Dated a girl and found out she was depressed after I couldn't handle it...... Explained a hell of a lot
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why you couldnt handle it? any example and are u in vancouver and whats her name. maybe same girl lol

Pretty sure it's not the same girl, I from Langley. But her names XXXXX if it matters. And I had no idea she was depressed until after her best friend told me when I was asking her why she's so boring and emotionless all the time. She would rarely smile, her jokes where so plain and weird, she would text so weird when we'd be talking. She was just a weird girl over all, apparently she ok now according to her gf she was just seeing multiple guys bc she thought it would help or something I dunno. I couldn't handle it after I started to realize how dull and emotionless she was all the time. We pretty much both stopped talking to each other
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I think this is related. IDK. Make of it what you will.

So You

I'd love to date a depressed girl.

^beggars can't be choosers

Ultimately its up to you and what you want. It works both ways. Weigh the benefits and downsides and see if you're up for it.

Make a choice and don't regret your decision. There's no right or wrong honestly even though everyone says pull out and leave her. I mean on the flip side she irritates you but you feel happy when she's around, there could be many possibilities affecting your decision; not just "plenty of fish in the sea" approach and just chuck this all away

Even depressed girls don't deserve you Joe45.. Please refrain from reproducing.. kthxbye

I'm kinda on the same boat....

it seems like mine is getting worse and worse... and just recently her mom died and its just been hell.... shes gotten more "crazy"
but
I feel like I've started to look at things a different way. I really do understand things from her eyes. and why she is the way she is.... I've somewhat learned to accept it over the last 2.5 years... I can't use words to explain it. but there is a force that is keeping me to her that I can't shake off... I can't ever let it go completely

you might even say. in my situation; i'm starting to develop "depression" myself. she rubbed off on me; and its changed me as a person.
Its made me mature a lot more.... I am no longer that young 18 year old boy that fell for her...
I feel like i might be able to walk with her like this forever.

the only cure i can think of is if she leaves joe45 :troll:

hook her up with meowjinboo, tell her to create an account here to update us on the "efamous" nature of their bliss.

http://www.revscene.net/forums/68251...ml#post8206225

Depression is a serious issue. It is a lifetime issue.

To answer your question I have to ask you one first.
Why are you still with her?

If you are attracted to her, or have some kind of bond that keeps you interested then maybe stay.

If you are there just because she is your "girlfriend," then get out.

To have a relationship with an person with a mental disorder takes commitment. A commitment that has to 100%. There will be activities that she can simply not participate. She will also have mood swings. Up days and down days, even days where both will be present. You MUST remember that she has no control and simply wants to be "normal."

have you talk to her about it? do you think she would be open to getting help?

ppl don't need to suffer from a mental illness forever.

Half the posts in here are by some fucking trolls or idiots who really do not understand the severity of mental disorders.

what activites would she not be able to particapate in?? examples?
yea she told me she has mood swings and i notice that. theres more cons than pros with this girl. i never been so stressed out, frustrated dating a girl till i met her. she looks normal and all till u meet her and find out. she text me like at 4 am , 3:40 am on weekday in night while im sleeping. i notice this since i see time on the received on my cell. u think she be sleeping and other times at 1 25 am

what do you mean by committment? no wonder she told me she never had a serious bf before and no guy wants her for gf, she also has a hard time getting a bf. i wondered why since shes above avg in looks
and all guy just meet her for sex and that is or use her for sex but not relationship

I wouldn't say "date" is the right word. Moreso another four letter word.

sorry the burst you guys bubble

but you've all been joe45'd.

did no one pick this up? reading the thread title already i knew it was joe45

edit : after reading the first page i realized im not the only one who could sniff joe45's ass from a mile away

http://i.imgur.com/sMesosE.jpg

dam LOL

wow.... is joe45 a bot??? Or just some guy with lots of time on his hands

we already established that we are joe45.

our collective minds manifested in revscene, incarnated as a living digital being that scours through the net posting things the average RS person would post.

he represents the average us. RS incarnate. a statue should be built to him. a being like this is worthy of a tangible body.

lol wow. i was just going to answer properly

it's fluoxetine btw..

I was just about to say that.

He went from "fluctoname" to "flutonaime" :rukidding:

it was bugging the shit out of me :lol