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so how do you motivate gf to exericse?
i work out 5 days per week but my gf doesnt like to exercise
she is average built, but i know things will fall apart if she doesnt start exercise regularly soon
so guys, how do i motivate her to exercise? in a nice way...
vafanculo
05-01-2010, 10:13 AM
Start calling her porky and poke her with a stick!
Actually what I did and was surprised that it worked was i told her there's so many couples at my gym and she should try coming along with me so we can workout together as itl be fun. Only draw back is it's harder to check out the hunnies.
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JSilver
05-01-2010, 10:19 AM
Ask her to go to the gym not because she's getting fat but because it will be fun for the both of you. It's hard to tell a girl directly to start hitting the gym because she's adding some pounds to the trunk. Women easily get offended as we all know.
You could ask her to go along with you to some Yoga classes, boot camp trainings or even local gym programs. Start hinting with fitness classes that you and her can go together.
In time she may grow an interest to keeping herself fit and start to consistently to go the gym.
ShadowBun
05-01-2010, 10:21 AM
just ask her to help you out in the gym
interest doesnt come with force
RRxtar
05-01-2010, 12:53 PM
tell her she needs to start going to the gym as its a healthy lifestyle choice.
if she gets pissed off and leaves you, she wasnt the right girl anyway. you want a girl that will take advice from her partner. and as a consolation prize, you can at least look forward to her being fat and ugly and alone while you're checkin out hunnies at the gym.
hal0g0dv2
05-01-2010, 01:37 PM
so her pictures of body building .com / body space of all the nice asses
that will motivate her
The_Situation
05-01-2010, 02:11 PM
put a bowflex in the kitchen
RayBot
05-01-2010, 05:05 PM
I have the same problem as OP. However, i've stooped to a low level of motivation because thats what it takes for her to get out of the living room.
6insomnia9
05-01-2010, 05:15 PM
I just tell mine , shes getting fat and shes like >:O and starts doing situps and pushups (:
illicitstylz
05-01-2010, 05:55 PM
put a bowflex in the kitchen
Laughed out loud on the fucken canada line heading towards the employee lot lol
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Mt gf used to be a basketball player/athlete. When we talk about exercise, i Just remind her that it would be a shame to lose all the gains she made from that time, so she should keep up on it. (paraphrasing)
Jgresch
05-01-2010, 08:57 PM
make her think that you are involved with other females at the gym. She must then accompany you to make sure that you are being faithful. While shes there on the look out she will have nothign better to do than some cardio...
BLUETIGER
05-01-2010, 11:22 PM
sexercise
iceburner
05-02-2010, 07:53 AM
I'd bring her clothes shopping, then indirectly say that anything she doesn't fit in looks good on her if only she was a little bit skinner.
I forgot how I said it, but it worked very well.
or
When I see her eating something unhealthy, I say she's going to get fat, puff out my cheeks and waddle around.
StaxBundlez
05-02-2010, 05:44 PM
tell her to go look at the twanger thread.
AutozamAZ-3
05-02-2010, 05:59 PM
Start calling her porky and poke her with a stick!
Actually what I did and was surprised that it worked was i told her there's so many couples at my gym and she should try coming along with me so we can workout together as itl be fun. Only draw back is it's harder to check out the hunnies.
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Mugen EvOlutioN
05-02-2010, 06:47 PM
slap her ass like how u would on an ox, now move that bitch
gabbergabber
05-02-2010, 06:58 PM
when you are in bed with her, keep complimenting on her love cushion, she will feel negative and start going to the gym. You're welcome.
Durrann
05-02-2010, 08:27 PM
when you are in bed with her, keep complimenting on her love cushion, she will feel negative and start going to the gym. You're welcome.
HAHA thats hilarious shit
sonick
05-04-2010, 10:11 AM
Withold sex from her.
