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07-11-2012, 12:38 PM
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#26 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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I could care less what my SO does or who she chooses to spend time with. |
Then she's not really an SO, she's just walking life support for a cunt that you happen to be currently fucking
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07-11-2012, 12:39 PM
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Question to the bros who chill with broads 1 on 1. Do you just have copious amounts of females that friendzoned you, or are you getting it in/trying to?
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07-11-2012, 12:40 PM
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#28 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by jayare604 Question to the bros who chill with broads 1 on 1. Do you just have copious amounts of females that friendzoned you, or are you getting it in/trying to? |
What usually happens for me is that I will meet a girl, we'll hang out and have sex a bunch of times, then because we've never gone on a date, we'll just become friends.
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07-11-2012, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Jason00S2000 I am willing to bet Dinosaur and Gridlock are actually really geeky and low status. | Yes, I am a total geek....even a little nerdy. Ask around...people have met me.
Take my pocket protector and I'll smack you.
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07-11-2012, 12:49 PM
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#30 | | Wanna have a threesome?
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Originally Posted by jayare604 Question to the bros who chill with broads 1 on 1. Do you just have copious amounts of females that friendzoned you, or are you getting it in/trying to? | Neither, I've never been friendzoned and I don't maintain friendships for years in the hopes of getting it in one day. I have friendships with females, because I prefer the company of females; simple. Quote:
Originally Posted by Jason00S2000 Then she's not really an SO, she's just walking life support for a cunt that you happen to be currently fucking | Couldn't be further from the truth. When I have a relationship, my SO and I, empassion one another to pursue our goals, develop our opinions, never be satisfied with the status quo, and enjoy life. It's not necessary to control one another for that to take place.
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07-11-2012, 12:58 PM
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#31 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by MindBomber Couldn't be further from the truth. When I have a relationship, my SO and I, empassion one another to pursue our goals, develop our opinions, never be satisfied with the status quo, and enjoy life. It's not necessary to control one another for that to take place. | Ok, it sounded a lot different in your other post. 
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07-11-2012, 01:04 PM
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#32 | | RS controls my life!
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Originally Posted by MindBomber Actually, I'm hanging out with another RS members gf this evening... pretty sure he doesn't know it's me she'll be spending time with  | Everybody lock your gf's at home tonight  | |
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07-11-2012, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Jason00S2000 I am willing to bet Dinosaur and Gridlock are actually really geeky and low status.
This is why they do not understand even the concept that you are low status if your SO is hanging out with members of the opposite sex, alone, at 3 AM. | Ladies and Gentlemen!
It's time to introduce the Jason00S2000 drinking game!
If he:
Mentions "status" take a drink
Mentions "alpha" take a shot
Beta? The men drink
Novel? Two drinks
The words "living downtown" is a shot gun beer can of beer
Refers to a woman as a "cunt, bitch, walking pussy" only the women drink
At any point talks about doing coke off a hooker/'model'/escort/some ho picked up off club vibes ass, well, the shot is coke, so I hope you are prepared
Did I cover the usual subjects that we can look forward to when you enlighten us with your ever creative posts?
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07-11-2012, 01:29 PM
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#34 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by Gridlock Did I cover the usual subjects that we can look forward to when you enlighten us with your ever creative posts? |
What do you contribute?
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07-11-2012, 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Jason00S2000 What do you contribute? | More than you do. Safe to say.
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07-11-2012, 01:43 PM
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#36 | | I keep RS good
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Originally Posted by jayare604 Question to the bros who chill with broads 1 on 1. Do you just have copious amounts of females that friendzoned you, or are you getting it in/trying to? | you can't treat all females the same.
just like you don't treat all males the same.
Some guys you wanna become better bros with, some guys are only good for whatever, and some guys are just good where they are, you have no feel, no need to become closer with them.
same as women.
you know which ones you want.
you know which ones have friends or connections you may need.
you know which ones are intellectually at your level.
you know which ones are just convenient.
you treat each one differently depending on what outcome you desire.
there comes a point, where you're the one doing the friend zoning.
she ended up being dumber than you thought.
uglier than you thought.
incompatible personalities.
whatever the reason maybe. and you just get turned off or there are easier girls to fuck. but hanging once in a while wouldnt be that bad, so you just stay friends.
plus if you're in the position of being the one doing the friend zoning, you're also in the position to remove it as well.
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07-11-2012, 02:56 PM
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#37 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Originally Posted by Glove aw great,
Ulic says a thread is retarded and he gets nothin,
I say a thread is retarded and I get a week long ban. 
seems like OP is in denial,
you spend the next day hanging out all night with a "friend" wich you happen to mention of the opposite sex as if it was forbidden, or to make your ex jealous.
so are you gonna fuck her? or cry on her shoulder all day, what other possible reason could there be for hanging out till 3 am. | Find this kind of strange, just because two people hang out doesn't mean they are either crying, or fucking. It's called just casually bullshitting
The fact she is the opposite sex doesn't matter. I was saying the free time is nice.
Finally, to Ulic Qel-Droma, it is very obvious that you don't have the same freedom when you are single, and when you are in a relationship.
It has absolutely nothing to do with being whipped. It is just that a relationship takes time, especially if you want it to be worth it. You really think you can hang out with your buddies 7 days a week and not spend any time with your girlfriend? It is as big of a committment as fulltime school, weightlifting, etc.
If you are getting away with spending 2 hours a week with your girlfriend then you must find very desperate girls with daddy problems, relationships require time/effort.
Feel free to PM me if the concept is new to you, but you sitting on your high chair calling everyone else 'whipped' is complete BS. Time commitment shows the devotion in a relationship and that is what makes them powerful. It's not like things are 'not allowed', but smaller things, like fucking around on the computer, go down on the priority list.
