[Chronix]

My friend was possibly date raped over the weekend. She did not remember a thing after she took a cocktail from the guy though she remembers events prior to the drink. She said she felt like she was dreaming but felt the pain when the guy tried to insert into her. She did not black out the whole night because she managed to crawl or assisted into the washroom to puke several times. Do you guys think she was GHB'd? I suspected it was just a low dose as she still felt the pain of the insertion as well as her managing to wake up to go puke several times in the night.

This happened on the Saturday and it's already Thursday now (She since showered, and had sex with her boyfriend after the event) I'm not sure if bringing her to the hospital or clinic they would be able to detect the drug though I heard they might be able to get a sample from her hair?

Also, she wanted to check if she catch any diseases from the guy so I'm wondering is it better to do it as soon as possible or wait since symptons of HIV doesn't show up till later?

Thanks for the help.

I asked if she wanted to go to the police and she said no and she's more worried about her own personal health.

[BrRsn]

My friend was possibly date raped over the weekend. She did not remember a thing after she took a cocktail from the guy though she remembers events prior to the drink. She said she felt like she was dreaming but felt the pain when the guy tried to insert into her. She did not black out the whole night because she managed to crawl or assisted into the washroom to puke several times. Do you guys think she was GHB'd? I suspected it was just a low dose as she still felt the pain of the insertion as well as her managing to wake up to go puke several times in the night.

This happened on the Saturday and it's already Thursday now (She since showered, and had sex with her boyfriend after the event) I'm not sure if bringing her to the hospital or clinic they would be able to detect the drug though I heard they might be able to get a sample from her hair?

Also, she wanted to check if she catch any diseases from the guy so I'm wondering is it better to do it as soon as possible or wait since symptons of HIV doesn't show up till later?

Thanks for the help.

I asked if she wanted to go to the police and she said no and she's more worried about her own personal health.


:fulloffuck:

[MikeHB]

I still don't understand why people take drinks from random people? What do they expect will happen? Have they not heard stories of this exact nature?
Anyways, for the HIV/STI part of it why not get test ASAP than wait around questioning your health daily?
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[BrRsn]

In a relationship, taking random drinks from guys ... yeaaaaah

sounds like her conscience kicked in a few days after the fact, not GHB

[bcrdukes]

Could have been much worse - Three hospitalized for GHB overdoses in Vancouver | News1130 (http://www.news1130.com/2013/06/06/three-hospitalized-for-ghb-overdoses-in-vancouver/)

[LSF22]

She did not remember a thing after she took a cocktail from the guy.

:badpokerface:


in all seriousness.... my Q is was she clubbing alone? if she was alone, why would she party alone and accept a drink from a random dude...?

if she was with friends, where were they all when:

a) she decided to accept the drink
b) after she had the drink and she felt like puking, did none of her friends know or help her out?
c) did the inserting happen before or after the puking? if she was puking/felt like puking, again why did her friends not stay with her to take care of her?

if shes worried bout diseases, go get her checked out asap instead of waiting around. might as well try to get that possible worry outta the way sooner rather than later.

[bluejays]

Well since she's already showered there's probably not much evidence around. And I doubt that GHB would be detectable after such a long wait period.

[dlo]

pretty sure you can get tested for rape... trauma to the vag etc etc

[van_city23]

Worried about being date raped but before going to get checked or the police she decides to have sex with her boyfriend.. I don't get it, agree with what dhillon09 posted

[Chronix]

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[Chronix]

guys I know what she did was dumb. Even I was facepalming when she told me everything. She said there were no visible trauma. Would the diseases symptons show up right away?
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[knight604]

No way to tell until you get tested, probably wasn't a bright idea to fuck BF after though.

good luck.

[smoothie.]

Man I love reading shit like this.

Tell your friend to report it exactly how we read it. Go with her so you can share the cops facepalm pic.
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[Drow]

strong everything

[Berzerker]

I wish I could fail and thank on phones. Above post gets thanked.

