[_Hotsauce_]

I'm staying with my mom temporarily (Sept to start of Jan) and we agreed on $350/month (Nothing signed, but have emails confirming this amount), I have been there for 2 weeks and she's now decided that she wants me to pay $700/month or to be out by the end of the month. Does she follow the same rules/laws that a Landlord would, or can she do whatever she wants when it comes to rent due to being family? And does she not have to give me 30 days notice for evicition? I have not left any mess, I have been quiet, I listen to music on headphones, and pretty much hang out in my room when not at work/gym/out.

Thanks

[MR_BIGGS]

LOL..sorry.

[misteranswer]

If you're paying her she's your landlord.

PS: Your mom is a bitch.

[tonyvu]

PS: Your mom is a bitch.

:werd:

[tool001]

yeh, if you have proof, she cant ask you to pay double the amount.
but then again, this is ur mom, would she sour relationship with u/ or u for that matter for a lousy $350

[Meowjin]

your mom must hate you.

[_Hotsauce_]

Yes, she is a huge fucking bitch. Thanks for the confirmation on her being my Landlord.

EDIT-->Should she give me 30 days notice for moving out?

[static]

wow, this is pretty rough. Im going to go hug my parents now.

[//RacingSpirit>>]

For $700/mo, I'd move elsewhere where I wouldn't have to see her or hear her nag. I can understand staying for $350/mo cause you can't get anyplace with that cheap of a rent, but for double the amount, there's no reason not to move.

If you really want to piss her off, just not move and not pay the rent. In order for her to kick you out legally, it's a long and costly process. Because you didn't sign a rental agreement contract, there's nothing you can do to hold her to her words.

[_Hotsauce_]

^
Hahaha, that's a good option, but I don't think I could handle living there with her bitching at me for not paying. I don't plan on staying, just trying to figure out what I can say to her to piss her off.

That and it would totally fuck up our relationship more then it already is.

[MG1]

Move out ASAP and have nothing to do with her ever again. She sounds to be a bit manipulative. Do you have sisters and brothers? Is there a father in the picture? I wouldn't kick my son or daughter out over rent money. I don't know the whole story, but it's best to just leave.

Take her to court. LOL

[GLOW]

i agree w/ 89, just move out and don't talk to her.

i lol'd @ the court comment

[Gt-R R34]

This could turn very creative.

It's either if you want to go full out and kill the mom/son thing or just leave "cause she is your mom"

She doens't seem like it, as someone said before. SHE IS A BTICH!

[RRxtar]

That and it would totally fuck up our relationship.
you mean, your relationship isnt already fucked up?

[Dragon-88]

^
Hahaha, that's a good option, but I don't think I could handle living there with her bitching at me for not paying. I don't plan on staying, just trying to figure out what I can say to her to piss her off.

That and it would totally fuck up our relationship.


I think the relationship is already fucked up.. Why would your mom want to hike the price on their own son??? Just move out dont deal with that shit..
Is it me or is this story really harsh for blood family members?

[MG1]

you mean, your relationship isnt already fucked up?

It is fucked up, but it's now going to be totally fucked up.

[_Hotsauce_]

I think the relationship is already fucked up.. Why would your mom want to hike the price on their own son??? Just move out dont deal with that shit..
Is it me or is this story really harsh for blood family members?

Trust me, I was suprised to wake up and find the note on the counter this morning about it.

[MG1]

This cannot be an Asian family......... can it?

[tonyvu]

Trust me, I was suprised to wake up and find the note on the counter this morning about it.

wow she wrote you a note? She couldn't tell you instead? damn she is stuck up.

[_Hotsauce_]

^
Ya, I just sent her an email saying "WTF" but no, she couldn't knock on my bedroom door and have a conversation, just leave a note. Pretty sad seeing as when I moved in she gave me this big speal about "We are a family and need to commiunicate like family, and not talk by leaving notes on the counter" I FUCKING LOVE IT.

And no this is not an Asian family.

[StealthFighter]

Falcon punch her. When she's down give her the people's elbow. Then proceed to flipping off the imaginary crowd.

[Dragon-88]

^
Ya, I just sent her an email saying "WTF" but no, she couldn't knock on my bedroom door and have a conversation, just leave a note. Pretty sad seeing as when I moved in she gave me this big speal about "We are a family and need to commiunicate like family, and not talk by leaving notes on the counter" I FUCKING LOVE IT.

And no this is not an Asian family.

Why is she even charging you more??? Did she accept any payment at all???

Once she accepts payment that pretty much a contract. She must now legally evict you. If you have not paid anything yet, IE. she is just letting you stay there, then she has the right to kick you out anytime..

[fliptuner]

Da fuck's her problem?

[_Hotsauce_]

Why is she even charging you more??? Did she accept any payment at all???

Once she accepts payment that pretty much a contract. She must now legally evict you. If you have not paid anything yet, IE. she is just letting you stay there, then she has the right to kick you out anytime..

I don't know why she's charging me more, all she stated was "It's not working out with you living here" yet I'm super quiet and have done absolutly nothing to get in her way or change her regular life routine.

I paid her for my first month (September) which was for $350, I also have saved emails discussing the amount to be paid. Does she legally have to give me 30 days notice? Because that'd be wonderful, as much as I like trying to find a place in 14 days!

[fliptuner]

Move out in 14 days and sub it out to a crackhead for the remaining 16 :haha:

[hirevtuner]

just tell her that u will leave once you find a place (presumably under 30days) and leave it at that

[shenmecar]

Wtf, tell your dad to spank her.

If she insist on 700/mth, then you might as well move out. =_=

[//RacingSpirit>>]

Well, if your relationship with your mom isn't great and you don't mind souring it up more, you can plant bamboo shoots in both the front yard and back yard before you leave (once they start growing, they go everywhere and it's near impossible to get rid of them).

[Dragon-88]

I don't know why she's charging me more, all she stated was "It's not working out with you living here" yet I'm super quiet and have done absolutly nothing to get in her way or change her regular life routine.

I paid her for my first month (September) which was for $350, I also have saved emails discussing the amount to be paid. Does she legally have to give me 30 days notice? Because that'd be wonderful, as much as I like trying to find a place in 14 days!

I'm not too sure, but based off my experience with shitty tenants. My family owns a low-mid income appartment (10 suites) Weve had some pretty shitty tenants.. Some that we have evicted and they come back and squat. So at this point I asked my uncle (part owner) if he accepted payment for like a 4 day stay, since the tenant was having troubles looking for a new job and place to stay.. So we let him stay in the place for an additional 4 days free or charge. I asked him why we didnt charge him $20 for the 4 days and basically he said once we accept payment its an official payment for rent. I'm pretty sure what I am saying is true since my uncle is also a realtor... But dont be to sure.. I would just double check to make sure...

[kuri]

Stop emailing or leaving notes for one another. Talk to her in person first and see what her problem is.

If she continues to be an unreasonable bitch, take action then. Move out, sue, trash the place, whatever. It's your call since it's your own mom-and-son relationship that you'll be risking. It depends on how much if at all you value that relationship.

[_Hotsauce_]

^
I didn't end up sending the email, as I felt it would just escalate the situation. It will be brought up tonight and see how it goes. I'm already planning on being out by the 1st, as this is just bullshitttt.

[DC5-S]

you should ask her why are you even charging me? im your son for godsakes.. my friends parents would never do that.. lol

[the_rickster]

actually reminds me of a situation i was in a while ago.

i bought a condo downtown and didnt take possession until two weeks after i lost possession of the one i sold in coquitlam... she OFFERED to let me stay at her place for two weeks.

she does the motherly stuff like laundry, etc... then about a month later (two weeks after i left) she comes asking me for the $650 i owe her.

SIX HUNDRED AND FIFTY BUCKS.... for TWO WEEKS!


needless to say, i gave her the money and hardly pick up the phone to call her anymore.

[_Hotsauce_]

^
I won't be speaking with her that often after this pans out. That's a pretty shitty situation though, haha.

[silk]

OP must be a white guy

[Noir]

FYI, she's not going to sue you if you default on your Oct. or Nov. payments.

That being said, I would start looking for a place to move immediately, but I would ignore 15 days (end of Sept) deadline.

[_Hotsauce_]

OP must be a white guy

Correct, I wish I had a close-knit family, in which I get along with siblings/parents, but nope. :(

[hk20000]

$700 gets you a pretty sweet suite around SFU area with a hot roommate.

[Dragon-88]

Correct, I wish I had a close-knit family, in which I get along with siblings/parents, but nope. :(


HAHA you need something to bring them all together... WEED!!!!!

My brother and sister used to not get along with eachother let alone with me.. Then we realized as we were growing up that we all smoked weed.. Next thing you know were in my mom's garage having peaceful conversations while toking up... Mom would walk in open the door see whats going on and leave... Sometimes we even make fun of her because her siblings like to start arguments, even at the dinner table... Then we make fun of them saying hell my brothers and sister doesnt fight anymore why not try what their trying .... The "Peace" Garage...

[Blinky]

You shoulda sucked it up when your mom curbed your rims (http://www.revscene.net/forums/poll-mother-curbed-t588782.html). Now she's banning your ass and getting her "curb money" back.

:D

[Meowjin]

OP must be a canadian guy


fyp

[tiger_handheld]

I was hoping to get Bel'aird but it seems like this is for real....


I bet she can rent it out for 8-900 , and thats why she wants you out!

[Ferra]

I thought you were just joking in the beginning...guess not

seriously...she is your mom, just move out and go on

I never understand how some people can end up in such a sour relationship with their family...
I wouldn't hesitate to give my wealth or even body parts to my (close) family if any of them needs it, and I am sure they'd do the same for me.

[you!]

aint that a motherfucker

[Meowjin]

I thought you were just joking in the beginning...guess not

seriously...she is your mom, just move out and go on

I never understand how some people can end up in such a sour relationship with their family...
I wouldn't hesitate to give my wealth or even body parts to my (close) family if any of them needs it, and I am sure they'd do the same for me.

grow up with a disfunctional family and you wouldn't be saying that.

[hotjoint]

damn, your mom is trying to own you. Yeah like everyone said get out asap and cut all ties with her. That'll teach her!

[pandalove]

LOOOOOOOOOL White people ...

yeaaa not so funny now to say we Chinese live with our parents huh

[Meowjin]

LOOOOOOOOOL White people ...

yeaaa not so funny now to say we Chinese live with our parents huh

get the fuck out of my country.

[hotjoint]

Asian parents want their kids to live with them forever though.

[Jsunu]

Asian parents want their kids to live with them forever though.

Not mine :(

But it teaches financial independence so its all good :)

[azzurro32]

Am I the only one thinking eminem and 8 mile

[bcrdukes]

fyp

Fuck Your Parents?
For Your Pleasure?

Jesus Christ. What is wrong with you?

[hotjoint]

Not mine :(

But it teaches financial independence so its all good :)

I live at home in my parents basement suite with my gf. We pay rent just like any normal person renting the basement would. I dont get anything for free except food sometimes :). Its alot cheaper to rent from my parents while saving up to buy our own place. Also teaches you to be financially independant as well. If I'm late on rent, you better believe my parents wouldnt think twice about evicting me. I wouldnt have it any other way. I'm not one of those kids who mooch the shit outta their parents

[pandalove]

get the fuck out of my country.
We will after we steal all of your jobs and take up all the seats in Universities

Asian parents want their kids to live with them forever though.

not forever .... but close enough where they can see each other within walking distances ...:P

not many chinese parents nowadays live with their kids nemore ... they usally just buy a house nearby and stfu

[hotjoint]

not forever .... but close enough where they can see each other within walking distances ...:P

not many chinese parents nowadays live with their kids nemore ... they usally just buy a house nearby and stfu

haha this is true. I guess its 50/50 now.

[pandalove]

i think you can totally bust your mom for evading tax for the rents u gave b4 ... shes suppose to report those as income ??

[unit]

geez wtf did you do?

[murd0c]

fucken white parents, I know I have them.

Honestly it will be better to suck it up move out and be civil with her as much as you can. It's a shitty situtation but in the long run your better off being the bigger person here and act like the adult in this matter. But I would move out end of Oct only pay the $350 and if she does complain I would show her the emails and tell her you need time to find a new place(unless you find something before that).

It's sad to say but my mom is a complete bitch as well that only cares about her self. I find just letting her be like shes not part of my life works best. I pick up the phone sometimes when she calls and I act civil at most.

Family is family and the bad thing is you don't want to end things on a bad note cause this day and age you never know what could happen and you don't want to regret it for the rest of your life.

[!Aznboi128]

Buddy's I feel sorry for you....

[Vansterdam]

your moms a cunt

[MG1]

They say blood is thicker than water, but I've seen my share of fucked up shit.

My three kids are all out of secondary school now. All three still live at home. In this day and age, it's really tough to make it on your own. My kids are not freeloaders. They feel guilty about staying at home for free and are trying hard to get a good start in life. I will not kick them out so they will become another statistic. When I was their age, I moved out as soon as I got a decent job, but things were a lot easier back then.

My kids look after the two grandparents they have and they know that when my wife and I get old, they will have to look after us as well. I cannot send my mom or my mother in law to a care home. Especially after hearing all those horror stories. I will try to be as independent as I can, but there will come a time when I'll become a burden to my kids. This is the way my family has been raised. I guess it's a cultural thing. A lot of Italian families are like this too, so it's not just an Asian thing. To each their own. I'm just glad my kids turned out OK, even though they talk back to me a lot (bastards!).:D

BTW, my mom used to be pretty demanding, but lately she has backed off quite a bit. Her friends keep telling her about how their children have left them to fend for themselves. I think she now realizes she has a good thing going and that she shouldn't push it.

What's really tough right now is the fact that this might be the first time in history most children will not do better than their parents. Cost of living is nuts and there are fewer and fewer good paying jobs. I believe this is the time families need to stick together even more.

OP, I don't know what to say? Hopefully things will work out with your mom, but for the time being, she seems to think she'll do fine without you. Leave, but be there for her when she needs you. We all make stupid mistakes. Parents are no different.

[dizzystar]

wow what a huge rampaging thunder cunt.

I would probably tell her to fuck off, and show her how I keep my pimp hand strong, then peace that house the fuck out, probably forever.

sorry to hear your relationship with ur momz is fucked, but hey, it happens.

[CP.AR]

GG OP

say a sweet "I love you mom"

and then leave the house, leaving your baby pictures behind

[pawdregry4g]

My friend and her sister (white) both got kicked out of the house when they turned 18. Now she has two jobs, full time school, and dance practice. But since her dad is a prof, she manages to sleep in his office when things get too tiring :)

[hotjoint]

They say blood is thicker than water, but I've seen my share of fucked up shit.

My three kids are all out of secondary school now. All three still live at home. In this day and age, it's really tough to make it on your own. My kids are not freeloaders. They feel guilty about staying at home for free and are trying hard to get a good start in life. I will not kick them out so they will become another statistic. When I was their age, I moved out as soon as I got a decent job, but things were a lot easier back then.

My kids look after the two grandparents they have and they know that when my wife and I get old, they will have to look after us as well. I cannot send my mom or my mother in law to a care home. Especially after hearing all those horror stories. I will try to be as independent as I can, but there will come a time when I'll become a burden to my kids. This is the way my family has been raised. I guess it's a cultural thing. A lot of Italian families are like this too, so it's not just an Asian thing. To each their own. I'm just glad my kids turned out OK, even though they talk back to me a lot (bastards!).:D

BTW, my mom used to be pretty demanding, but lately she has backed off quite a bit. Her friends keep telling her about how their children have left them to fend for themselves. I think she now realizes she has a good thing going and that she shouldn't push it.

What's really tough right now is the fact that this might be the first time in history most children will not do better than their parents. Cost of living is nuts and there are fewer and fewer good paying jobs. I believe this is the time families need to stick together even more.

OP, I don't know what to say? Hopefully things will work out with your mom, but for the time being, she seems to think she'll do fine without you. Leave, but be there for her when she needs you. We all make stupid mistakes. Parents are no different.

I agree tht family should stick together and only be apart if totally necessary. Its hard these days. My parents tell me stories all the time about "back in the day" when one parent could work and you could still live comfortably. Times have changed and everything is expensive as shit. I know tons of dual income couples that are barely getting by, but then again they live lavish lifestyles

[you!]

^^pics of ur friend and her sis now
op u need to move the fuck out period

[CRS]

They say blood is thicker than water, but I've seen my share of fucked up shit.

My three kids are all out of secondary school now. All three still live at home. In this day and age, it's really tough to make it on your own. My kids are not freeloaders. They feel guilty about staying at home for free and are trying hard to get a good start in life. I will not kick them out so they will become another statistic. When I was their age, I moved out as soon as I got a decent job, but things were a lot easier back then.

