[Razor Ramon HG]

I've been seeing this girl now for almost two months, and I've ran into this awkward problem of premature ejaculation.

PE not as in blowing my load before anything happens, but blowing my load within a minute of intercourse.

I've never ran into this problem, and it's been very embarassing for me. I've been with various girls, never ran into this problem, so it's very frustrating for me.

It happens about 90% of the time. For the times I don't blow my load instantly, I'll usually be able to last for over 30 minutes.

Anyone else ran into this problem before? It's puzzling because I had sex with another girl a month prior to my current relationship and everything was fine. I'm thinking of trying the desensitizing condoms.

Thanks
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[SkinnyPupp]

Never had that problem but I heard if you fap before you see her it helps

[Razor Ramon HG]

Last night, we had sex at 9, and the problem came up. Had sex again at midnight and I lasted just the same.
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[SkinnyPupp]

Weird. She must be really fucken hot or a tranny

[murd0c]

how is she with it? The typical reason why it happens is due to it being in the mind most of the time, Just try to fuck like rabbits and hopefully you will get comfortable enough which will help fix it. Try something new, Put it in a couple pumps take it out go down on her which may help things as well. Go polish one off in the washroom before maybe?

For me for some reason U cum way quicker with condoms for some odd reason which drives me crazy but as long as the women is satisfied before hand the rest will work it's self out.

[Qmx323]

For me this was a mental issue.

Eager to "impress" her

Eager to bust.

[DC2aDDicT]

Stop in the middle and pleasure her so you can calm yourself down.
OR
Get high or buzzed from alcohol should do the trick.

[Mr.Money]

you're carrying a loaded gun for too long...don't have sex for a whole month and you're trying to hold out for 30 minutes....IMPOSSIBLE

[stewie]

Take a few shots 20 minutes prior to calm your mind. :p

But if your gonna pop in 1 minute with her (I'm sure we've all been there before, I sure have a few times), always change things up every few seconds. Do 4-8 deep fast thrusts, switch it up to 4-8 shallow ones, pull it out to tease her, and repeat. If it helps, try doing your kegal exercise things...you can press down on the head to delay it...can squeeze hard right at the base for a few seconds...weirdly enough I've been told that when it starts to feel good, try to push out a fart (try not to actually fast though lol), it'll put pressure on the prostate...or if you need to take a finger or two and push up hard on your gooch/taint(area between your butt hole and sac) to make it stop lol


But it's all in your head, similar to performance anxiety --> You think so much about it that you won't be able to get it up from thinking "will I please her? What if I can't? She'll think I'm a loser! I need to bring my A game! I hope I can do this!!!" But nope...so much nervous thinking and your fucked


If all else fails, some salon/spa places sell a desensitizing cream that's used prior to waxing 'certain areas', put a dab on your hand and rub it around, throw on a condom(so she doesn't get numb as well) and have at 'er
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[evlee]

when you know your about to blow, stop and begin 4play pleasure her till you cool off then ram her again, this works for me and sex will last 2hours mininum.

[ewong]

I found that clenching my butt muscles near climax helps with endurance. Practice this by doing squats.

[pinn3r]

Never had that problem but I heard if you fap before you see her it helps

can confirm. i've experimented with this

a week of no fap, then sex with gf: load blows in <10min
fap day before, then sex with gf: can last significantly longer; usually 30-40min

what also works (for me, in the case of an emergency) if you're about to erupt is to slap it a couple times; not too hard, but don't go soft on it either. there's something about slapping it that makes your body "forget" about the ejaculation
basically a reset button

[finbar]

The piss horn.

Having to power whizz prevents blowing the beans.



Edit;
That said, tell her the deal. Figuring out whoopee is a fun activity.

[DragonChi]

try using a cock ring.

[Dangerphoto]

Squats and the kegal exercise will do you wonders. Helps build some proper muscles too. Good luck HG.

[Puck Luck]

I agree with having a few drinks before showtime. It always makes me last alot longer. I'm not talking stinkin drunk, just a few.

[supremematt85]

Last night, we had sex at 9, and the problem came up. Had sex again at midnight and I lasted just the same.
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Try some pelvic thrust while shouting out HAAAAAADDUUU GAAAYYYYY
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[GGnoRE]

Wear a thick condom

[MasonJar]

As long as she gets off, it doesn't really matter when you shoot.

Get her off during foreplay (more than once, if you/she can) and then fuck her till you blow. This will result in:

1-She has an orgasm so it doesn't matter how fast you cum.
2-If it is a mental thing, know she has already cum maybe help you from shooting too fast.

You can also get a vibrator and use it during sex. The vibrator with make her sum super fast so it won't matter when you blow.

[Razor Ramon HG]

This situation is frustrating for me, and to a degree I guess my girlfriend. It's frustrating because I'm not doing anything different than what I used to do with others, and I'm not sure where I am going wrong.

I don't think it's performance anxiety.. I always give her an orgasm with my tongue or fingers, so she's always satisfied. But I guess the lingering thought in the back of my head that I might finish early that could result in me finishing earlier.

I don't have the same problem with blowjobs, just when we have intercourse.

Everyone mentions to fap prior to meeting her, but I do spend a lot of time with her and we often crash at her house at night. Even though we have sex quite regularly, it's hard to anticipate when for a fap. And alcohol is a bit tricky since I can't rely on it to keep up my stamina, although we did both get drunk last night and had some wild sex, hahaha.

I will look up kegel exercises, and try some of the other tips posted here.

[2 n r]

Get your hands on some cialus or Viagra lol
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[320icar]

I had this problem with one of my exes years ago. She was sort of messed up by years of shitty bf's (think douches that blow then roll over and sleep, no attention to her) and so she didn't even know her own body. Was frustrating for both of us because almost nothing could make her orgasm. And the stress translated to me and it was just a horrible situation.

With my current SO, a few weeks ago she was stone drunk but i was the designated driver. Mind blowing sex and i lasted like a champ! I think something about the situation made me super relaxed or something. Brought it up the next day, and she couldn't remember most of the night before

#feelsbadman
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[spideyv2]

performance anxiety of peace

try breathing into your balls srs

How To Breathe Into Your Balls Like A Boss - YouTube

[6thGear.]

You can always try this exercise (alone or with her) Start with a HJ, as you start to feel your load coming, stop the stroking and hold it in, then repeat. Every time you feel you're cumming, go just a little further to "train" yourself. After a few times of doing this (different for every guy) you'll end up not PE-ing and will actually hold it in. Another thing is this, after your initial load, do you go limp or are you able to hold an erection? This is also something you can train yourself to do. After your initial cum, do what you can (or her) to maintain your erection. My problem is when I'm with a new girl, I can hold it no prob (first time with the last gf I didn't even cum) but afterwards when it's a real relationship and I've developed feelings, I cum in the first 5 min. Not sure why that happens to me, but I ended up learning how to stay hard even after initial load. Now with my current gf, we both cum within the first 5 min, but I still stay hard for her to cum a 2nd time like 10 min later. Then it's literally all me for the next 20- 30 min of straight fucking till I cum again. Sometimes I don't even cum a 2nd time but that's usually when we're on vacation and its the 3rd/4th day of straight sex. LOL.

Try this tips. IMO much better that fapping beforehand (I think of that as cheating) cause it will make sex a lot better for both of you. I've found maintaining an erection works pretty good for me. Never had any complaints, if anything, the complaint is that I take so long to cum a 2nd time...lol.

[320icar]

^^^ staying hard is easy. I just hate my sloppy seconds LOL
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[Hehe]

I think it's all about relaxing and don't just hump all the way until the point you are nearly cum?

I had a similar problem when I first started having sexual relationships, and it's mainly because I was way too horny. Now I take my time with sex, try different positions... etc.

And if you happen to time yourself, you can realize you don't do much past the average time (about 4min for men, 10~20 for women). But the benefit to men is that, for us to reach the orgasm, it's usually 4~7min on the actual intercourse (non-stop humping) and anything that interrupts the "non-stop" motion would prolong that.

[Jegz]

Pop an M and cialus. Youll last for hours.

[SkinnyPupp]

I have an unrelated question

When and why did MDMA stop being called "ecstacy" or "E" or "X" in the 90's and up, and start getting called "molly" or "M"?

I know this makes me seem old, but I don't get the name change.. Did other drugs change their names too?

[2 n r]

x is a mixture of mdma and some other junk
mdma is "pure"

and also google definition:
MDMA is an empathogenic drug of the phenethylamine and amphetamine classes of drugs. MDMA has become widely known as "ecstasy", usually referring to its street pill form, although this term may also include the presence of possible adulterants

[SkinnyPupp]

x is a mixture of mdma and some other junk
mdma is "pure"

and also google definition:
MDMA is an empathogenic drug of the phenethylamine and amphetamine classes of drugs. MDMA has become widely known as "ecstasy", usually referring to its street pill form, although this term may also include the presence of possible adulterants
That doesn't really answer the question, as when you buy X you are (or should) know what's in it (if anything) other than MDMA

Just wondering where and why the name was changed. Other than pop stars use it in their songs (unless that's the reason)

[aznkev03]

Nowadays M can have just as much "junk" as E. I think the streets just needed a name for the powder form of the drug, since that is now what is trending.
AFAIK E refers to the pressed pill and M refers to the powder form.
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[cruz-in]

i had it a while back... it was stress though.

[Jmac]

I assume you're using a condom. If so, try a small amount of desensitizing (numbing) lubricant inside the condom.

If you're not using a condom, use a condom. I last a lot longer with a condom than without.

[mr_chin]

This situation is frustrating for me, and to a degree I guess my girlfriend. It's frustrating because I'm not doing anything different than what I used to do with others, and I'm not sure where I am going wrong.

I don't think it's performance anxiety.. I always give her an orgasm with my tongue or fingers, so she's always satisfied. But I guess the lingering thought in the back of my head that I might finish early that could result in me finishing earlier.

I don't have the same problem with blowjobs, just when we have intercourse.

Everyone mentions to fap prior to meeting her, but I do spend a lot of time with her and we often crash at her house at night. Even though we have sex quite regularly, it's hard to anticipate when for a fap. And alcohol is a bit tricky since I can't rely on it to keep up my stamina, although we did both get drunk last night and had some wild sex, hahaha.

I will look up kegel exercises, and try some of the other tips posted here.

I don't know why, but for me, if I do it fast and hard, I tend to last longer.

The mentality of just giving it to her overcomes the feeling of wanting to finish.

If I go slow and consistent however, I can finish in less than 5 min while concentrating and focusing on visual whether it's her tits, face, eyes, whatever. If I'm busy nailing her, it's not going to come plus I'm sort of desensitizing myself.

[wyuzz]

I never thought I'll have to face this issue until recently when I was trying to get it in, I was able to get an erection but once the rubber goes on top it deflates like running your tires over a rusty nail :(

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[SkinnyPupp]

I never thought I'll have to face this issue until recently when I was trying to get it in, I was able to get an erection but once the rubber goes on top it deflates like running your tires over a rusty nail :(

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OP has the opposite problem as you

[Ri2]

First off, props to her for inducing this problem for you the first time in your life. She must be dope at what she's doing.

How many times a week would you say you guys have sex? Do you try taking breaks/going on a time out inbetween? When I feel like he's gonna finish too fast I put him on a time out, whatever I'm/we're doing just stops completely and we take a couple minutes to get our shit back together.

Try desensitizing lube/cream if you can and see how that helps. Penis rings also help.

On another note, your sexual performance may just be changing with age. If this is the case, accept the limited stroke number you have and just work with it. Put her in like 9 different positions in the 5 mins you have and she'll feel like you just killed it hahaha. I wouldn't see a chick having a problem with this if she is genuinely satisfied from everything else (tongue,hands,foreplay etc.). Ask her if it bothers her, if she says no honestly then I wouldn't worry too much about it.

