitive. Again, that field of study is your own choice and if you didn't figure out the kind of job opportunities you will have after school is over, then that is essentially poor planning on your part. I am kinda annoyed of seeing these threads with people being upset about how expensive it is to live. That's the way things are; it's life, you're not the only one who's having a hard time and there are plenty of other people who are doing fine. That shows that it is possible to live comfortably. This thread is a key example of a mixed variety of people. Those of you who studied and are complaining about how hard it is to afford things, then maybe you should do what some of these trades guys are doing. Trades guys who are saying they can't live off their salaries or that their jobs sucks, go get an education and try something else. I don't know, I just think it's dumb that people are complaining about how hard things are because there are plenty of people doing just fine. Not saying that it's not hard for you, just say there are things you can probably do about it (at least in most cases.) |
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Through the series of quotes and responses however, my point has digressed significantly. To reiterate my original point, I have no bias against welders or tradespeople as some people seem to be inferring, I was once a tradesperson so it would be quite ironic if I did. My lack of respect goes to a person who disregards leading a fulfilling life in exchange for earning as much money as possible, so they can run on the treadmill of consumerism always striving for the next gadget or toy. It's better to live modestly and enjoy your short time on the earth, with the people you care about doing the things you love most, than to obsess over the numbers on a bank statement. Quote:
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Also, I wasn't raised in a home where doctors were admired for the monetary rewards. I was taught to admire doctors for the schooling they went through and the fact that they help people, just like fire fighters and police officers. Meh.. different perspectives I suppose |
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One thing I think should be said. To the posters that say "people shouldn't complain about the cost of living in Vancouver". One question for you, A. do you live at home, or B. on your own? If the answer is A, I think you should shut the fuck up until you move out into the real world. That is all. |
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I don't complain, because it achieves absolutely nothing, I wish others would realize the same. |
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BC rated last in the country in salary growth, the cost of living in Vancouver wouldn't be such a hard pill to swallow if we weren't lagging so behind the rest of Canada. People should have a right to say something about that fact, should we all be sheep and be silent? |
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Back in grade 10, I thought I knew what I wanted to do with my life and adjusted my course load to help with that. After high school, I got a scholarship into a film school and spent a year there. Most useless year of my life I've ever lived. I learned less while there than I did in my high school classes. Regardless, I thought I wanted to make film my career and spent a couple years doing it. I had plenty of work experience between grade 10 and film school, so plenty of people were willing to hire me on, unlike those who I went to school with and had nothing under the belt. I'll admit that it paid well. Very well. But my life was failing; my girlfriend and I broke up because we would never see each other (I was 20, she was 18, so we weren't really thinking properly lol), and my relationships with my friends and family were fading for the same reason. Sure, I had a decent savings and was financially fairly sound... and I actually enjoyed my job... but I didn't want to work to live. Or, more concisely, I didn't want to live my life as work, sleep, repeat. So I quit. I make a lot less now and have been occasionally doing night school, but at least I'm a lot happier now. I can actually spend time with friends and go out on proper dates with whoever I happen to be dating at the time. I'm uncertain as to where i want to go with my career right now. I kinda screwed myself over my not continuing with my AP science courses back in high school and now I need to take refresher courses just so I can get myself into any sort of proper schooling. But like I said, I don't know what I want to do. As much as I would love to have a big, fancy house, a nice car, and steak dinners every night, it's not something I need. I figure that no matter what I decide to do, the financial aspect will definitely not be my first priority when choosing it. So long as I'm happy and can pay for the necessities, who cares about anything else. |
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So if we're not bringing in huge money, then how can it be paid out? I'm talking on the macro level here...outside money into the city. Not trading it among ourselves. |
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anyone who has spent any time in Europe etc. would probably agree that a simpler life seems to be a happier one while i was travelling through Europe i came to that realization, specifically in places where i indirectly knew people such as Finland etc. I would meet absolutely gorgeous girls who back in Vancouver would be the biggest stuck up cunts in the world, There they could not be nicer and more accommodating, and this literally went for -everyone- i met no one cared about who drove what, where you lived, etc. I stayed with people who had 1.5+ million euro condo's in downtown helsinki, who travelled with me to meet other relatives who lived in small 900sq foot apartments, and the people never batted an eye either way, people with excellent jobs had good friends that had shitty jobs, a "class" system, although obviously existing, never put restrictions on people like it does here |
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I think it has to do with the overall education and average wage. In finland, there is a smaller lower-income/less-educated class, therefore a lower discrepancy between rich and poor... But I definitely agree, travelling around countries like Norway, Finland, Sweden - life is simple (and expensive), but people seem geniunely happy. |
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