My kids look after the two grandparents they have and they know that when my wife and I get old, they will have to look after us as well. I cannot send my mom or my mother in law to a care home. Especially after hearing all those horror stories. I will try to be as independent as I can, but there will come a time when I'll become a burden to my kids. This is the way my family has been raised. I guess it's a cultural thing. A lot of Italian families are like this too, so it's not just an Asian thing. To each their own. I'm just glad my kids turned out OK, even though they talk back to me a lot (bastards!).:D

BTW, my mom used to be pretty demanding, but lately she has backed off quite a bit. Her friends keep telling her about how their children have left them to fend for themselves. I think she now realizes she has a good thing going and that she shouldn't push it.

What's really tough right now is the fact that this might be the first time in history most children will not do better than their parents. Cost of living is nuts and there are fewer and fewer good paying jobs. I believe this is the time families need to stick together even more.

OP, I don't know what to say? Hopefully things will work out with your mom, but for the time being, she seems to think she'll do fine without you. Leave, but be there for her when she needs you. We all make stupid mistakes. Parents are no different.

:lol

I could've sworn you were Asian with this kind of story. But I do know what you mean. I live in a pretty nice mix of Asian/Chinese and Italian neighbourhood and everyone gets along very well. Whenever we have a big dinner or BBQ we always give food to our neighbours and they do likewise.

Awesome. Just awesome.

OP, sorry but you have one fucked up mom. Kick her in the crotch so hard that her ovaries become her new set of eyes. Maybe then she can see what a cunt of a mother she is.

I apologize for using such derogatory terms but she is one messed up individual.

[penner2k]

LOOOOOOOOOL White people ...

yeaaa not so funny now to say we Chinese live with our parents huh

no.. it still is..

As long as I'm respectful to my landlords I can pretty much do whatever the hell I want.

[danizer]

GG OP

say a sweet "I love you mom"

and then leave the house, leaving your baby pictures behind

made me lol hard...
OP, feel sorry for you...hope you get shit sorted out

[misteranswer]

:lol

I could've sworn you were Asian with this kind of story.

He said he is in another thread.

[moomooCow]

If you really want to piss her off, and don't mind living there while totally ignoring her then read on:

Continue paying the $350 rent, if she doesn't accept it just leave it in an envelope and take pictures/whatever.. anything to prove your case that you made your effort to get the rent to her but she just isn't accepting it. Because you proved that you're not missing your payments on your rent, she has to go through a bunch of other BS to try and evict you.

Someone mentioned something about secondary suites ( renting basement out to people ) but I think that it's okay if it's a family member, otherwise they have to apply for a license. More Here (http://vancouver.ca/commsvcs/licandinsp/compliance/bylawadmin/secondarysuites.htm)

That is a bitch of a mom and I'm sorry to hear about your situation, I'd be pretty pissed off and would purposely live there to piss her the fuck off. Not like the relationship isn't TOTALLY fucked already...

[achiam]

Correct, I wish I had a close-knit family, in which I get along with siblings/parents, but nope. :(

Hotsauce, I really feel for your situation. I honestly do not know of a single friend whose parents would even charge them for rent. 99% of my friend's parents pay for everything while they are studying their asses off around the clock at University.
I hope her threat isn't real and its just a bargaining threat in some argument.
If you're working, its more than fair to pay rent to your parents.
If you're in school and they are demanding rent like this, and you're self supported, I would most definitely leave.

[achiam]

:lol

I could've sworn you were Asian with this kind of story. But I do know what you mean. I live in a pretty nice mix of Asian/Chinese and Italian neighbourhood and everyone gets along very well. Whenever we have a big dinner or BBQ we always give food to our neighbours and they do likewise.

Awesome. Just awesome.

OP, sorry but you have one fucked up mom. Kick her in the crotch so hard that her ovaries become her new set of eyes. Maybe then she can see what a cunt of a mother she is.

I apologize for using such derogatory terms but she is one messed up individual.

Totally agreed. I had several Caucasian friends during High School who left home to live on their own right after High School. One of them even commented that us Chinese kids were complete free loaders.

Today, they are working really crappy jobs (e.g working at the mall at age 30) while my friends who continued on to University and being supported by family are well on their way to grad degrees and very high paying professions - several are even STILL in school or just finished in the past year! This obviously isn't only Orientals - I have many Caucasian and Indo Canadian etc friends under the same umbrella!

It honestly makes me beam with pride going to Dim Sum brunch - seeing 3 generations of a Chinese family eating together on Sundays really shows bond.

My greatest respect however, goes to many of my Indo Canadian friends. They stick together so tightly and have so many relatives living together paying the mortgage on a large home, that their mortgage is paid off in no time and they lose minimal interest to the bank. Props!

[silk]

this thread is actually entertaiing .. i like


added : ** get your mom to hook up with cocaine and you can be her supplier, money making baby

[silk]

Fuck Your Parents?
For Your Pleasure?

Jesus Christ. What is wrong with you?

i think he meant "Fixed your post" :)

[penner2k]

Totally agreed. I had several Caucasian friends during High School who left home to live on their own right after High School. One of them even commented that us Chinese kids were complete free loaders.

Today, they are working really crappy jobs (e.g working at the mall at age 30) while my friends who continued on to University and being supported by family are well on their way to grad degrees and very high paying professions

I'm sorry but

1) This isnt a race thing. Someone could goto university for 4 years and then when they get out be in a no better situation then the person that didnt goto post sec. I bet the ppl that went to school dont really get a chance to make "mistakes" cuz there parents control their lives so much.

2) The time that I have been living on my own has been some of the best of my life. I wont lie. Financially and career wise I havent really grown but as a person in general I've become a much better person. Its amazing how much you change once you dont have your parents protecting you anymore.

[InvisibleSoul]

Time to go on The People's Court...

[_Hotsauce_]

This thread has been a good read, interesting to hear how different familys "operate". I'm going to be moving out on the 1st, I don't really care the reason as to why she wanted to jack up my price, but I think she's going to give me a "reason" for the price increase tonight. OH JOY.

Also, I have been living on my own for the past 4 years with no problems, I just had an issue with my last two room-mates, and needed a temporary place to stay till Jan.

[zulutango]

Definition
dysfunctional adjective
/dɪsˈfʌŋk.ʃən.əl/ adj specialized not behaving or working normally
a dysfunctional family.

Time to become a real adult and take care of yourself....you also avoid all those nasty comments about living in your mother's basement and playing video games for the rest of your life.

[Drift_Monkey]

Just don't pay her and end leave the house.

then change your phone number and disappear.

goodluck

[bcrdukes]

This thread has been a good read, interesting to hear how different familys "operate". I'm going to be moving out on the 1st, I don't really care the reason as to why she wanted to jack up my price, but I think she's going to give me a "reason" for the price increase tonight. OH JOY.

Also, I have been living on my own for the past 4 years with no problems, I just had an issue with my last two room-mates, and needed a temporary place to stay till Jan.

It's good to hear about how other families operate however, you have to remember in the back of your mind that everybody has their own unique circumstances, including yourself and everybody around you. And ultimately, your mother is your mother, but also, she's a person too. Much like every human being, nobody is perfect.

C'est La Vie

[ajax]

Call child support, then hide for 23 minutes.

[AzNightmare]

How old are you btw? I mean if you're 30 or something... then maybe your mom's not a bitch afterall.

[tiger_handheld]

So is this why you want to camp out in someones back yard?

[_Hotsauce_]

^
Maybe you should read my other thread to understand it, seeing as I stated it straight up.

OR

I like to camp, and love the outdoors. This saves me money, and gives someone else extra $.

[mgarba]

Meh I paid rent once I gradded from High School.

Lets be honest here a lot of Asian Kids are ridiculously spoiled, personally I don't think that's a good way to come up. Sure you might be better off, but a lot of those spoiled brats I see post on RS, tend to be whiney assholes personally.

Keep your head up Hotsauce, weather the storm, worse comes to worse you can dump yourself in a cheap furnished suite for a few months until you've gotten on your feet.

I know a lot of people who went through the same situation, family can be messed up sometimes, but you keep rolling.

[hotjoint]

I know tons of spoiled bitches too :). Parents think they are doing them a favor by giving them everything but they are teaching their kids to rely on them.

[cunninglinguist]

How old is your mom. Any pics?

[bcrdukes]

Meh I paid rent once I gradded from High School.

Lets be honest here a lot of Asian Kids are ridiculously spoiled, personally I don't think that's a good way to come up. Sure you might be better off, but a lot of those spoiled brats I see post on RS, tend to be whiney assholes personally.

You sure took a nice long walk down Tunnel Vision Avenue.

[Mugen EvOlutioN]

yo mama is a bitch



















$350 to $750

did u piss off ur mom in one night ? lol next jump is gonna be $1500

prepare yo cash or be ready to get booted out the door son



how old are you?? $750 is pretty steep

[dizzystar]

Meh I paid rent once I gradded from High School.