Berz out.
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[Chronix]

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[FI-Z33]

No offense but thats kind of inconsiderate and selfish to not have told her bf and continued to have sex with him
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[Chronix]

honestly, you guys' comments reflect my thought at the time. But I'm just trying to help her right now. I believe hiv wont show up until 6 months later?
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[Inaii]

Wait, so let me get this straight. She's worried about contracting HIV, but decides to let you post on a forum rather than going to a doctor immediately? Obviously she isn't that concerned. No one I know in their right mind would just wait to see if it showed up. Tell your friend to grow a set and go get checked out. Oh and to tell her bf while she's at it if she hasn't yet.

[stewie]

shes not that concerned because she wasn't "date raped".

she got fucking drunk at a club, went home with a guy, and used the "I was date raped" as an excuse to hide the fact that she fucking cheated on her boyfriend. (this is no different than a girl getting drunk at a club, being a complete slut, then saying "I blacked out and don't remember a thing!! I would never do that!!!")

shes a keeper!!!

as to lsf22's questions, my answers would be this:

a) she decided to accept the drink

most women will, 75% are free loaders at clubs.

b) after she had the drink and she felt like puking, did none of her friends know or help her out?

her friends were probably just as drunk and didn't notice or care

c) did the inserting happen before or after the puking? if she was puking/felt like puking, again why did her friends not stay with her to take care of her?

her friends probably saw the guy flirting with her, they gave her some space, she got turned on with what he was saying to her, she decided to sneak out and have fun.


-edit

Wait, so let me get this straight. She's worried about contracting HIV, but decides to let you post on a forum rather than going to a doctor immediately? Obviously she isn't that concerned. No one I know in their right mind would just wait to see if it showed up. Tell your friend to grow a set and go get checked out. Oh and to tell her bf while she's at it if she hasn't yet.

if me and my gf are good together and she ever cheated on me and one of my friends knew about it...I would give that friend as much beer/liquor as they wanted as a thank you for saving me from being with a cheating whore and now I can move on and find a new sweet girl who will actually be worth my time.

[rsx]

Take her to a clinic to get tested for rape and diseases. Plain and simple.

[fliptuner]

Knowing that she had sex/got raped, then had sex with her boyfriend, makes me want to punch your friend in the face.

[Chronix]

Ok I was working, thats why the replies I posted was messed up.

The story is that she went clubbing with a female friend, the female friend left her alone while she danced with this guy that the female friend is familiar with as clubbing acquaintances. In the club, the guy bought her two drinks. I asked her if she ever kept her eyes on the drinks. She said no. She, the female friend and the guy went back to the guy's apartment and met the guy's brother. The brother made my friend a whiskey coke with a little bit of Ketamine (Talked to a Dr. today at work in the hospital so he kinda narrowed it down to this) in it. She started getting tipsier and drunker and proceeded to sleep on the guy's room. That's when the insertion had happened. She puked after the 'said' insertion. Apparently the guy stopped when he realized she was still a bit conscious. I don't really want to explain any further than this because after that she was left alone to sleep until the morning.

I told her not to hang out with that female friend any more since she did a shitty job protecting her.

The reason she's delaying for this long and finally told me is because she is an international student and had lived a sheltered life at her home country. This boyfriend is her first boyfriend ever.

A lot of you guys are judging her of the fact that she slept with her boyfriend couple days after should know there are many possible reactions to rape, including people who avoid sexual encounters for years as well as those who obsessively seek them out. In this particular case, I'd guess that she wanted the comfort and normalcy of being close sexually with her boyfriend after a potentially traumatic event.

[smoothie.]

^^ Why are you defending her stupidity?

[yray]

hope the bf was wearing a condom

hiv doesn't come out till a month later; you can get tested now for other diseases but she will need to get tested again later on

[fliptuner]

You know when people ignore warning signs and go backpacking/skiing out of bounds, then go missing/starve/die/get injured? That's where I'm at with this whole story.

There are bad people out there and if nothing is done to protect yourself/friends/family or your property, it's pretty hard to have much compassion.

To answer your OP, she should go to the hospital asap and get tested. If further testing is required, so be it.

[TjAlmeida]

Hit a clinic. And, shocked no one has said this. But go find the Fuck head who did this to her. Get him tested, or at least confront him.

Sounds like your friend is pretty bad about keeping her self safe.

Goes clubbing with friend. Follows friend to some random guys house. Keeps on drinking. Passes out and gets raped.

Sounds like everything girls are told not to do on a night out.
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[stewie]

The brother made my friend a whiskey coke with a little bit of Ketamine (Talked to a Dr. today at work in the hospital so he kinda narrowed it down to this) in it. She started getting tipsier and drunker and proceeded to sleep on the guy's room. That's when the insertion had happened. She puked after the 'said' insertion. Apparently the guy stopped when he realized she was still a bit conscious. I don't really want to explain any further than this because after that she was left alone to sleep until the morning.

I told her not to hang out with that female friend any more since she did a shitty job protecting her.



when I was younger me and friends used to do special k every now and then. if he actually did put it in her drink, she would have known instantly!! so go ask her how her whiskey and coke tasted.


on the other hand, since the guy put "a little" bit of something(assuming its k) and this is a week old now. good luck with it showing up in a drug test. k will stop showing up after 7 days...maybe 2 weeks if they're heavy users.

sorry man, but it just doesn't add up to me. sounds like she just got drunk and made up an excuse to fuck a guy, deliberately held off from seeing a dr knowing that after a week it would be 99% untraceable in her.

and her female friend isn't in the wrong either, she was having a good time dancing with a guy. its not her job to play a mother role and constantly keep eyes on your friend...shes a big girl...she can make her own decisions(as stupid as they may be at times).

so the house they went to is the house of the brother that your friend is clubbing acquaintances with? shouldn't be to hard to find him then...

[Spidey]

ummmm... so she gets "roofied".. guy brings her to the bed room.. tries to have sex with her BUT she is conscious enough to read the mind of the rapist by saying that he stopped because he realized she was awake.. MAYBE just maybe, the guy STOPPED when she was puking, and realized she was too hammered to have sex with her, so the opposite of rape?

Secondly, she was at an apartment with her friend and 2 guys? So if it is rape, she obviously has witnesses, and knows where to potentially track this guy down right?

Did she get taken advantage of? Possibly. Did she get "raped"? with the information given, it is hard to say/unlikely.

At the end of the day, if she was seriously concerned about being RAPED, then she shouldve a) gone to a clinic already b)not have sex with her bf c) REPORT IT TO THE POLICE

[snails]

this why i dont date chicks in a party/club scene. sorry, it is for single people, that go there to do single people things, and be around other single people that only want one thing. sex.

the unfortunate thing is that some people are desperate as fuck and will do what ever they can to get it.

girls, dont go clubbing with just a couple girl friends

not saying girls deserve these things, but with how shitty some guys are its never a good idea without some friends around you that can protect you, if i went clubbing with some girls i would not let one of them leave with a guy. just my 2 cents.

as stupid as this girl was for her actions i hope all is well and this shit gets sorted.

[dinosaur]

Like everyone else has said, she needs to go get tested and tell her bf.

She also needs to report it to police...she may not have any super helpful information, but this could be added to another case. This is obviously not the first time this dude has used these...any information she or her friends have CAN help law enforcement.

If she doesn't do any of this, tell me where she is and as Ice Boy suggested, I'll punch her in the face.

[melloman]

Ya sorry, this sounds way too fucked up.

2 helpful things to do:
-Tell/take your friend to the clinic/hospital and get her tested for everything.

-Smack her. She clearly needs some sense smacked into her.

:fulloffuck:

[dinosaur]

Don't get me wrong.

Getting roofied and raped isn't her fault. Nobody asks for that.

Her actions after make her a flakey twat.

[stewie]

Don't get me wrong.

Getting roofied and raped isn't her fault. Nobody asks for that.

