I'm not quite following, please clarify something.

Are you interested in a one time threesome, a 'friend' for routine threesomes, or a true relationship shared between three people such is polyamory?

Since the prospective girl has a SO, the situation is quite complicated; a successful polyamorous relationship would likely require the boundaries be extended to include the prospective girl's SO, as well; if the prospective girl and her SO do not have prior experience with open relationships, permission for a threesome would likely come with the caveat that the arrangement goes both ways (Girl, SO, and your GF can have a threesome). A foursome might be a better option with the prospective girl, if you're okay with your gf having sex with another male. If you're not, I would look for a single girl, personally.

Sometimes jealousy issues don't actually arise until the threesome begins, often actually. Although your GF sounds chill, be prepared for the possibility, and have a very open dialogue during and after.

I enjoy threesomes, they're certainly not my favourite arrangement. If you want to have amazing sex with two girls, you better be in great shape, because its a lot of work. Changing positions is more involved too, it's not a quick, simple act like one-on-one.

Why? I've not met many girls who would not be interested in a threesome. You just need to ask, and not phrase it in a creepy way.

so how did you phrase it?

I didnt expect the search would come to a near end with the possibility of a girl with an SO, so never really thought about it.

Originally me and my SO were prepared for a poly amorous relationship because if we found a single girl we could understand how emotions and stuff might be a problem, so we talked about it and said if it lead to that it would be a triad relationship.

With the girl and the SO they apparently had discussions about being true to each other whist being able to go play around sexually with others. I discussed this with her a bit yesterday and it would be the first time for all of us. The relationship with her would hopefully be a friends with bene type of deal. We do not want a one time thing, not unless my SO and I really dislike it. Honestly thinking about it, her having an SO would be awesome because it might mitigate the jealousy factor and we all have an understanding that if our friends with bene deal gets in the way of the our currents then it would be best to break it off.

As for the foursome thing. I guess im not man enough (new age is a better term i suppose) to share my SO. But if the friends with bene works out real well and im really comfortable, i think this might be the only way for us to have another M in the bedroom. So im open to it, but not right off the bat.

I mean nothing is set in stone yet, she still needs to talk to her SO so we will see. My SO and I dont wanna get our hopes up too high. :okay:

And damn... guess im going to start hitting the gym today LOL! Just the motivation i need i suppose :badpokerface:

that sounds super sketchy with her having a boyfriend

eh im not knocking it until things get more concrete.

Her having a bf could be a blessing if he is cool with it, i mean he wants to go around and explore sexually too.

At the end; how do you tell your current gf that you don't want to go slkeep yet cause you want to go sleep with the other girl is something ectremely hard to overlook no matter how emotionally ready you are.

Vice versa; oh, I won't be going to be home tonight cause I am staying at the other guy's place. Damn.. Good luck to how that turns out.
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inb4 op SO turns lesbo.

If that's the case, then there's nothing you can do about it.

If by experimenting something allows you to find out the truth about someone, would you do it? It's almost the same as letting your girlfriend going to clubs, giving chances that she'll meet another guy better than you. Except that this is more open and in the sense that they have an agreement.

I think that all sides has to know what they're getting into before committing into a MFF or MMF relationship. Know the responsibility and the consequences, and don't look back and regret the choices they made when things don't turn out the way the want it to be.

So let me get this straight...... you want to put up with two girls sh*t?

What can I say? Im a lover not a hater :nyan:

waiting for Dino and Grid to approve me still, just laminated my membership card :heartsmile:

Dino and Grid let you have a membership card!

I'm very envious, Ms. Chachee.

I only have a membership card to Blockbusters, and I think, they're not so much in existence.

:okay:

she told me you have to get another punch card because yours is all full?

I'll see if I can swing a deal.......maybe I can bring a friend for free on a Friday or something :blushsmile: