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	   |  URGENT: advice on interview... mrs. or ms. ?  
 
			
			I have a job interview in the morning with a woman.I can't just address them as Mr._______
 as I have always been doing with previous interviews.
 
 What's the best way to find this out whether she goes by Ms or Mrs. professionally??
 
 I thought of just asking the person at the front desk when I get to the
 office, but that might be a bad idea.
 
 I even thought of just taking a 50/50 chance, saying it hesitantly, hoping
 she would understand and correct me if I'm wrong.
 
 But I dunno... It could make me fail my interview right on the spot...
 or make it seem I didn't do enough prior research or something =/
 
 Help please.
 
 TIA.
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			I thought if you don't know, you automatically address them as "Ms."?
		 
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			Safe bet is always "Ms."
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			I thought most interviews, most ppl introduce themselves right off the bat and you just  call them by their first name?
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			when in doubt, say Ms.
 Come on dude just google that shit next time.
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					Originally Posted by chengsterr  I thought most interviews, most ppl introduce themselves right off the bat and you just  call them by their first name? |  No not necessarily, but the thing is..........its sorta irrelevant of OP is asking because, you'll what, say the interviewer's name twice, 3 times at most? Maybe even not at all if you straight up suck.
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			Ms.
 Seriously though, if you didn't get the job because of this, you simply weren't good enough.
 
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					Originally Posted by chengsterr  I thought most interviews, most ppl introduce themselves right off the bat and you just  call them by their first name? |   Quote:   | 
					Originally Posted by Wongtouski  when in doubt, say Ms.
 Come on dude just google that shit next time.
 |  lol, I tried. But I was wondering if there was also a professional way to 
find out instead of just playing it safe.  
But anyway, I'll just say "Ms." to play it safe since I can't really find out.  
Thanks for the help, everyone (RS never fails in emergencies    !!)     Quote:   | 
					Originally Posted by chengsterr  I thought most interviews, most ppl introduce themselves right off the bat and you just  call them by their first name? |  Well, I already know the name of my interviewer... but it's always best to address them as Mr., Ms., Mrs., Dr., etc.  
Unless they specifically say, "call me _____"
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					Originally Posted by AzNightmare  lol, I tried. But I was wondering if there was also a professional way to 
find out instead of just playing it safe.  
But anyway, I'll just say "Ms." to play it safe since I can't really find out.  
Thanks for the help, everyone (RS never fails in emergencies   !!)     
Well, I already know the name of my interviewer... but it's always best to address them as Mr., Ms., Mrs., Dr., etc. Unless they specifically say, "call me _____" |  What are you applying for?
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			Go with MS. cant go wrong with that!
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			Call her Mister.
		 
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			call her ma'am
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			Call her miss, it will flatter her that you think she looks young enough to be one. On the flip side, I hate being called ma'am. I'm 26 not 62 jeez.Posted via RS Mobile |   |   |   |      |  11-05-2010, 08:17 AM | #19 |   | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001 
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			receptionist is always a good idea, she'll probably call her by first name though.
		 
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