Her actions after make her a flakey twat.

life lesson for her.

stop going to clubs, stop getting shit faced drunk with people you don't know, and stop accepting drinks unless you've seen them make it.

I haven't been to a club in years(thank god), but I do remember seeing and talking to all the freeloading whores who hit on every single guy in hopes of a free shot, end up leaving at 2am, being held up by some random guy.

gee...I wonder what happens next.

sure, some of those girls are whores who are comfortable with fucking a random every weekend, but when it happens to a girl whos not "normally like that". as hard and shitty as it seems, its a life lesson for them to shape up and act more responsible. I bet this never happens to her again.

[dinosaur]

ok, not to get too off topic here....but if you are calling the girls "whores", what are you calling the guys who feed these girls alcohol so they'll sleep with them?

[Spidey]

ok, not to get too off topic here....but if you are calling the girls "whores", what are you calling the guys who feed these girls alcohol so they'll sleep with them?

predawhores?

all joking aside. It isn't fair to blame girls for going out and clubbing/ having a good time.. or even if they do decide to go home with guys. it's their decision and there shouldn't be a double standard if guys are praised if they go home with a random girl.

at the end of the day, IF OP's friend was indeed raped, she needs to do the above mentioned things we have all suggested.

[stewie]

ok, not to get too off topic here....but if you are calling the girls "whores", what are you calling the guys who feed these girls alcohol so they'll sleep with them?

well, think of guys as keys and girls as pad locks.

if a padlock can be opened by any key....you got yourself a very shitty lock.

if you got a key that can open any padlock...well my friend...you've got yourself a master key :D

lol jk

I call those guys pathetic desperate fuck bags who have no game and have to resort to alcohol/drugs in order to get laid(aka douche bags). they might as well save their money from buying drugs and going to a bar spending 200$+ and just buy a craigslist hooker for 30 min at 75% the price.

[snails]

ok, not to get too off topic here....but if you are calling the girls "whores", what are you calling the guys who feed these girls alcohol so they'll sleep with them?

this is where it differs, girls arnt going out raping guys.. its the guys raping the girls... and they are scum for even attempting let alone succeeding.

the only danger a guy is in going to a club is getting hit by another guy, or going home with an empty wallet...

ive heard wayyyy to many times that girls get taken advantage of, simple solution is to not put yourself in harms way.. it is tragic.. but it is life...

it reminds me of something i have heard way to many people say while walking somewhere and not looking before they cross the road" if the car hits me ill just sue them" well... im sure it wont be the same tone when they are coming out the other side in a wheel chair. the reason i bring that up is that it is better to be safe than sorry, no one assumes bad things will happen until they do happen

[stewie]

this is where it differs, girls arnt going out raping guys.. its the guys raping the girls... and they are scum for even attempting let alone succeeding.

the only danger a guy is in going to a club is getting hit by another guy, or going home with an empty wallet...

ive heard wayyyy to many times that girls get taken advantage of, simple solution is to not put yourself in harms way.. it is tragic.. but it is life...

agreed.

guys get taken advantage of all the time at clubs. a girl will kiss a guy just to get a drink...and full on make out in a corner for a round of shots for her and her gf's and the guy. he can spend 100$ in 10 minutes while being led on.

ive been pushed around in a club just for lightly backing up back to back with another guy and he "spills" his drink all over his 200$ ed hardy shirt, so he retaliates to show the little bimbo at his side how macho he is.

but I def agree with your last statement, quit putting yourself in harms way...it doesn't mean do go out at all...just be aware and know that not every guy is a saint. guys buy drinks for girls with the intent of wooing them and taking them home.

[snails]

^ i covered everything you said, ei. guys go home with empty wallets and maybe a scrap at worse, but they are in control of their spending and most time in control if they wanna be in a fight or not

[SumAznGuy]

Been there, had that happen to a friend.
It may have happened and it may not have happened and as a friend, you shouldn't be judging or else she will never turn to you for anything.
As it stands, if it did happen, she should still go to the police and see the hospital. At the very least, the police will have those guys on file in case these guys do this to another girl.

In my friend's case, the perp did the same thing to his friend's sister and between the 2 witnessess from different incidents, the courts put him away for a few years.

They may have drugged her or maybe she couldn't handle her liquor. My friend claimed she felt off after drinking something but she has also been known to drink too much to the point she has no memory. Took my friend drinking with other friends and the next day she didn't remember what happened or that I drove her home.

[wstce92]

fuck Stewie, I want to thank every single one of your posts a thousand times

[T4RAWR]

everything I want to say has pretty much been covered by Stewie, so...



:facepalm:

[mk1freak]

get tested.
/ thread

stewie did cover it all.

[Manic!]

Call the cops make a report even if they can't do anything in this case it might help in other cases. The guy is raping girls now but how long before one ends up dead?

[jimmyrustler]

http://cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/400x/34612883.jpg

[Spidey]

Call the cops make a report even if they can't do anything in this case it might help in other cases. The guy is rapping girls now but how long before one ends up dead?

No one ever likes non consensual rapping

[SoNaRWaVe]

OP, get your friend tested ASAP for everything possible. No matter how slight the chance you think detecting the drug in her blood, just get it done. The sooner the better. Symptoms for certain diseases do not show up immediately. As mentioned, I am pretty certain that HIV/AIDS symptoms do not show up for 6 months, but a test can show that if they are positive or negative.

I would also highly recommended as suggested, to file a report with the police. If that said friend can be charged or not, or if your friend pursues it, you should probably consult with an officer. It that said friend has done it once, who is to say there aren't already more victims already.

I hope your friend deals with this traumatic event smoothly and prevents further incidents like this from ever happening again.

[Nlkko]

Tell her to go fucking get tested. I feel bad for the bf.

[murd0c]

maybe she was lying about the GHB part... Maybe she cheated on her B/F felt guilty after sleeping with him the next night and is now saying that so shes on a "cheater"

Even if she is telling the truth that is being beyond inconsiderate of her for doing that to her b/f and she really should know better... Not fucken cool what so ever and if I was her b/f ya it sucks but I would really contemplate breaking up with her since that could risk his life as well especially with all the STD's that are out there these days.

[Hondaracer]

That's pretty fucked that she knew what happened and still slept with the BF. if I was him I'd be ficking livid
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[corollagtSr5]

The best part is he still doesn't know. Secrets of Narnia.

[corollagtSr5]

Maybe he busted a nutter and gets prego's. Then tell's her boyfriend she's keeping it and he marrys her so she can stay and raise a child that's not even his.

[T4RAWR]

Maybe he busted a nutter and gets prego's. Then tell's her boyfriend she's keeping it and he marrys her so she can stay and raise a child that's not even his.

:lawl:

[dinosaur]

Maybe he busted a nutter and gets prego's. Then tell's her boyfriend she's keeping it and he marrys her so she can stay and raise a child that's not even his.

MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY!

[mk1freak]

Maybe he busted a nutter and gets prego's. Then tell's her boyfriend she's keeping it and he marrys her so she can stay and raise a child that's not even his.

:facepalm:

I can already see back into her past.......


"are you sure?"
"it's ok i'm on the pill"
"ok" pewpewpew

:speechless:

[mikemhg]

I've heard this kind of story way too many times, and 9 times out of 10, the girl put herself in that position, and is usually just saying that because she had buyer's remorse.

[GLOW]

MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY! MAURY!

classic...CLASSIC...

"i'm not 500 hun-i'm fi-THOUSAND puh-cent sure..."
:suspicious:
:considered:
:accepted:
YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER!!!! - YouTube

:fuckyea:

[Manic!]

I've heard this kind of story way too many times, and 9 times out of 10, the girl put herself in that position, and is usually just saying that because she had buyer's remorse.

You are telling me she wanted to get roofied and then get raped?

[!Yaminashi]

You are telling me she wanted to get roofied and then get raped?

