where is he now?gone?

In typical joe fashion
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:lol Joe

posting about MMA gyms being too expensive

http://www.revscene.net/forums/61001...ml#post8098698

joe pics of said girl or it didnt happen hahaha

first impressions are key, you clearly fail that aspect looking like a cheap ass.

fake your first impression and you'll have to fake it for the rest of your life.

Not sure if all the guys out there agrees, but a guy paying for supper on a date is normal to me.

But if the girl is decent enough she would offer to pay for a movie or something like that.

What the OP did there was just being a cheap ass and a jerk for that matter.

IMO, begin your first date with something small. Not many girls will be your type, so starting with something small and cheap benefits you.

Keep in mind, some people go on multiple dates a month, if every one of them involves jap food dinner $60+ or a movie night out $40+, you'd be broke in no time.

If you like to keep your date at minimal a month, then go for the expensive stuff.

This. When I ask a girl out of a date I am expected to do for dinner. If you want to be a cheap ass should have ask her out for coffee instead.

You did the asking so pay lol. Beside dinner isn't that expensive like $50 maybe?

If you're on a first date IMO you should just do coffee and maybe a walk, then if you guys like one another then bump up the spending between the two of you. Why should a first date be something expensive
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I believe OP suggested coffee or a walk, but the girl wanted supper and he agreed.

Then realized he has to pay................

you ask a girl out and don't want to pay for dinner? lol gluck in life you cheap bastard

If a girl is really interested, she'll pay for your dinner.

^not necessarily
I was really interested in few guys but never offered to pay for theirs (if they asked me out)
I've paid for guys if I owed them something, eg. They gave me a ride home when I was stranded, did a photo shoot for me, helped me set up events
Wasn't interested in any of those guys but I knew they were. And I paid.
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Well, I stand corrected.
I suppose when it happens it's an indication of interest.

A date is when two people are interested in each other.
A date is when two people are trying to get to know each other.
A date is when two people sit and talk, and read each others body language and tone of voice.

Why in the hell does it have to be over a $50 dollar dinner at a fancy restaurants and then movies after?

^ is something you do with your girlfriend.

Things to do on dates imo...

coffee, ice cream, walk in a park, any sport, breakfast/lunch (just not dinner), gym... nothing romantic ffs.

I dont disagree with what you said, but based on what OP said the girl wants supper and japanese food around robson, would prolly equate to about $50 or more. OP agreed and then backed out in the end.

Yes, dates may or may not cost money, but what I was stating for example, the guy pays for supper for one date, if the girl is appreciative she would initiate another date or movie/coffee/breakfast/lunch/etc.

Though I have never heard of playing sports and gym dates lol. :fullofwin:

Depends. I mostly suggest tea/bb tea or coffee for first meet up, then dinner or movie on 2nd dates. I would never suggest going to gym as a date. You sweat, smells coz of your sweat and not to mention you can't even get a conversion going in the gym..........

Just man up and pay for the first, second, maybe third date. After the third, she is either paying with cash, or with her mouth if she is still interested.

It gets easier once you are married. Now me and my wife just argue about who gets up and pays for the bill after a heavy meal. Regardless of who it is, it comes out of the same account.
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All women whom I've dated who were interested in me would always offer to pay or bring out their wallets out of their purses. As a regular guy, I always insisted on paying.

I think what matters is that the woman makes a gesture to pay. This suggests that she's willing to put in her fair share if you two ever enter a relationship. If she makes no gesture, then I would steer clear.

I find that more and more girls think like you these days. Its kinda refreshing.

Totally agree with gesture thing.
I always offer to pay for my own portion. But I don't see the need to pay for the guy's too. Especially if it's someone I don't know very well whether I'm interested or not.

If the girl is trying to be all princess and doesn't even whip out her wallet... Then meh...
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Apparently, OP's data already stated she forgot her wallet LOL

HAHAHa