Ulic Qel-Droma
05-04-2010, 10:48 AM
i just start grabbing their tummy or poking their theighs. i straight up tell them, they're getting fatter. and it's noticeable. or i tell them to wear something sexy that they sorta don't fit into anymore.
lol whatever, u dont have to be nice about it if u know it's gonna fall apart cuz of that. just make them do it. if they don't wanna, then u can choose to leave them or accept that they're gonna get fucking fat.
thats why i don't date average sized girls, cuz they'll only get fat. haha. skinny girls, all the way. the only cushion for pushin i need is the fat on their chest.
Mugen EvOlutioN
05-04-2010, 12:02 PM
^
i like that concept
except tw girls dont get much boobs if they are dead skinny as u mentioned
:)
Conan O'Brien Sex Video
05-04-2010, 01:16 PM
so her pictures of body building .com / body space of all the nice asses
that will motivate her
lol that's what keeps me motivated. if i can look half as good as ChickenTuna...
hal0g0dv2
05-04-2010, 07:40 PM
lol that's what keeps me motivated. if i can look half as good as ChickenTuna...
yeahhhhhh her ass is like w0wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Death2Theft
05-05-2010, 07:48 AM
Post XL pictures of girls with cellulite thighs that starve themselves to stay thin. Or u could just take up actual FUN activities get some dogs go hiking or something gym is way too boring.
!Yaminashi
05-05-2010, 10:00 AM
gym is way too boring.
Wut?
xzman
05-07-2010, 12:57 AM
ok this is going to look upon this from another angle - your reasons for her to hit the gym are pretty selfish. you basically don't want an overweight girlfriend - kinda shallow if she's got everything else together. personally i couldn't care less if the girl i dated worked out. as long as she's healthy and a good person, i am fine with her - within reason of course as there has to be a physical connection. but to actually post in a forum to ask for advice on how to get your girlfriend to workout cause you think she's going to get fat? terrible. if she were to see this - after you've caused an innocent girl to develop an eating disorder - the only thing it's going to do is motivate her to kick your ass to the curb.
what if you suddenly got into a bad accident and were bound to a wheelchair and couldnt 'perform'? would you care as much that she was carrying an extra 10 pounds - or would you be happy that she accepts you no matter what
liu13
05-07-2010, 01:02 AM
^ no one asked for your opinion
encourage healthy eating and do more physical activities with her this summer
xzman
05-07-2010, 01:04 AM
public forum. i don't need your permission
Marioo1991
05-07-2010, 06:51 AM
shrink her clothes by throwing them in the dryer for a long period of time...this way it will gradually shrink without making it obvious
shrink her clothes by throwing them in the dryer for a long period of time...this way it will gradually shrink without making it obvious
:haha: im going to remember that one
RayBot
05-07-2010, 07:49 AM
ok this is going to look upon this from another angle - your reasons for her to hit the gym are pretty selfish. you basically don't want an overweight girlfriend - kinda shallow if she's got everything else together. personally i couldn't care less if the girl i dated worked out. as long as she's healthy and a good person, i am fine with her - within reason of course as there has to be a physical connection. but to actually post in a forum to ask for advice on how to get your girlfriend to workout cause you think she's going to get fat? terrible. if she were to see this - after you've caused an innocent girl to develop an eating disorder - the only thing it's going to do is motivate her to kick your ass to the curb.
what if you suddenly got into a bad accident and were bound to a wheelchair and couldnt 'perform'? would you care as much that she was carrying an extra 10 pounds - or would you be happy that she accepts you no matter what
If its a girl thats out of shape, we encourage them to go the gym.
If a guy is out of shape....a girl finds somebody else who is.
Its more likely to reason with a girl in the means of fitness as opposed to a guy. And besides...thats what this thread is supposed to be; motivating your girlfriend to be more active, not poking her fat and calling her names. Active awareness does effect a relationship.