I think what he means is that she got drunk and slept with a random dude, and is now regretting it so shes using the "i was date raped" excuse to get out of jail free

[spideyv2]

sl00ts gonna sl00t

http://cdn.styleforum.net/2/2f/2fde6722_36ctaw.jpeg

[snails]

"are you sure?"
"it's ok i'm on the pill"
"ok" pewpewpew



first thing that came to mind

https://si0.twimg.com/profile_images/369086753/pew-pew-pew-small.jpg

[Ulic Qel-Droma]

ketamine... dreamy... puking... disconnected from reality.

SOUNDS ABOUT RIGHT!

SOUNDS LIKE A GOOD TIME TO ME! LOL!!!!


i dont think u can even test for HIV for 6 months lol.

basically, she should just put this behind her and forget it. there's nothing she can salvage from this.

If she wants to feel dreamy, and not feel insertion (ill make sure to use lube this time), let her know. we can uh both go feel dreamy... yeah....

wanna feel dreamy?

[GLOW]

first thing that came to mind

https://si0.twimg.com/profile_images/369086753/pew-pew-pew-small.jpg

guess our minds work differently

http://i281.photobucket.com/albums/kk218/mijzelffan/pew-pew-perfection.gif

[!Tigger]

sooo....... update?

[ForeverYours]

Damn I came into this thread late :okay:

In for updates :Popcorn:

[Chronix]

Oh shit, sorry for the late update. Forgot about this thread.

I brought her to a clinic to get checked up. She caught chlamydia from the dude. Took antibiotics for a couple months or so. Still with the oblivious BF. She hasnt gone clubbing since.She is still traumatized by the experience.

[mr_chin]

Oh shit, sorry for the late update. Forgot about this thread.

I brought her to a clinic to get checked up. She caught chlamydia from the dude. Took antibiotics for a couple months or so. Still with the oblivious BF. She hasnt gone clubbing since.She is still traumatized by the experience.

I would call that lucky.

[Vale46Rossi]

classic...CLASSIC...

"i'm not 500 hun-i'm fi-THOUSAND puh-cent sure..."
:suspicious:
:considered:
:accepted:
YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER!!!! - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vt2i0ts-uck)

:fuckyea:


Wrong oneeee :D

Guile Theme goes with everything (Maury) - YouTube

[MindBomber]

Oh shit, sorry for the late update. Forgot about this thread.

I brought her to a clinic to get checked up. She caught chlamydia from the dude. Took antibiotics for a couple months or so. Still with the oblivious BF. She hasnt gone clubbing since.She is still traumatized by the experience.

The chick was diagnosed with chlamydia and underwent treatment, however, she did not tell her boyfriend - who she had sex before beginning treatment and probably during treatment. The boyfriend may therefore have contracted chlamydia from her and he's completely unaware, which is obviously unfair. If the boyfriend did contract chlamydia from her because he's not been treated he's probably passed it back to her, which completely negates the point of her ever undergoing treatment in the first place. She's a smart one. I'm not surprised she took a drink from a stranger.

[knight604]

Mmm ketamine

[maksimizer]

the amount of dumb in one thread is off the walls

[sekin67835]

At least OP delivers

[zilley]

LOL, please send this idiot bitch back to where ever she came from.

[jackmeister]

this should be sent to misc

[mr_chin]

Oh shit, sorry for the late update. Forgot about this thread.

I brought her to a clinic to get checked up. She caught chlamydia from the dude. Took antibiotics for a couple months or so. Still with the oblivious BF. She hasnt gone clubbing since.She is still traumatized by the experience.

Be a good friend, and a good person by telling her boyfriend that's she was infect and he is at risk. You might save more than just their lives.

[Chronix]

The chick was diagnosed with chlamydia and underwent treatment, however, she did not tell her boyfriend - who she had sex before beginning treatment and probably during treatment. The boyfriend may therefore have contracted chlamydia from her and he's completely unaware, which is obviously unfair. If the boyfriend did contract chlamydia from her because he's not been treated he's probably passed it back to her, which completely negates the point of her ever undergoing treatment in the first place. She's a smart one. I'm not surprised she took a drink from a stranger.