Lets be honest here a lot of Asian Kids are ridiculously spoiled, personally I don't think that's a good way to come up. Sure you might be better off, but a lot of those spoiled brats I see post on RS, tend to be whiney assholes personally.

Keep your head up Hotsauce, weather the storm, worse comes to worse you can dump yourself in a cheap furnished suite for a few months until you've gotten on your feet.

I know a lot of people who went through the same situation, family can be messed up sometimes, but you keep rolling.


ding ding ding.

you should see some of the fucking people I meet nowadays, especially one retard in my program, agree 100%

[SkinnyPupp]

OP's white mom may be a fucking bitch, but I can think of examples of asians living at home who are fucking stressed as shit, because since they live at home they are basically "owned" by their parents. They are still told who to date, who to hang out with, etc. Just go look at some of the anonymous posts at the relationships forum, and you'll see how these awesome non-rent-charging parents treat their adult children. That is just as sad to me. Both cases are extreme, and pretty sad, and shouldn't be used to generalize.

Personally, I would rather be kicked out or charged double rent than be told that I can't date certain people, but maybe that's because I'm white? Who knows.

[static]

OP's white mom may be a fucking bitch, but I can think of examples of asians living at home who are fucking stressed as shit, because since they live at home they are basically "owned" by their parents. They are still told who to date, who to hang out with, etc. Just go look at some of the anonymous posts at the relationships forum, and you'll see how these awesome non-rent-charging parents treat their adult children. That is just as sad to me. Both cases are extreme, and pretty sad, and shouldn't be used to generalize.

Personally, I would rather be kicked out or charged double rent than be told that I can't date certain people, but maybe that's because I'm white? Who knows.

wow, off-topic but i thought you were a honger for the longest time lol.

[mr_piggy]

She is the boss, if you don't like it then GTFO! :D

[mr_piggy]

Lets be honest here a lot of Asian Kids are ridiculously spoiled, personally I don't think that's a good way to come up. Sure you might be better off, but a lot of those spoiled brats I see post on RS, tend to be whiney assholes personally.


Thats a huge misperception imo.

Most kids from wealthier families are spoilt, regardless of ethnicity. Its just that in Vancouver there are a lot more Chinese people and wealthy(ier) Chinese families in particular.

There are tons of pampered caucasian kids in West Van, a lot of pampered Chinese (or Asian) kids in Vancouver and you will see next to zero pampered kids in poor areas (of any ethnicity) in places like Surrey.

[Mugen EvOlutioN]

wow, off-topic but i thought you were a honger for the longest time lol.



werd, he aint no honger?

[silk]

OP's white mom may be a fucking bitch, but I can think of examples of asians living at home who are fucking stressed as shit, because since they live at home they are basically "owned" by their parents. They are still told who to date, who to hang out with, etc. Just go look at some of the anonymous posts at the relationships forum, and you'll see how these awesome non-rent-charging parents treat their adult children. That is just as sad to me. Both cases are extreme, and pretty sad, and shouldn't be used to generalize.

Personally, I would rather be kicked out or charged double rent than be told that I can't date certain people, but maybe that's because I'm white? Who knows.

your case of asian family is a bit extreme, but sometimes when you are living with asian parents, there is something called RESPECT.
"If you are living under my hood, there are rules" , the rule that goes on to dating is a bit harsh in your case and the fact that this is only happending to minority of people.

[Preemo]

Fuck that shit. Move out to a new place. $700 bucks gets you a sweet bachelors pad.

Before you move out, rub your asshole on her pillows.

That'll teach her.

[SkinnyPupp]

your case of asian family is a bit extreme, but sometimes when you are living with asian parents, there is something called RESPECT.
"If you are living under my hood, there are rules" , the rule that goes on to dating is a bit harsh in your case and the fact that this is only happending to minority of people.
And so is the OP's case. Yet you were the first one to turn this into a racial thing.

[silk]

And so is the OP's case. Yet you were the first one to turn this into a racial thing.

how am i turning this into a racial thing ? I stereotype in my first post by stating OP's parent must be white, but I didnt turn that into a racial thing. You over reacting and list out the cons of living under asian parent's house is racial.

[SkinnyPupp]

All I'm saying is, this has more to do with shitty parents than the actual race. Because a lot of people have shitty parents.