But nonetheless, if my significant chooses to sit on the couch all night watching Gossip Girl, the Bachelor and all this other bullshit TV....thats something i could lose patience with.
sonick
05-07-2010, 08:02 AM
ok this is going to look upon this from another angle - your reasons for her to hit the gym are pretty selfish. you basically don't want an overweight girlfriend - kinda shallow if she's got everything else together. personally i couldn't care less if the girl i dated worked out. as long as she's healthy and a good person, i am fine with her - within reason of course as there has to be a physical connection. but to actually post in a forum to ask for advice on how to get your girlfriend to workout cause you think she's going to get fat? terrible. if she were to see this - after you've caused an innocent girl to develop an eating disorder - the only thing it's going to do is motivate her to kick your ass to the curb.
So... you've never had a girlfriend before, have you?
!Yaminashi
05-07-2010, 09:12 AM
If its a girl thats out of shape, we encourage them to go the gym.
If a guy is out of shape....a girl finds somebody else who is.
And apparently WE'RE the assholes when we suggest going to the gym..
i grab at her stomach and pinch her roll. then she goes for a run. lol
also i ask her how far along she is while rubbing her stomach.
she doesnt need to lose weight but she thinks she needs to drop at least 5lbs (shes 120)
RRxtar
05-07-2010, 02:58 PM
ok this is going to look upon this from another angle - your reasons for her to hit the gym are pretty selfish. you basically don't want an overweight girlfriend - kinda shallow if she's got everything else together. personally i couldn't care less if the girl i dated worked out. as long as she's healthy and a good person, i am fine with her - within reason of course as there has to be a physical connection. but to actually post in a forum to ask for advice on how to get your girlfriend to workout cause you think she's going to get fat? terrible. if she were to see this - after you've caused an innocent girl to develop an eating disorder - the only thing it's going to do is motivate her to kick your ass to the curb.
what if you suddenly got into a bad accident and were bound to a wheelchair and couldnt 'perform'? would you care as much that she was carrying an extra 10 pounds - or would you be happy that she accepts you no matter what
fat people are ugly. and ugly people make me sad. being sad makes me angry. and no one wants to see me angry.
penner2k
05-07-2010, 03:02 PM
If it bothers you that much then get rid of her. Find a girl that wants to take care of herself for herself and not for you. Sure you might be able to motivate her now but what about in a year. What if you get married? Is she still gonna want to go to the gym and eat properly for you then?
I know it sounds selfish and shallow but its the truth. If its gonna always bother you then it will just end up creating conflict in the long run.
Volvo-brickster
05-07-2010, 07:19 PM
if you bring her to to the gym you better not be the touchy feely "lets talk and make out in the middle of the goddamn gym" type
nothing i hate more than seeing couples in the gym who spend more time talking to each other than actually working out
get in, work hard, get out
nothing more nothing less
ok this is going to look upon this from another angle - your reasons for her to hit the gym are pretty selfish. you basically don't want an overweight girlfriend - kinda shallow if she's got everything else together. personally i couldn't care less if the girl i dated worked out. as long as she's healthy and a good person, i am fine with her - within reason of course as there has to be a physical connection. but to actually post in a forum to ask for advice on how to get your girlfriend to workout cause you think she's going to get fat? terrible. if she were to see this - after you've caused an innocent girl to develop an eating disorder - the only thing it's going to do is motivate her to kick your ass to the curb.
what if you suddenly got into a bad accident and were bound to a wheelchair and couldnt 'perform'? would you care as much that she was carrying an extra 10 pounds - or would you be happy that she accepts you no matter what
i want her to be more active, not living in a sedentary lifestyle
how can one be healthy if he/she doesn't exercise?