Lol, the time where they had sex right after the night, he did use a condom.

[FI-Z33]

Lol, the time where they had sex right after the night, he did use a condom.

Judging from this statement, they probably didn't always use a condom. Did it not occur to him why he's had to use condoms everytime for the few months she's been taking treatment? :suspicious: Unless, they never had sex at all for the whole duration, MindBomber is right.

HE'S GOT CHLAMYDIA. :heckno:

Man, your friend (girl) is stupid. :rukidding:

[mr_chin]

Judging from this statement, they probably didn't always use a condom. Did it not occur to him why he's had to use condoms everytime for the few months she's been taking treatment? :suspicious: Unless, they never had sex at all for the whole duration, MindBomber is right.

HE'S GOT CHLAMYDIA. :heckno:

Man, your friend (girl) is stupid. :rukidding:

Correct me if I am wrong, but the story is, she never told her boyfriend about the incident at all. So it would not occur to the still "oblivious" boyfriend why she's insisting on condoms.

Probably still living in a happy jolly fantasy that he's in a nice monogamous relationship where the only pussy he fucks is the cleanest and he'll never have to worry about STD as long as his gf is faithful.

[FI-Z33]

Correct me if I am wrong, but the story is, she never told her boyfriend about the incident at all. So it would not occur to the still "oblivious" boyfriend why she's insisting on condoms.

Probably still living in a happy jolly fantasy that he's in a nice monogamous relationship where the only pussy he fucks is the cleanest and he'll never have to worry about STD as long as his gf is faithful.

I was reflecting off of MindBomber's post about the STI sharing cycle. And what I meant was, if a guy has occasionally (not all the time) been using condoms with the gf, and all of a sudden she's been insisting on using condoms every time should throw him off...would it not?

Just a thought... =/

[yray]

Chlamydia antobiotics only take a week and a half unless there's intercourse with a host during the treatment period.

[corollagtSr5]

He went down on her and got Chlamydia in the mouth.

[fliptuner]

He went down on her and got Chlamydia in the mouth.

http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/95135/intheface-o.gif

[BrRsn]

yo on the plus side, chlamydia has a sick slang name

'the clam'

tl;dr

she got karma klamydia (serves her right)
her boyfriend is an r-tard for not suspecting anything
they will live happily ever after together -- or until he finds out he has chlamydia, confronts her about it, and she denies it and accuses him of cheating

:fuckthatshit:
:fuckthatshit:

[MindBomber]

I was reflecting off of MindBomber's post about the STI sharing cycle. And what I meant was, if a guy has occasionally (not all the time) been using condoms with the gf, and all of a sudden she's been insisting on using condoms every time should throw him off...would it not?

Just a thought... =/

Of course, Chronix's friend is straight-up lying over the condom use.

Chlamydia is very treatable but it is harmful to the female reproductive system. It eventually causes enough harm for pregnancy to no longer be possible.

Chronix, for your friend and her boyfriend's sake, you have to tell him.

Preventing the serious long-term health damage that she's causing herself and her boyfriend is of greater importance than breaking her trust.

[fliptuner]

It eventually causes enough harm for pregnancy to no longer be possible.

So you're saying it would facilitate her not being able to reproduce? :considered:

[cdizzle]

So you're saying it would facilitate her not being able to reproduce? :considered:

can also cause sterility for the male.

[flagella]

Wow... she's monumentally stupid.

[Chronix]

Why wont this thread dieeeeee lol

[melloman]

Because. :chairdance:

[Mike5.0 cammer]

the only danger a guy is in going to a club is getting hit by another guy, or going home with an empty wallet...



Not true my uncle was killed because some one druged his drink it don't mater if your a man, woman, or a trans gender you always watch you drink.

