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Originally Posted by dinosaur
I had naively assumed that the fact that it has been over a year and a half since this pseudo-fight between dinosaur and MeowMeow had occurred would have died a long time ago, but seeing as I was, yet again, the topic of conversation in RS chat last night, I think that maybe it is time that I clarify a few things for you. Maybe by letting you know the other side of everything, it will help you move past it…because, as you so eloquently pointed out I am in my 30s, and with that, I moved past it a long time ago.
I will break it down into the highlights as I see it. What you do with it, is up to you. I have no doubt that this will make the rounds of RS and will be the topic of discussion. I have no issue saying these things to you or anybody, so if you would like, you can even create a thread in the OT forum. I think it is well known that I speak my mind when necessary and have no qualms sharing my thoughts in a public forum, which I understand, gets me in trouble sometimes….but at least I can own my opinions. With that being said….
The Original Incident
From what recall, our first interaction was in RS chat. Dbaz and I were discussing something totally random when he decided to share with everyone that you had joined him and others (I forget the others) for lunch. At said lunch something had happened that annoyed him….If I remember correctly, you had kicked him under the table…or were rude…or something. It is not really relevant. So, dbaz was telling the world of RS chat this story when you popped in and called him out. Totally fine…it is your right to call him out, and I would have done the same thing however, it dribbled down into low blows where I believed you said something along the lines of, “you are just jealous that I have slept with more people that you” to which dbaz’s response was, “so your calling yourself a whore?”. This is where I spoke up and said, “I believe she is calling herself a whore”. After that I think some words and sarcastic remarks were made….by no means did I intend to seriously and offensively call you a whore. It was never my intent to have you feel like you were bullied.
The conversation quickly ended…..but the discussion about it did not. As you are well aware, people like to hang on to shit. People like to talk about shit. Very few people (RS users) have real lives with real life responsibilities so they spend a lot of time talking….and talking…and exaggerating. In reality, I didn’t think much about the conversation until people would not shut the fuck up about it. Soon the story people were passing around eliminated dbaz and it was told that it was just you and I calling each other names….which I am sure you will attest to, is not true.
My inbox was flooded with users I didn’t even recognize asking me “what happened with meowmeow”. Almost all responses were “I’m not talking about….you’ll need to ask dbaz”. I told a few people what really happened but as that story really isn’t all that juicy people ran with whatever they wanted. People would see me in RS chat and automatically ask me about you. I would not respond. BCRdukes would come in, and although he was totally joking, would post, “hello, is meowmeow here?”…..and all of a sudden, you were the topic of conversation AGAIN. I actually had to personally ask a mod to have him stop because I thought it would be misunderstood and everyone would think I was talking about you. I have since talked to him about it and he gets why I was pissed about that. People made the connection that “dino” is in chat….the topic is “meowmeow”….they must be bashing. It wasn’t true. You should note, that dbaz HAS denied any knowledge of the above…how very convenient. But, what he does forget is that we discussed it over PM…a PM I have shown T.C. Ask him about it….I don’t lie.
Gaggle Thread
This may be a little self-explanatory, but I feel I need to reiterate that at NO point in my first post in that thread relating to the OP was I ever referring to you. Never. I did not know your past with the OP. I did not even speculate that anything he said was in reference to you at all. I would also hazard to guess that 99% of RS did not know about you and the user. I would suggest that you re-read that thread. Not once did I respond to you. In fact, despite a whole lot of people begging me to, my only response directly to you was “I choose not to engage”. You should know that I do not agree with where that thread ended up…and how another mod who has her own thoughts and opinions wrongfully opened it up again after it was closed and directly called you out. Not me. You should also know that I called her out and told her that it was really not cool she did that. I told her that it was inappropriate and the fact that she was abusing her moderator responsibilities. Again, how I got wrapped up in that was totally out of left field. The unfortunate thing about that thread, is that when you called me out, it perpetuated whatever this dino/meow thing is. Again, I had a flood of PMs asking me what had happened between us…why were you calling me out…and egging me on to “fight back”. As I said, some of these users are very bored and are dying for a little drama.
The Booty Shorts
Seeing as you brought this up last night, maybe you should know that I wasn’t the one to originally call them booty shorts. You may not remember, but before that stock and noob meet you referred to last night, you attended a “boob” meet…or whatever they were called back then. The next day in chat Amuro Ray (who was at the meet) decided to tell everyone that you were wearing “booty shorts and sitting on everyone’s lap”. Not only was that a hot topic of discussion (who got to have you on their lap) but someone posted photos. If I could remember who posted photos, trust me, I would tell you. This “booty short” thing did not originate from me. These guys may be telling you all of this, but the sad fact is they were the ones talking shit. All these guys who are your “friends” now were the ones PMing me to “take you down”. Don’t get me wrong, however. I am not feigning innocence here. I did make comments about the shorts. “wearing booty shorts to a meet with dozens of creepy guys is pretty stupid” and “that’s a pathetic way to get attention” were words that came out of my mouth. But hey, to each their own. The 10 or so people who came up to me at that meet to talk to me about those shorts were given no response. I know how it all works. It’s a game of telephone….one thing is said and it turns into a cluster fuck.
You need to realize that these people who are perpetuating all of this are the ones who talked the most shit. You need to understand that I haven’t said one thing about you in over a year…why? Well, to be honest, I don’t care. I don’t know you…I don’t think we have anything in common and as you pointed out, we are of a “different generation”. So, what does that all mean? Nothing. You don’t need to be friends or acquaintances with everyone you meet. I am sure you feel the same way and that’s cool. What you should know is that I wish no ill will towards you. I think it was shitty that you were used as “meat” at the stock and noob meet and even told the organizers that. I thought it was mean that many were passing around stories about you to have more people attend, I thought it was very mean that a saucywoman called you out directly in that gaggle thread, and I also thought it was pretty shitty that many users have not taken any ownership in what they have said…instead they have denied.
As I said above, I am sure this PM will make the rounds. Do with it what you want. I can guarantee that the people I have called out will deny knowing anything about it and call me a “bitch” or a “cunt” or talk about how I look, how I speak, what I drive, what my job is, or anything else guys can think of to attack girls about. Take this however you want….believe me or don’t, I just figured you should know my side seeing as it is clearly still a topic of discussion….over 18 months later. I have so little interest in playing these games, that I have never even bothered to ask what your real name is.
If you have any question about anything…now is the time to ask them. I am sure there are other incidents and rumours I am unaware of that you have questions about. I’ll give you honest and direct answers.
| wait what? you cry and bitch and complain constantly about people talking about you yet you do this lol, nice dry snitchin too.. |
