So are we talking about kids who are rich and lazy, or parents who spoil their kids? Seems like you're just throwing two topics together.

If you noticed, geeknerd actually was talking about the individual who graduated from Boston U and now is doing grad school, so I'm not sure why did you bring up

Yes I am merging two related topics, thanks for clarifying.

Did you read my post? Of course there are allot of smart successful well adjusted kids from wealthy chinese families. no dispute here

But dat money doe.

As I said, you can give someone a fish everyday AND teach him how to fish. Isn't funny how you boast about working your ass off the get financially ahead and here we are discussing hate for those who were born financially ahead. Definition of jealousy fueled by self entitlement.

It's great that you achieved your personal goal and enjoyed doing it. It seems that you realize the importance of learning good core values and ethics through experience but you fail to realize that people can learn it through many ways.

I'm far away from being a parent but if you are a good parent, you should know that handing your son a fancy car isn't going to make a big difference if he has already learned the value of money and working towards a goal. At 18, I graduated highschool a term early and was working at a gas station. I drove to work in a 70k car and had a place of my own. Because of these handouts, it made me realize the value of money and how hard they must've worked to buy me these things.

The point of my posts is that a fancy car doesnt make someone a bad unrespectful citizen. Even when you've narrowed it down to a rich kid from china who come here for one course and spend their parents money, which by the way wasnt even what i was talking about nor mentioned at all, it doesnt mean they are not good respectful citizens. They've probably contributed to the economy and hence society more than most. Also, who the hell moves to raises their college attending kid.



Your pretentiousness and sarcastic smiley faces are reflective of your ignorance.

That is great that yuo enjoy the journey, and to your life that is how you live. For you to say that these rich kids are hopeless in life and won't be prepared is pure jealousy on your behalf. You see things from your own two eyes and that makes you jaded. You believe things you do are correct while others who do not do the same way as you are incorrect. You are like a fish in a fish bowl feeding off algae from the sides while getting mad at fish in a big aquarium being fed delicious fish food.

To you, working hard and doing everything yourself is great. Do you do grow your own vegetables and did you build your own house with your bare hands as well? These guys are rich, their level is way above yours. That doesn't make them any less of a person than you. Are you less of a person than someone who makes $1 an hour by selling trash from garbage bins? To them, you look like the rich asshole giving your son double his savings for a car at AGE 16!. Does that meanthat your son will be half a bitch?

You make so many assumptions of these kids being useless in society, having no future beyond their parents money, being their parents bitch and wont be able to survive. How do you know? Do you know anyone who was that rich at that age and then became broke and useless in life? You make it sound like by working hard, you will be successful and enjoy life more than being rich and spoiled. There are poor people who work hard and become rich, and then there are rich people who are spoiled yet can still have life satisfaction and make even more money. They can also go broke just as easy as the poor guy, but who knows. One is not better than the other, they just live their lives at different levels.

haha, pretty good response geekhard. My parents have done well for themselves, My grandparents did well for themselves in HK. I am not hating on anyone who comes from a privledged background. Heck, I went to private school. However, my parents have always instilled in me that if you want something in life, you have to work for it....i.e. wash cars and mow lawns for first bike, etc. I love it when you criticize someone who is spending parents money, the first response is "are you jelly" lol!

Geekhard, do you actually support yourself or run to mommy when you need something?

do you comprehend any of posts??? I am not talking about most well adjusted kids from privledged backgrounds. That is awesome, no issues. I am talking about stupid kids from China who drive around in fancy cars that think their shit dont stink and are really spending parents money.

jealousy is for kids, you get to a certain pt in life and realize be happy with what you got, you obviously still like to compare & measure your life to everyone else. have fun with that haha! I do like making fun of stupid fucktards though haha!

The fact that those stupid kids from China who drive around in higher end cars and spend their parents money is enough for you to get upset at shows your jealousy. And when you are trying to insult people about them being useless and having no future, it's best to at least show you are educated by having some decent spelling and grammar within your writing, otherwise it really does show you are typing out of anger.

And like I said in my previous post, you might think that they are spending all their parents money, which is probably true, but that makes them no less person than you. As you said, your daddy gave you half your first car, so to someone who paid for their first car in full, you are the one spending half your parents money.

^ because i don't spell check and pay too much attn to my grammer on RS I am angry? haha you caught me man......I am totally jelly! I am want to cry in my cornflakes.

If you're poor, everyone knows you're a loser

If you're rich, everyone suspects you're a winner until you prove yourself otherwise

When you have money, this is easy to create:

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you have such a warped perspective on wealth. you seem like the kind of guy that thinks money is everything and all girls only care about is guys with money. its very sad.

unfortunately multicural comments are right. If you can find the 10% of attractive women who don't care about wealth, you are lucky and a fortunate person.

it doesn't mean that everyone else is a loser for not being a millionaire

^ you are right, I was focused on his second comment......

The poorer you are the lower the caste you belong to

The money I have made myself secures me for the next couple years while I finish school(got "lucky" in stocks). Inheritance/parents wise, I don't need to work a day in my life. However, I've worked various jobs including manual factory labour which I believe is the epitome of your so praised hardwork. What is the point of your question?

"Are you jelly" was not my first response. It was based on reading your posts and the manner you speak.

Your condescending view of "run to mommy"
Your ultimatum view of happiness, "A large part of my personal happiness is because I did it myself Vs getting it handed to me."
Your general lack of considering other perspectives.
Your lack of proper responses to your points that has been refuted or been attempted to.
Your sarcasm and immature remarks.
And mostly, your continuous preaching of hardwork, which is nothing bad but the pride and belief you have in it blinds you. It's commendable and its worth just that; Good job. But it doesn't give you the right to judge and hate others for not following a similar path.

If you bring up the way you grew up and then use it as a basis to talk about and judge others, I don't understand how that is not "compare & measure your life to everyone else".

LOL @ people raging about some kids who have money, just be happy with whatever the fuck you have and stop judging people you don't know.

If you're judging people you don't know, all it comes down to is jealousy or at least it sure looks that way.

You honestly think these chinese kids give a fuck what you say? Who the fuck do you think you are? You think they are going to lose sleep?

These rich fob's have some of the shittiest fashion senses on the planet. Bet he spent 500$ on those glittery ass shoes.

so who will out the kids and trace them back to their government official parents?