[hal0g0dv2]

just lick her butthole
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[BoostedBB6]

You say that you dont to anything different with her than any other girls you have been with. Perhaps you should look at doing something else, something that you are not used to. Something that keeps you thinking about what you are doing, not the end result.

If all else fails, practice up on that tongue technique....

[MelonBoy]

That doesn't really answer the question, as when you buy X you are (or should) know what's in it (if anything) other than MDMA

Just wondering where and why the name was changed. Other than pop stars use it in their songs (unless that's the reason)

Generally from what i've been told (I asked the same question lol)

The general difference between M and X is the potency/high.
Like the guy above said, by definition its suppose to be more "pure" but general sense.

M = generally easier high, more control, cleaner come down, and you don't feel as "dirty/shitty" the next day. (usually a powder form in a pill)

X = generally speaking you should expect to be a lot higher then taking M, less controlled, heavier come down, and apparently you feel very "dirty/shitty" the next day. (usually a pressed cap/pill)

I could be totally wrong. This is what i've been told...




Anyways back on to topic.. kind of.
I have the opposite of P.ejact. There are time when I'm trying to get off but cant.. Ill be going at it for 30mins+ but won't bust or takes along time. Anyone else have this problem?

[smoothie.]

its in your head.

this girl must be a keeper

[Vansterdam]

:fullofwin::jizz:

[jasonturbo]

OP, that's hardly a problem, I find it damn near impossible to bust!!!!! I wish I had your "problem"!

Straight up, for me to get off, I have to be like slamming her doggie, lights on, STARRING at her butt hole, she's playing with my balls, meanwhile in the back of my mind I have to imagine like 2 midget ladyboy's trying to play airtight with me, and the humidity in the room has to be just right and there can't be any distractions... and maybe I'll bust. Anything goes wrong, it's over, doesn't matter what it is, could be the fucking cat across the room rolled over from his stomach to his back and I didn't even see/hear it, and BAM, I lost it, game over.

So even though I can appreciate you are frustrated, I think my "problem" is much worse than yours.

I am 100% serious, porn abuse and my early 20's has completely ruined me.

I'm sorry i can't offer you any advice.

[zilley]

I dont see why you would want to bust one out first before going into sex.
your dick is half sore during the 2nd time.

personally I find cardio helps, its actually a big difference for me.
If I slack off and eat like shit then I perform like shit, but when I eat clean and workout hard, then I perform like a champ.

just personal experience.

[320icar]

^^ that actually makes a big difference. I found hitting the gym 5 days a week boosted my drive and performance. Funny enough, doing hot yoga for a month made me perform much better . Not sure why
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[jasonturbo]

^^ that actually makes a big difference. I found hitting the gym 5 days a week boosted my drive and performance. Funny enough, doing hot yoga for a month made me perform much better . Not sure why
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Cause you were slamming yoga sloots?

[320icar]

Lol. Go to hot yoga, and you find they are all 40+ year old women.

The only hot sexy women in yoga pants have never actually gone to a yoga class in their life
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[Razor Ramon HG]

Just an update:

Doing much better these days. I feel a lot more confident and it's not so much of a worry anymore.

I tried using the extended pleasure condoms, but it just desensitized me so much I felt nothing.

I remember a previous thread on porn and no fap. Been following it cutting them both out, and I believe it has contributed greatly. In addition, I've been waking up more regularly (school) and have started hitting the gym again with a weight lifting regime with some cardio.

Thanks to those that didn't treat this as a joke thread. Your replies helped.

[mqin]

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[anxiety]

she's pretty hot, I can confirm. Just not sure if it's her real face since 99% of Korean girls had plastic surgeries

[Hhoang]

Good to hear bernie!
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LOOOOL
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[NKC ONE]

For me, I find the problem of PE more prevalent when I'm less physically active. My performance and endurance increases significantly when I play more sports. Been doing a lot of Plyometrics lately to get back in shape and play better basketball. The wife loves it:ifyouknow:

[BBMme]

^
I 100% agree. I believe working out your legs will improve your performance.

[!Yaminashi]

You should never skip leg day in the first place :ifyouknow:

[320icar]

Sigh. This morning, checking in... :(
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