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met a girl in class, talked for a few days and studied together, she asked me in class to go out and get whiskey with her. does the classic smile and wave look all the time. I asked her after class if she wanted a beer she says no just whiskey. So i ask her when shes free so we can go get some. she says after the semester maybe? Mr . So I said maybe its up to you. (keep in mind this was done through text because i was with people when i ran into her when I planned on asking her out, so i did the thing i really didnt want to do (txt) to see if she would go out this weekend) Anyways I send a date place time and all she sends is "???"
then this week today at class she basically avoided me I was like wtf.
I didnt get a chance to talk with her really cause the mother hen in the class seemed to keep her away. If it matters shes persian so is the mother hen, i was somewhat warned about them.
anyways Im assuming i have no chance now since her and mother hen seemed to be talking
anybody got thoughts, maybe hard to get? or similar experience?
this is a new one for me
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Originally Posted by kookoobird88
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met a girl in class, talked for a few days and studied together, she asked me in class to go out and get whiskey with her. does the classic smile and wave look all the time. I asked her after class if she wanted a beer she says no just whiskey.
i know this persian girl from back in hi skew... she was freaky as fukk.. nice D's, bubble butt, had a thing for me too..
never got over her.. id hit that anyday lol
highly recommend persian broads for sexual activities.. as far as "no beer only whiskey" goes.. that could mean she wants no strings attached.. and just wants to go hard.
yea sounds like it
she seemed interested by her body language and convos we had in class
and told people in class she was attracted to me, as soon as i ask her out she just seemed distant, almost playing hard to get maybe? either way ill take the advice from the Rs'ers and move on
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she likes the attention. i dont know any girl who says "hey lets go have a whiskey together" more like "hey we should have drinks sometime". i feel like she wants to convey the idea that she's not some regular girly girl and she's a bit of a badass so to initiate your interest and now that you are, she's pulling back cuz she gets off on the power trip.
i would bet you money that when she got your text she talked to her friends about it going "omg.... so this guy in my class, totes asked me to have a drink with him!! wtf!!"
you don't want to date someone who plays mind games. real women don't have to do that.
she likes the attention. i dont know any girl who says "hey lets go have a whiskey together" more like "hey we should have drinks sometime". i feel like she wants to convey the idea that she's not some regular girly girl and she's a bit of a badass so to initiate your interest and now that you are, she's pulling back cuz she gets off on the power trip.
i would bet you money that when she got your text she talked to her friends about it going "omg.... so this guy in my class, totes asked me to have a drink with him!! wtf!!"
you don't want to date someone who plays mind games. real women don't have to do that.
If I can add to your spot-on post:
If not that, I think some girls play games to initiate your interest because they like the feeling of being pursued (even if the person pursuing isn't of any interest of theirs at all).
I've always surmised that it's an image thing. It makes them look good (and probably feels good) to have active suitors chasing them.
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If I can add to your spot-on post:
If not that, I think some girls play games to initiate your interest because they like the feeling of being pursued (even if the person pursuing isn't of any interest of theirs at all).
I've always surmised that it's an image thing. It makes them look good (and probably feels good) to have active suitors chasing them.
YES! definitely! women who are insecure find pleasure in being chased by people they have no interest in because it makes them feel as though they have "value". in reality, women should feel they have value regardless the number of suitors.
playing games like this hurts perfectly nice/good guys then causes them to be assholes.. commence the neverending cycle of "she was a bitch so i'm gonna be an asshole to get more bitches." then when we get older, all girls say "why are there no nice guys?" and all guys go "where did all the nice girls go?"
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. So I said maybe its up to you. (keep in mind this was done through text because i was with people when i ran into her when I planned on asking her out, so i did the thing i really didnt want to do (txt) to see if she would go out this weekend) Anyways I send a date place time and all she sends is "???"