'grow some balls and put your gf in her place.... stay single until you know how to treat a female'
That is a very chauvinistic way of thinking. I feel bad for your mom and having her fail to teach you proper respect. You probably got your 'heart' broken when you were 14 or something  | |
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07-11-2012, 03:14 PM
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#38 | | Zionism gets my shell hard and slimy
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Im not single, but single definitely has its advantages, just in general not having to answer to anyone, worry about arguments and stuff of that nature, no gf to give you attitude if u randomly decide to go out late, or to question you when your phone dies n shit, and the obvious insecurities that go along with EVERY relationship, no matter how big or small the case, it still exists and its not fun for anyone. i used to have a decent friend group "included a lot of girls" but the late nights and random days got shut down pretty quick by the gf.
i noticed i always accomplished more with my life while i was single, i love my gf very much, but facts are facts
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07-11-2012, 03:18 PM
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#39 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by Gridlock More than you do. Safe to say. |
I highly doubt you've had anything close to the life experience I've had.
I'd like to meet you, I bet you're probably not much of a personality. Probably pretty vanilla, boring, and beta.
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07-11-2012, 03:21 PM
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#40 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by sebTeggy If you are getting away with spending 2 hours a week with your girlfriend then you must find very desperate girls with daddy problems, relationships require time/effort. |
Depends on what the relationship is based on. You're both right.
If you date a girl because you honestly love and respect her, you'll end up in a power struggle and making compromises for your mutual happiness. You'll probably feel a very strong desire to impregnate her.
If you're in a relationship for anything other than the above, who cares? Focus on yourself and allow the women to flow fluidly in and out of your life.
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07-11-2012, 03:22 PM
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#41 | | Zionism gets my shell hard and slimy
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Originally Posted by Gridlock Ladies and Gentlemen!
It's time to introduce the Jason00S2000 drinking game!
If he:
Mentions "status" take a drink
Mentions "alpha" take a shot
Beta? The men drink
Novel? Two drinks
The words "living downtown" is a shot gun beer can of beer
Refers to a woman as a "cunt, bitch, walking pussy" only the women drink
At any point talks about doing coke off a hooker/'model'/escort/some ho picked up off club vibes ass, well, the shot is coke, so I hope you are prepared
Did I cover the usual subjects that we can look forward to when you enlighten us with your ever creative posts? |
fck, i have alot of drinking to do!  | |
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07-11-2012, 03:24 PM
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#42 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Link/reference to this whole status thing please. I'm behind
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07-11-2012, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Jason00S2000 I highly doubt you've had anything close to the life experience I've had.
I'd like to meet you, I bet you're probably not much of a personality. Probably pretty vanilla, boring, and beta. | Oh, I'm sure I am boring, dull and represent everything you dislike about the male species that aren't as "enlightened" as you.
However...what I don't do is come on the board and use the same five words over and over in any thread I can to the point that I've become a running joke.
I don't care how many whores you've fucked, or whatever issues you've had in life to get there. I don't give a damn that you wrote a shit book and that you peddle in porn to pay for it all.
By the way, thanks for using the word beta...men! DRINK.
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07-11-2012, 06:33 PM
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#44 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by Gridlock Oh, I'm sure I am boring, dull and represent everything you dislike about the male species that aren't as "enlightened" as you. | I'm just trying to share some wisdom that I've learned, what wisdom do you even offer? What have you lived through so that others can benefit from your insight and experience?
I believe the alpha/beta dynamic is very real, and hypergamy is what we're living under more so than ever. I'm just trying to save you younger guys some time and heartache by sharing my wealth of experience, I apologize if I come off as a broken record sometime, and I will attempt to frame my introspection in a more easily digestible form.
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07-11-2012, 06:51 PM
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Ulic ended this thread with wrath of truth might as well just close it
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07-11-2012, 07:02 PM
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#46 | | I want to be a person and not an icon.
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Hmm..
So you're telling me that if I have a gf that lets me shoot shit with my friends, do what I like to do, and no questions asked?
I think I got my self a keeper....
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07-11-2012, 07:07 PM
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#47 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by StevenDuang Hmm..
So you're telling me that if I have a gf that lets me shoot shit with my friends, do what I like to do, and no questions asked?
I think I got my self a keeper.... |
I'm not so sure. Once I'm ready to actually formally date again, if a woman doesn't try and bust my balls every so often, I'd wonder if she actually cares about me. The women who have genuinely cared for me the most did bust my balls about certain things.
I passed out drunk in a shower once, my ex girlfriend broke down the door to make sure I was ok.(Dangerous, you can drown in only a few inches of water if you pass out.) A chick that didn't give a shit about me would have probably not even cared.
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07-11-2012, 07:19 PM
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#48 | | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
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07-11-2012, 09:46 PM
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#49 | | I want to be a person and not an icon.
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Originally Posted by Jason00S2000 I'm not so sure. Once I'm ready to actually formally date again, if a woman doesn't try and bust my balls every so often, I'd wonder if she actually cares about me. The women who have genuinely cared for me the most did bust my balls about certain things.
I passed out drunk in a shower once, my ex girlfriend broke down the door to make sure I was ok.(Dangerous, you can drown in only a few inches of water if you pass out.) A chick that didn't give a shit about me would have probably not even cared. | You're pretty  if a chick didn't care that you died, I am sure any human will care if they see someone about to drown and just walk away.
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07-11-2012, 10:00 PM
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#50 | | Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated
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Originally Posted by StevenDuang You're pretty if a chick didn't care that you died, I am sure any human will care if they see someone about to drown and just walk away. | A homeless man dies and nearly 25 people in Queens keep walking by - NYPOST.com
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