[GLOW]

Why wont this thread dieeeeee lol

it might if you tell the guy. do the right thing.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aMJYsnKTukk/SQLtpHY5jKI/AAAAAAAAACA/OKDLxGzjC2A/s200/Russell+Peters.jpg

[corollagtSr5]

Update: Vancouver man jailed 3-1/2 years for using date-rape drug in sexual assault (http://www.theprovince.com/touch/story.html?id=11563568)

"VANCOUVER — A Vancouver man who drugged and raped a woman during a date last summer has been sentenced to 3-1/2 years in prison.

Seyed Nima Razavi Zadeh, 33, was convicted of sexual assault and administering a stupefying drug (GHB) for the purpose of enabling sexual assault. He pleaded guilty before his trial to two breaches of a recognizance.

Zadeh was sentenced in provincial court in Vancouver on Tuesday.

According to the written reasons for sentence, Zadeh met the victim, identified as J.C., at the Lower Mainland restaurant where she worked as a server in July 2014.

He suggested they go on a date and she gave him her phone number. A few days later, he proposed that they go out on July 11.

Zadeh picked J.C. up and they planned to go for drinks. However, he said he wanted to stop by his apartment first to change his clothes.

At Zadeh’s apartment, he offered J.C. a drink. She had a gin and tonic, which he prepared, and then he offered tequila shots. J.C. accepted. She noticed that one of the shooters tasted salty, but didn’t think much about it.

J.C. felt impaired soon after drinking the salty-tasting tequila shot. Zadeh followed her onto the balcony and touched her vaginal area over her clothing. Later in the evening, he brought her into his room and had sex with her as she went in and out of consciousness.

J.C. woke up at about 5:30 a.m. and left the apartment. She went home and then to the police to report the rape.

The police arrested Zadeh and searched his apartment, where they found GHB in a tequila bottle and in an energy drink.

According to a pre-sentence report, Zadeh has struggled with alcohol and substance abuse. He began experimenting with GHB in 2011 after the death of a close friend and has a history of depression.

During his 351 days in custody, he has been assaulted three times. The most recent assault, in July, took place after someone left an article about Zadeh’s offence in the general population. Zadeh suffered severe facial fractures and still has nerve damage.

Judge Gregory Rideout took Zadeh’s personal circumstances and recent assault into consideration, along with the victim’s concern for her personal safety and lack of trust in men.

Rideout sentenced Zadeh to 3-1/2 years in prison for the drugging and assault, minus 18 months of credit for time served, leaving two years in his sentence. He was given a suspended sentence for the breaches, and three years of probation.

Conditions of his probation include abstaining from drugs and alcohol, having no contact with the victim and abstaining from contact or communication with any adult female in a private place unless an immediate family member is present or he has written permission from his probation officer.

Zadeh is also the subject of a civil forfeiture proceeding. The B.C. Civil Forfeiture office is trying to seize Zadeh’s condominium — which he signed over to his mother for $1 — because the property was used “as an instrument of unlawful activity.”

A notice of civil claim filed in July alleges that Zadeh used the apartment for a sexual assault on a prior occasion, but charges in that case were stayed."

[XplicitLuder]

good to hear he got beat up while incarcerated. What a piece of shit

[DanHibiki]

Sorry I'm late to the party and just skimmed through this thread but were their any replies from any girls on this forum about this?

This forum IS predominately male after all and so naturally most posts regarding women would have a hint of bias and mainly only looked at from a logical point of view.

From what I learned about international girls and girls who have been through men-induced trauma, I think people are being a bit harsh on this girl.

[Inaii]

Sorry I'm late to the party and just skimmed through this thread but were their any replies from any girls on this forum about this?

This forum IS predominately male after all and so naturally most posts regarding women would have a hint of bias and mainly only looked at from a logical point of view.

From what I learned about international girls and girls who have been through men-induced trauma, I think people are being a bit harsh on this girl.

3 girls chimed in that I can see.

[Mr.HappySilp]

I am pretty sure at this stage the girl would have told her bf. And the girl doesn't sound like the smartest girl out there.

First thing she should get herself check out and then go to the police and let her family and bf know. I would think any bf at that point would offer support and not leave her. Now both of them are inflected.