Marioo1991
05-09-2010, 09:04 AM
i want her to be more active, not living in a sedentary lifestyle
how can one be healthy if he/she doesn't exercise?
so you want her to do something that she doesnt want to do?
how would you feel if she was posting in a forum "how can I get my boyfriend to give me an orgasm, he doesnt know what to do" or "how can i get boyfriend to stop being so cheap and buy me things"
being healthy and exercising are 2 seperate things. you can have one without the other. I know people who exercise who live a very unealthy lifestyle and vice versa. In my opinion its better if someone has a very clean lifestyle by eating healthy, doesnt smoke or drink, and walks a lot is in a much better position than someone who hits the gym ocassionally but drinks, smokes and eats fast food all the time.
dizzystar
05-09-2010, 12:23 PM
call her a giant walrus
so you want her to do something that she doesnt want to do?
how would you feel if she was posting in a forum "how can I get my boyfriend to give me an orgasm, he doesnt know what to do" or "how can i get boyfriend to stop being so cheap and buy me things"
being healthy and exercising are 2 seperate things. you can have one without the other. I know people who exercise who live a very unealthy lifestyle and vice versa. In my opinion its better if someone has a very clean lifestyle by eating healthy, doesnt smoke or drink, and walks a lot is in a much better position than someone who hits the gym ocassionally but drinks, smokes and eats fast food all the time.
of course health is linked to exercise!
there are so many benefits from exercise: handle stress better, improve sleeping quality, more energetic and many more!
and you said "walks alot" that's a form of exercising right there!!!!!!
i am talking about motivate her to exercise, doesnt mean work out in the gym only
anyway i am planning to take her walk/jog, and design couple simple body weight training program that she can do at home.
Marioo1991
05-10-2010, 05:39 AM
They are linked but you can have one without the other.
Why not just have more sex, that's good exercise
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Conan O'Brien Sex Video
05-10-2010, 09:03 AM
They are linked but you can have one without the other.
Why not just have more sex, that's good exercise
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i don't see what you mean by the two as "linked" but also independent.
healthy eating and no exercise = not healthy
unhealthy eating and exercise = not healthy
healthy eating AND exercise = healthy
exercise = any form of physical activity including walking, gym, sex.
Marioo1991
05-10-2010, 09:54 AM
i don't see what you mean by the two as "linked" but also independent.
healthy eating and no exercise = not healthy
unhealthy eating and exercise = not healthy
healthy eating AND exercise = healthy
exercise = any form of physical activity including walking, gym, sex.
Technically walking is exercise, but I dont consider walking from house to car exercise, even though it does use muscles.
That said, I believe you can have one without the other (independent), but generally exercising is part of being healthy.(linked)
I would consider walking as exercise if you actually schedule a time or go out of your way to walk, otherwise its just part of your daily routine. I know people who eat well, dont smoke or drink, dont "exercise" as i described, dont have any healthy issues, but I consider them healthy.
Conan O'Brien Sex Video
05-10-2010, 10:11 AM
aahh okay i get what you mean now. yeah i don't consider walking to the car exercise either. but if it's walking (scheduled time, or walking somewhere rather than driving) i consider that exercise.
for me, no matter how healthy a person eats, i don't consider them healthy unless they also incorporate physical activity, even though no health issues may be present. they may not have any health issues *yet*. although some people's jobs may actually be physical without being the sterotypical warehouse job.
Marioo1991
05-10-2010, 10:24 AM
aahh okay i get what you mean now. yeah i don't consider walking to the car exercise either. but if it's walking (scheduled time, or walking somewhere rather than driving) i consider that exercise.
for me, no matter how healthy a person eats, i don't consider them healthy unless they also incorporate physical activity, even though no health issues may be present. they may not have any health issues *yet*. although some people's jobs may actually be physical without being the sterotypical warehouse job.
thats true, there are a lot of other factors to consider that would be considered "exercise."
Obviously if a person just sat on their ass, ate well and didnt smoke/drink, I wouldnt consider them healthy, but without thinking about it even the most lazy person who doesnt want to exercise engages in some sort of physical activity throughout the day.
pharmed
05-27-2010, 09:06 PM
We exercise with friends. A friend and I recently got our girls to start hockey and golf - don't get me wrong, they were reluctant at the beginning. Now they goad each other on in competition. Turns out it's just good natured competition that incites the best motivation to work harder and get better.
Guess it also helps that they were both was on a varsity team in University :)
Not really racist!
05-30-2010, 11:47 AM
show her this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBvdrW9MSQw&feature=popular
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